life can be generous or the complete opposite of this sometimes

[jhonny9546]

Life can indeed be generous, and sometimes luck is on our side.

Imagine you are geomaxing and encounter a wealthy woman from an affluent family. She is attractive >8, with very few red flags. Not only is she high-quality, but she is also genuinely interested in you and desires a LTR, including marriage and children (which you want as well). However, you find yourself in a situation where you need to enter her world, including her social circle and family, rather than her entering yours. You may even be expected to take on a role of managing her net worth. Being the boss.

How do you keep power in this position, without being a doormat, showing her you can guide, be the man, being in a clear power gap since beginning? Has anyone done that?

 

[Bokanovsky]

Life can indeed be generous, and sometimes luck is on our side.

Imagine you are geomaxing and encounter a wealthy woman from an affluent family. She is attractive >8, with very few red flags. Not only is she high-quality, but she is also genuinely interested in you and desires a LTR, including marriage and children (which you want as well). However, you find yourself in a situation where you need to enter her world, including her social circle and family, rather than her entering yours. You may even be expected to take on a role of managing her net worth. Being the boss.

How do you keep power in this position, without being a doormat, showing her you can guide, be the man, being in a clear power gap since beginning? Has anyone done that?

Is this a situation that you have found yourself in or is this a hypothetical?

 

[Serenity]

Power gaps exist because people think of themselves as greater or lesser than others, typically lesser.

Most guys in that situation would view themselves as lesser and as such sabotage the relationship one way or another.

I wouldn't be with her for the material wealth, if she's high quality in my own perception then she's someone I can be free with.

The woman and situation you describe is not a problem at all if I'm not required to give up on who I am.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Life can indeed be generous, and sometimes luck is on our side.

Imagine you are geomaxing and encounter a wealthy woman from an affluent family. She is attractive >8, with very few red flags. Not only is she high-quality, but she is also genuinely interested in you and desires a LTR, including marriage and children (which you want as well). However, you find yourself in a situation where you need to enter her world, including her social circle and family, rather than her entering yours. You may even be expected to take on a role of managing her net worth. Being the boss.

How do you keep power in this position, without being a doormat, showing her you can guide, be the man, being in a clear power gap since beginning? Has anyone done that?

You retain a mindset of superiority by assuming the role of sigma male. You're above the trappings and traps of her world, and are lowering yourself by giving up your independence.

 

[sevbucmash]

By realizing that women rarely date down, and her dating down is genuine interest in you.

 

[jhonny9546]

her dating down is genuine interest in you.

This can be controversial, while it's genuine thought.
She could also date you because has interest on having power on someone she can control, or a weak one. Does that make sense?

Is this a situation that you have found yourself in or is this a hypothetical?

In this journey, I learn from everything.
A higher SMV woman wanted me to enter this.
I refused, while I could do it, just to learn something more.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

In this journey, I learn from everything.
A higher SMV woman wanted me to enter this scheme.
I refused, while I could do it, just to learn something more.

LOL DID OP GET AMWAY'D???

 

[jhonny9546]

LOL DID OP GET AMWAY'D???

What is the amway?

 

[New_Journey]

Imagine you are geomaxing and encounter a wealthy woman from an affluent family. She is attractive >8, with very few red flags. Not only is she high-quality, but she is also genuinely interested in you and desires a LTR, including marriage and children (which you want as well).

Nice unicorn. Does she also come with a gift bow on her head?

However, you find yourself in a situation where you need to enter her world, including her social circle and family

Nobody is forcing you to enter her world. You do what you want, if they don't like it, they can find someone else.

You may even be expected to take on a role of managing her net worth. Being the boss.

If I get a nice chunk of money out of that arrangement, then sure, I'll be the boss her family craves. Financial managers don't work for free and neither should you.

How do you keep power in this position, without being a doormat, showing her you can guide, be the man, being in a clear power gap since beginning?

With that thinking you can't. The mere fact of asking this questions, makes you see that she's has higher value than you just because her family is wealthy and she's hot. Do you really think that low about yourself, that a woman with money and looks makes you feel less?

Has anyone done that?

Same as any other chick. Your frame is your world, its what you accept and what you don't, if you're not getting what you want, then you leave and head out to find better, younger and tighter replacements.

I refused, while I could do it, just to learn something more.

The only reason you refused is because you got scared on taking that responsibility that would have made your life better in every way. Cowards will never be remembered.

 

[jhonny9546]

The only reason you refused is because you got scared on taking that responsibility that would have made your life better in every way.

Not precisely. I just had the chance to met the family on a local event, and I noticed so many red flags that I wouldn't allow to pass.

 

[New_Journey]

very few red flags

so many red flags

Which is it?

 

[jhonny9546]

Which is it?

She have very few, her family so many