Let me give you a quick profile of myself. Im 26 years of age. I live alone, have a few friends but most of them aren't that close and my social life isnt as active as it could be. I dont have a car, but I generally dont miss it. And as the topic suggests I have no "knowledge" of women. As a result of a combination of social cowardice and personal obstacles, I simply never tried.
Im sure this may seem strange, pathetic or even repulsive to some of you, but suffice it to say that if you dont start life out on the right foot its easy to miss out on things.
Lately though things have been changing. Ive been taking care of myself a little better of late. Also, in the last year or two Ive come to realize that I have a certain- I think the word to use might be Mojo-with women. Through some combination of looks, the way I hold myself and personal mystery a number of women seem to find me interesting. Naturally Ive let all opportunities up to this point slip away based on a series of excuses and(some good, others not so much) and the fact that I wasn't "sure".
Which brings me to my current situation. Most of these girls Ive met through work. While the original batch that seemed to be fascinated with me are gone(there were about 3 or 4 of them) Ive stuck around and new girls get hired. One of them is a shy asian girl who started working a short while ago. Tonight, after coming in a bit late her apology sounded oddly personal and solemn. So I took whatever opportunities presented themselves to speak to this girl, and she seems glad to do so(here Im not only picking up on some signals but acting on them immediatly, which is highly uncharacteristic for me). When she talks about a trip to Hawaii when she was younger I bring up a similar trip to Beliz, and after talking for a while and telling her some stories, she says "maybe we can go there someday" and sort of slinks out of sight.
Okay, Ill admit that I can be dense. But not that dense.
So the girl is interested in me, and Im interested in her. Somehow Ive managed to do thing right for a change, rapport has been established as you would say and I even know how Im going to ask her out(its my intention to start a conversation about my humble ambition to learn to dance). Im pretty confident that she is going to say yes.
I guess after all that information my questions are going to seem a bit general. Im not even nervous about asking her out when I see her next(in about 4-5 days) but once Ive done that how do I maintain what Ive established and escalate things?
Im sure this may seem strange, pathetic or even repulsive to some of you, but suffice it to say that if you dont start life out on the right foot its easy to miss out on things.
Lately though things have been changing. Ive been taking care of myself a little better of late. Also, in the last year or two Ive come to realize that I have a certain- I think the word to use might be Mojo-with women. Through some combination of looks, the way I hold myself and personal mystery a number of women seem to find me interesting. Naturally Ive let all opportunities up to this point slip away based on a series of excuses and(some good, others not so much) and the fact that I wasn't "sure".
Which brings me to my current situation. Most of these girls Ive met through work. While the original batch that seemed to be fascinated with me are gone(there were about 3 or 4 of them) Ive stuck around and new girls get hired. One of them is a shy asian girl who started working a short while ago. Tonight, after coming in a bit late her apology sounded oddly personal and solemn. So I took whatever opportunities presented themselves to speak to this girl, and she seems glad to do so(here Im not only picking up on some signals but acting on them immediatly, which is highly uncharacteristic for me). When she talks about a trip to Hawaii when she was younger I bring up a similar trip to Beliz, and after talking for a while and telling her some stories, she says "maybe we can go there someday" and sort of slinks out of sight.
Okay, Ill admit that I can be dense. But not that dense.
So the girl is interested in me, and Im interested in her. Somehow Ive managed to do thing right for a change, rapport has been established as you would say and I even know how Im going to ask her out(its my intention to start a conversation about my humble ambition to learn to dance). Im pretty confident that she is going to say yes.
I guess after all that information my questions are going to seem a bit general. Im not even nervous about asking her out when I see her next(in about 4-5 days) but once Ive done that how do I maintain what Ive established and escalate things?