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[Salbakuta]

Hello everyone... I'm pretty new around the forum, but I visit the site quite often.

Alright, I have a friend her name is Christine. She's nice, funny, loving and carring type of girl. The point is, I like this girl. I feel that she feels the same way. I'm not quite sure. During homeroom we flirt with each other all the time, she's really confortable around me. Also everytime we see each other either she grabs me and huge me tight or I grab her and huge tight. We huge each other approximately more than 8+ times a day. I've only known this girl for about 4 - 5 months. I hope this is enough information. Please help me understand, also I have a few question if anyone wouldn't mind.

1: Do you think she's like this becuase I'm her friend?
2: Would it clear things out if I tell her how I feel, although I know that I have nothing to loose?
3: What should I do about this, Should I let this one go? (I'm thinking to let this slide becuase it might be one of those friendly situation thing)

 

[iCY]

1) does she hug like that with other people too? some girls are naturally flirty with no intention of taking it any further while others actually mean something with their flirting
2) most people here will say that you should never TELL her how you feel. SHOW her how you feel. go for a kiss
3)you will regret it later on when you see her with someone else.

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

There are two ways to tell if a girl likes you... one concrete and one abstract:

Concrete - how does she act around you? How does she act around other people? How does she act around her friends? - If the way she acts towards you is different than the way she treats strangers, its a very good sign. If she acts different towards you than she does her friends, youre golden! She likes you!

Abstract - when she puts her hands on you, hugs you, or kinos you in general, how does it feel? - if you FEEL like you WANT her when she touches you, its a very good sign. If you feel that SHE wants YOU, then duh, youre golden and she likes you!

Telling her youre feelings is not a good idea. Honestly, talk is cheap... girls know this all too well. They could care less about what you SAY you feel. In fact, it usually scares them away. Instead, just SHOW HER with mirroring, deep eyecontact, and kino. By the way, MAKE SOME SOCIAL ADVANCES!!!

Do you have her #? If not, then tell her you and her should hang out sometime soon, youve been <insert something here, like "craving some mint chocolate chip ice cream"> and she should come along. If you have her #... call her and do that!

Have fun, if shes hugging you that much she probably likes you a lot. Girls usually arent that physical with their friends, even 4 hugs a day would be an unusual ammount. Enjoy!

 

[Salbakuta]

Hey,

Thanks for replying guys.


TonyTheTigerOI, iCY - She hugs other guys aswell but not the way we huge each other. I can just feel it when she huges me. I'm sure you guys know what I'm talking about when your partner huges you, you can feel the love from them. Also during class when all of us are having conversation joking around and stuff. She'll come up behind me put her arms around me and huge me.

TonyTheTigerOI - you have mentioned when she puts her hand on me, she does that. What I really like the most when we are walking in the hallway holding hands. Friends of mine have asked "Was that your girlfreind?". It's a great feeling when she huges me,talk to me when we see each other. I'm happy when she's around. I enjoy her company. I wish that we could chat her and I. There are times that I want to ask her something, but I couldn't becuase our friends are around. It puts pressure for both of us. As far for eye contact, there's alot of eyecontact.

TonyTheTigerOI - No, I don't have her # bro... Would it be best if I gave her mine? Or Ask for her #? I'd really like to talk to her.

Question

I play acoustic, one of the things I enjoy doing. I write songs and goof around and stuff. I'm planning to bring my acoustic to school. I've done this couple of times. Bringing it to school to play a song for friend or just play with it during my studyhall. Do you gusy think bringing it to school and maybe play something when she's around, would this make it interesting to her?

Thanks again guys I truely appreciate it. I have to act soon before it's to late. Who knows after all these have been happening lately, all she's waiting for is for me to make the move. I won't be seeing her not till monday...

 

[Best friends? NAY]

Bringing your acoustic won't make her like you more or less. You don't play it to make her like you, you play it beacuse YOU like to and thats all that matters.

And to get her number I would go for something like, "whats your number" Even if she just wants to be mutual friends she will give it to you.

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

LOL. Buddy, if shes holding ur hand she likes you... JUST ASK HER OUT. She thinks ur a cutie, she wants to daaate you, shes gonna kiiisss you

 

[Salbakuta]

I punk'd out. She's acting a lil off today. I spent lot of time with her in lunch, trying to make an observation on how she acts around other guys when I'm around... Now I think she's not interested in me. I don't know... I'm in class right now... I'm gonna see her after this period. I wish miracle happens... Hopefully I figure this out soon. I'll keep you guys updated thanks again...

 

[white cloud 8]

Originally posted by Salbakuta
I punk'd out. She's acting a lil off today. I spent lot of time with her in lunch, trying to make an observation on how she acts around other guys when I'm around... Now I think she's not interested in me. I don't know... I'm in class right now... I'm gonna see her after this period. I wish miracle happens... Hopefully I figure this out soon. I'll keep you guys updated thanks again...

Dude...miracles don't happen, you make them happen....Now, [grab your balls] get over there and ask her out.

 

[Void]

read the DJ bible?

 

[chill]

how did you post during class? computers at school are supposed to have systems that prevent you from going to sites that arent school-related.

 

[eatme]

Most schools' tech departments are really inept.