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BillyPilgrim

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Bring some coke next time Jesse, leave the meth at home.
 

RazorRambo24

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I think you are confusing the term “female friend”.

A female friend isnt someone you go out with, have sex with sometimes, share stories with, go on a trip with. A female friend is someone you go out with, are attracted to, but she doesn’t want to have sex with you. That’s a female friend. What you are describing a FB, a FWB situation.

Heck, I could throw a party tomorrow, invite 10 girls I know, 5 of them being really hot, all I’m attracted to, all have boyfriends and /or won’t sleep with me. What is the point then? Now if I slept with them at time or another, I wouldn’t consider them a “friend”, and I would have no problem inviting them. But I wouldn’t invite them over knowing they are looking for an Alpha Dog.

The point being, if you are attracted a girl, and she doesn’t want to sleep with you, and you go out a friend, that is beta.
You cant just project your definition of a female friend on every1. We are not the same. Your definition you said is a chick that u want to sleep with that doesnt want to sleep with you. I never had that issue. Dudes who try to sleep with a chick who they didnt bag from an attraction stanpoint usually lack options. Us guys who have abundance dont try to sleep with girls we keep as friends.. we keep THEM as friends for a reason.. sounds more like the woman in your life treat YOU as a friend.. big difference.. i dont get friendzoned.. i friendzone the *****.

Again some of you think of everything from a weird scarcity mindset or a place of lack or resentment toward the opposite gender. Not saying you specifically but its been the trend on this forum for a very long time.
 
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