Lifting is really important...

[3agle 3yes]

So are you guys telling me that you don't know anyone who attracts women and isn't muscular are "model" looking?

Alot of truth here. However, fit is always more attractive than fat.

Of course, but weight is binary (there are in-betweens)...most men aren't even fat. It's like what I already posted:

Assuming your not fat or out of shape it really isn't necessary to be muscular.

And lifting weights not only makes it so much easier to pick up chicks, it also makes you healthy and makes sex a lot better. You don't have to waste your time focusing on things like personality, humour, charm, conversation etc..

No offence bradd80 but this is clearly a cop out. If you can't make a woman "feel" anything (i.e. if you're a bore) there is nothing you can do to put things in your favour.

All the guys I know who get no women all have the same things in common:

They're polite people who do nothing to offend anyone, they speak in a calm monotone like way and they don't have anything interesting going on in their lives....and there's more.

Any woman who orbits a man just because he lifts clearly has insecurity issues.

Having personality, humour and charm DOESN'T attract women. What attracts them is the fact that when a man behaves in such a way, he shows that he is in control of his emotions and he is an exciting person. The opposite of this is a man who has no personality, is too serious and boring.

A man's physical appearance is SUPERFICIAL, if you can't back it up she will lose interest in a matter of minutes.

Guess why I know so much about this?

 

[Between_The_Lines]

Basically everything is poisonous these days ... if you eat too much or you are not informed you get ****ed up.

Aflatoxin

Peanuts may easily become moldy after being stored in warm, humid silos, with a toxic mold called Aspergillus flavus and A. parasiticus. This mold produces a very toxic substance called aflatoxin that can cause cancer. Of course other crops carry the mold — such as pecans, pistachios and walnuts, as well as milk, grains, soybeans and spices.
- See more at: http://realfoodforager.com/why-i-gave-up-peanut-butter/#sthash.KSDskMRL.dpuf

Great, so given the amount of peanut butter I've eaten in the last year and a half or so, I probably have a year or two to knock out my bucket list.

 

[sambwoy]

Studying in my dorm common room, I saw a girl I know in front of me browsing pics of famous men with their shirts off for about 30 minutes or so.

She definitely kind of had a longing look in her eyes >_>

Working out will help a lot in attracting the females. It may not be 100% necessary for a girl to like you, but it'll definitely help a ton. Just thought I'd share - women 'mire pretty hard too.

All that seems to me is she gets off just by looking through the prism of a computer screen. No hard body is an indication that the men are secure in themselves. All the media is to me is a brainwashing cult. Shuts people off from reality.

Alas there is a reason why I don't even have many female friends.

 

[Genos]

All that seems to me is she gets off just by looking through the prism of a computer screen. No hard body is an indication that the men are secure in themselves. All the media is to me is a brainwashing cult. Shuts people off from reality.

Alas there is a reason why I don't even have many female friends.

The same holds true for all of us, women and men included. I prefer certain physical traits in women; I have my own "type" that I find myself more attracted to. Everyone has their own particular things they like and consider 'ideal' in physical appearance. This doesn't mean the media has brainwashed us into it! (though perhaps there's some truth to this >__>)

I'm fairly certain that women prefer a fit man over one who is out of shape, just as men prefer women who manage their weight, and are slim and smexy.

And this girl is just a normal girl - I've gotten to know her over the course of the semester. I've seen her talking to a few different guys, none of which are ripped or extremely athletic, and she seems happy. Occasionally checking out pics of a body figure that she likes seems reasonable to me.

To be physically strong is also quite beneficial. I do not think it is insecure to try to work out, or to try and look your best. Rather it's what you should strive for, to be at your peak of health. You shouldn't be working out solely to attract women, you should be doing it to keep yourself in shape, be strong, and reap the numerous benefits of regular exercise. I do however think it's a good motivator to also realize that women will respond to you more if you're physically fit!

Finally, this quote from socrates resonated with me: http://i.imgur.com/m4nnxy4.jpg. Take all this with a grain of salt, I'm no expert with women. Just some of my musings on how working out/lifting can help make you more attractive to women. Lifting may certainly help open the door, but Eagle Eyes is right, it's still no substitute for having a solid personality.

 

[sambwoy]

The same holds true for all of us, women and men included. I prefer certain physical traits in women; I have my own "type" that I find myself more attracted to. Everyone has their own particular things they like and consider 'ideal' in physical appearance. This doesn't mean the media has brainwashed us into it! (though perhaps there's some truth to this >__>)

Well you could buy into the whole 'certain features are health indicators' or go by the neanderthal theory of women preferring taller men, but I dunno.

Sometimes some women are influenced by many things, such as peer pressure/cliques and/or the media.

 

[sambwoy]

Through most of my youth, I have always thought there was an immense pressure as a man to get as much as APPROVAL from women, never mind ATTRACTION, if their behaviour is anything to go by.

Example, through my college days I can remember the hurt with the girls there, laughing at me just for existing and worse. Why would they do that? How in our anti-violent society can we deal with these conflicts?

Now I am just aloof.

There are reported acts of misandry, double standards, the objectification of men/women debate, but its easier for people to be quiet so you are a voice in amongst a load of mutes, and the problem worsens. Is it me? Are these articles I read some kind of illusion?