Light or Dark side of the DJ force

[00Kevin]

I was about to go toward the light side, but after some thought I now know that is a waste of my time.

From now on, if a woman wants to be my friend she can prove it and act like a friend. but until she proves it, I won't lift a finger or even say a word in her direction.

Women don't know how to be friends with a guy so don't even try to be friends to her. If they are friends with you it is because they like you or they can't have you for some reason. Single HB's will never go out of their way to be friends with you! So don't even bother to go out of your way for them.

I say pursue a woman until she 'just wants to be friends' and then Next her ass and make sure you tell her that she is GONE! It is a coward of a man that can't confront a woman.

Women base their success on the relationships they have.
If you next her, she won't be able to handle it and she will try to amend things. If she comes back to you tell her to prove it and also tell her that you are not interested in her anymore.

The Dark Side is kicking ass, that should tell everyone something.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by 00Kevin
how many of you guys think

a. men should just next girls that say they only want to be friends and not care (dark side of the force).

or

b. men should enjoy the pursuit of all women and shouldn't next girls that only want to be friends (light side of the force)

You have your poll all screwed up and here's how:

you called nexting them when they say they only want to be friends the dark side. I say it's the light side. Here is why:

a) to continue to wait around and try to score is a negative. Your putting your ego in the basement after being rejected romantically.

b) to move on is a show of strength that you dont need her arse.

c) Both sides of your criteria enjoy the chase of the creature that man named wo-man. But your saying that being her friend and sitting around listening to her whine about the real man who keeps dogging her out as being light...uhh no. Think about what would be going through your head as she is sitting there whinning after rejecting your love.

d) this is only self hatred and self torture and I say it's dark.

 

[Chaos-Knight]

I disagree with you Player_Supreme,

The light side is nice to woman believing friends are possable,

The Dark Side cares not about friendship with pu$$y that
is inaccessable and a money-pit and waste of time.


I do have a few female friends,But all others that LJBF me
are history

 

[Chaos-Knight]

Opps - Double posted!

 

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personally i think the whole "light and dark" thing is a load of wank. its probably closer to "supplicating unoriginal AFC versus a man".

but if you really have to go with the whole "light and dark" bullsh1t then player surpreme is right on the money and there around the wrong way, the guy who settles for the male girlfriend role (the easy route 90 % of the western male population will take) is dark not light.

and this bit:

b. men should enjoy the pursuit of all women and shouldn't next girls that only want to be friends

shes obviously already nexted him after hes made it clear he wants to bang her, so why in gods name would any man degrade himself by sticking around?.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Chaos-Knight
I disagree with you Player_Supreme,

The light side is nice to woman believing friends are possable,

The Dark Side cares not about friendship with pu$$y that
is inaccessable and a money-pit and waste of time.


I do have a few female friends,But all others that LJBF me
are history

I see your point of view but look at it from this angle:

1. In my life women are not a money pit or waste of time to me. I don't pay for dates and rarely do I take them anywhere unless they are paying. If you want proof I can supply that via emails of women offering to pay for our dates just to spend time with me.

2. Being a womans friend is heavier than you think. That means as a friend you have to listen to the problems in her little emotional life. And that is a burden I would gladly do without. Being her emotional tampoon is not something anybody should take lightly (pun intended).

3. Now also as a womans friend she will expect you to pay quite often when you take her out so she can whine about the darkness in her life...so your getting a double whammy. Your pocket book and you just had to listen to her whine about some guy like me after she had turned you down for "hittin it". Think about that.

You wanted to shag her butt and now some bad boy is hittin it and writing his name all in the lining of her vaginal area and breaking her heart too boot...but she is addicted to it..andkeeps going back for more abuse.

Bad boy doesn't pay and walks all over her and you have to sit there and take it when deep in the back of your mind your saying "good you ho you should of chose me instead when you had the chance"

Now who is carrying the heavy load. You with your rejection deep in your head and having to listen to her?

OHHH HELL NAW you should be saying right about now.

Or the guy who said "no pvssy-then no way" and walked on to score with even better babes and have more fun than ever before and has totally forgot about her rejection.

Now who's load is heavier?

LOL I think it's pretty obvious!

I would rather find women to shag than have to sit there and rub some womans feet and listen to her whine about how bad her man is treating her silly butt.

 

[squirrels]

I'm still completely lost on how not wasting your romantic energy on someone who is not romantically interested in you is the "dark side." Or how exerting romantic effort when a woman has already identified herself as uninterested romantically as the "light side."

In other words, this poll makes no sense.

 

[00Kevin]

light or dark side it doesn't really mater. I picked the dark side for those DJ's that next to see if they would pick (what is in my opinion) the correct path even if it was labeled as the dark side.

This poll has nothing to do with AFC's

The light side:
I will not listen to what a HB says and just pursue with full confidence anyway. I won't become her puppy and I won't take **** from her. I just ignore what she says and I believe that by not nexting her I have a long term investment on my hands. I go after many girls at the same time but only next under extreme circumstances. If she says that she only wants to be friends then I just say 'ok no problem", date other girls. My circle of firends that are girls is important to me. The girl that just wants to be friends has friends that I might want. It's all about your game.

The dark side:
There are so many girls out there why waste my time with those that only want to be friends. I have more important things to do with my life. I don't care WTF she thinks. Women must fight for my time. I am man, and I don't live to please women. I am not a desperate fool who needs female friends. I do what I want in my life without any need of them. The goals in my life don't include a woman. Women come to me naturally because they want to be a part of my life and they can see that I am powerfull without them. If a woman says something I don't like I tell her off. passion for my own life makes me strong, my strength makes me powerfull, and my power attracts women naturally.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

You people amuse me. You talk about and treat women like they are some evil invasionforce that needs to be DEALT WITH!

Haha maybe it's cause I've never been burnt by a girl or never had a girl fvck me over. Nothing like female friends, they are great. Sure they talk, except from my closest female friends I know that if I tell them something other people will hear about it, I don't care, actually it's good.

Girls are just like boys, only difference is tits and pvssy and the fact that they give me a hardon. Girls are cool, fun, pretty, lovely, gorgeous, great, passionate, romantic, supportive, helpfull and what not.

Get the idiotic hostile mentality towards girls out of your fvcking heads, it's nonsense and counter-active.

 

[macknetikcharm]

Deff-initely the dark side. I'll chop a bytchez hand off inna minute. lol Experience has outweighed hope in my mind.
"the circle is now complete"-- Darth Vader

 

[SDBmania]

Too tuff to choose but.......

I guess I'm on the dark side! Well, being an introvert, I don't really hang out with people. There is an exception, this is a girl from class that I really would like to go out with. However, if she only wants to be friends then that's ok. I just don't feel like I want to have tons of girls who are friends, but not girl friends. I'm not a big fan of having a very active social life. I like having time to myself.

 

[tactic]

Star Wars?

 

[Hollowpoint]

bah, i don't distinguish it like that
if you (she) wanna be friends, fine, introduce me to some of YOUR friends

I like/don't mind keeping hot friends

 

[Lone_raider]

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
You people amuse me. You talk about and treat women like they are some evil invasionforce that needs to be DEALT WITH!

LOL That was hillarious. Besides women ARE an evil invasion force that need to be delt with lol Man the walls, here come the blondes with high heels and designer purses!

 

[darkofthematinee]

Nothin wrong being friends with girls, but some girls just lie. They say LJBF, when they really meant to say "Die slow ****head!" (LOL @ ******** - I just tell em straight :d)

Cool ex's and good girls that don't wanna be with you but make the effort in a friendship (pretty rare, but has happened before) are worth being friends with.

Apart from that, you got your mum and your sis (long as they're still with you) - keep them close.

 

[BlackJackal]

Dark side of course.

 

[organizedconfusion]

or 3) admit that you are all just a bunch of approval seeking idiots basing your entire indenities as men on the pursuit of woman! :wave:

 

[Demon]

I'm in a Dark Side mood; otherwise, I'd say Light Side.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

This past October 25th to November 30th, 2006, I succumbed to the dark side of the force, and did a female friend purge in accordance with Order 66 (i.e. the Great Jedi purge in Star Wars before the Evil Galactic Empire) to start the New DJ Empire. But now, Rebel forces have won again, and it's now back to the New Galactic Republic again. But the Sith is lurking, and looking for a premise to institute yet another Empire that will purge off all the new female friends I'm currently making all over again, if I still cant get any action.

I answered yes to the dark side of DJ - but with me it's more like a story plot with various month's sector balancing both the dark and light sides of the DJ force in order to balance the equation.

 

[Ninja Bob]

Dark Side. When you NEXT them and mean it, the look on their faces is priceless. There are too many women out here willing to let you drop the hammer to get caught up playing the friend role.