life is so unfair...

[dave007]

ill be frank...ive never had a gf..for the 12 years of my school...because the first 10 years i was too busy being a nerd...the first half to my 11th year i wasted in wat i had been doing for the past years..the rest half tried to change myself..try and be more attractive..started talkin to chicks...got noticed by chicks...life got a little better in 12th ....but no gf...no girl who wud like me romantically...currenlty i am in the 2nd half of my last year.......two days ago a hb9 tells me i cud get a gf a gf easily and that i didnt look 'bad' with some chick(lets call her 'chick A') i hung out a year back(which mind you never liked me in that sense)...but the irony is...even she doesnt like me in that sense..though she likes being around me..maybe because i can make any chick have the most fun shes ever had in her liife...

but no ..no gf..instead the world around me is a getting in a relationship...all who anyone wont even consider worthy enough of getting a girl...

and guess what happens today....i get told by the 'chick A'...that i can never get a girl??...that no matter how hard i try i wont manage one...after all these years..of trying to achive so much...wasting time for this??....
You all know how it feels when a chick busts on you or turns you down or just plainly tells u on ur face that u r not good enough.....it sux...it sux harder that i dont even kno what i am doing wrong...i dont know where i stand when it comes to getting chicks...some think im dumb...im mean...some tell me i am guy who can get any girl...what **** man...life is so unfair..

 

[Axcell]

Wow - that was a long rant.
Look, it is NEVER too late to change. I'll give you a very small personal story. Note: My age different with yours is quite a lot. (I am much younger than you.)
Last year, I remember how I was in pretty much the same boat as you, I knew it was a problem.. and I wanted to get it fixed. I'll be honest, I know I have some looks, but it hasn't helped me too much, since they are quite small and noticed by only a few girls.
Now, starting 2006, I wanted to get that part of my life handled. It is when I found dating advice forums, David D, etc and honestly, I can say my game increased 1000%.
Forget what 'Girl A' says - she is merely one girl. For starters, you need to improve your game and have more CONFIDENCE for yourself. Anybody can do it, honest.

For starters, doesn't look like you are TOO familiar with being a DJ, so I suggest you read some advice and tips other members have posted here, as well as reading the DJ Bible. It won't guarantee you to start getting chicks left and right, but it is a START.
If you think it's worth it, you can invest in some of David D's materials.. I would recommend "Attraction Isn't a Choice." - as I found that book to be most helpful to me.

If you have any comments/questions, feel free to post them back here and either I or another member will try to help you out.

Don't worry player, with a little bit more time and patience, you will be getting the chicks. Life is only what you make it - so live it up.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

First of all you are thinking the wrong way. You are complaining that you don't have a girlfriend, your jealous that everyone else is starting a relationship, and you hate the fact that girls think your "fun" but, there not romanticly attracted to you. Now, what I said might sound a little harsh. But, my friend; you have come to the right site. So, what you gonna do? Are you gonna mope around all day thinking life is unfair. Or will you get off your a$$ and change your lifestyle? Being a Don Juan is not only about getting girl friends. It is about changing your life to better yourself. Then, once you get your life on track to the new and improved you. The women will come easy. In fact, a girlfriend isnt that big of a deal once you got one. Now, instead of me preaching to you all day. Read the DJ Bible and understand it! Find your weaknesses and fix them. Get new hobbies, learn somthing new, lift weights, whatever. Just DO something about it. Your homework is to study the DJ Bible, good luck!

 

[angelz]

Are you kino-ing?

 

[On Point]

Dude, you have my sympathy. It was really harsh for that chick to say that. But fvck her. You shouldn't be friends with her after a comment like that. You need to surround yourself with positive people who will help motivate you, not drag you down.

Look around here and you'll see guys who started in your situation and are now doing better and dating. You can get there too if you want. And why not do it? Sure it will be painful, but the alternative is a lot more painful.

So take the good advice already offered on this thread and get started. The sooner you get going the sooner you'll be done with the crappy part and enjoying life.

We're behind ya man.

 

[GaryUranga]

Ive had several times when Im just thhinkign "poor me, lifes unfair" guess what that accomplishes.. NOTHING, get back on the horse man just keep going and youll make it, practise, practise practise, and educate yourself too.

 

[aussiegoat55]

Oh shut it! Stop bichin' about how unfair life is, ugh. It could be worse. You could be fending for your life in the deserts of Darfur, Sudan as the world just ignores your suffering, going about their own business. That's unfair!

You're whining, no wonder you don't have a girlfriend. It's not about having a girlfriend or pulling in the girls. It's about being a man of strength, power, ambition, passion, and integrity that gets the chicks interested, then has the balls to approach and get phone #, call her, set up a date, make moves, have sex, which results in getting himself a girlfriend.

Improve your inner game, character, and confidence. Seriously, toughen up.

 

[LordGrin]

dude, if fat-ass n fuk ugly guys like rick h. can be 1 of the best pick-up artists, then the only reason u "cant get a gf" is because of how u behave with the gurls, go read sum pik-up book and learn more abt piking up chix, if u want i hav a whole buncha eboox on pik-up and i can give u them for free. just msg me n i'll give u my email adress. n plz rmbr to temme which eboox u want coz i hav tons, so dont ask for the list
PS: i dont have the DJ Bible, so dont ask for that

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

The DJ Bible Is at the bottom of the page. Just click on the link.

 

[dave007]

you must be thinking im a newbie in dating life..but the fact of the matter is that i have read almost all ebooks u have mentioned above...
I can understand when you people say improve your inner game ...be confident and have strength n other stuff...but i can tell u that a fortnight ago I was amongst u people giving such advices to others..but the strange thing is I dont know what i am doing wrong!!..though i noticed one thing today...that i tend to make a fool of myself...as in actin like a fun guy does make me lose my head sometimes..resulting in me acting very stupid at times..I'll try and share all stuff that I think im doing wrong so that I can ideas as to where I am going wrong..all i can hope is for u Don Juans to help me through this ordeal..if there is anything that u might need to ask me so as to suggest anything...please feel free..cause afterall only we can help ourselves together..