Lettin her go...

[drixsa]

i had sex with a virgin last night

i know she is gonna want somethin more out of the relationship than just one night of fun

to be honest i wouldnt usually care but being that the girl is a virgin i almost feel like i owe her more than that.

dunno why b/c she wanted it pretty badly, even more than i did

anyway to jus let her down easy?

i was thinkin of tellin her i was gettin back together with an ex.

but, i want to be honest; though it doesnt seem like the best thing to do.

ill probably figure sh!t out by later tonite but for some reason its almost theraputic jus to write it out.

so suggestions welcome...espically from the female point of view

 

[ShortyBrown]

Originally posted by drixsa
i had sex with a virgin last night

i know she is gonna want somethin more out of the relationship than just one night of fun

to be honest i wouldnt usually care but being that the girl is a virgin i almost feel like i owe her more than that.

dunno why b/c she wanted it pretty badly, even more than i did

anyway to jus let her down easy?

i was thinkin of tellin her i was gettin back together with an ex.

but, i want to be honest; though it doesnt seem like the best thing to do.

ill probably figure sh!t out by later tonite but for some reason its almost theraputic jus to write it out.

so suggestions welcome...espically from the female point of view

Do not tell her that (about the ex) !!!! Big big no no. That will hurt her more than you could fathom.

This gal is not going to forget who you are. Ever. Be honoured for that, you're are gonna go down in history to someone. (and I hope that you showed her a good time!)
If you don't want to be in a relationship with this bird, tell her straight up. You are only 18 after all, and this isn't the time for you to be engaged in anything serious with someone. The best thing I can tell you is that since you weren't really into her, leave your ego at the door when you tell her. She'll sense it if you are being egotistical, and your words will be meaningless.

 

[drixsa]

Re: Re: Lettin her go...

Originally posted by ShortyBrown
Do not tell her that (about the ex) !!!! Big big no no. That will hurt her more than you could fathom.

This gal is not going to forget who you are. Ever. Be honoured for that, you're are gonna go down in history to someone. (and I hope that you showed her a good time!)
If you don't want to be in a relationship with this bird, tell her straight up. You are only 18 after all, and this isn't the time for you to be engaged in anything serious with someone. The best thing I can tell you is that since you weren't really into her, leave your ego at the door when you tell her. She'll sense it if you are being egotistical, and your words will be meaningless.

thanx...i most definatley showed her the time of her life which actually made me question if she was really a virgin

when you say leave my ego at the door do you mean that i should just be honest, right?

to be honest i wouldnt mind havin her as my sexual playthang for a little while but i dont want to dig myself into a deeper grave than necessary

 

[K56Connect]

Keep banging her as long as you want. Who cares if her "feelings" get hurt. If she is emotional after dumping her azz, then it's her fault for getting attached in the first place.

 

[KiInCollege]

Is this girl not very attractive? Doing a virgin that you don't want to invest in is instead investing in a very large headache.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by K56Connect
Keep banging her as long as you want. Who cares if her "feelings" get hurt. If she is emotional after dumping her azz, then it's her fault for getting attached in the first place.

though you may be right, i jus dont wanna be an a$$hole, she has some innocence in her or somethin

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by KiInCollege
Is this girl not very attractive? Doing a virgin that you don't want to invest in is instead investing in a very large headache.

na she is pretty hot. but the personality just isnt there

that and she just wants me soo damn bad.

and when the chase is gone the game isnt fun anymore

 

[HeyPretty]

Keep banging her as long as you want. Who cares if her "feelings" get hurt. If she is emotional after dumping her azz, then it's her fault for getting attached in the first place.

Perhaps it's actions such as this one which turn women into man-hating feme-nazis?

Just a thought.

Drixsa, you slept with this girl. For some, virginity isn't a big deal. To her, it seemed to matter. You now have 2 choices.

1: Forget she existed, cut off all ties, and damage her opinion of men for the rest of her life. You were her first. She'll base her judgements of men on your actions.

2: If you don't want to pursue a relationship with her, then I'd recommend sitting down with her, somewhere private, and telling her so. Explain to her, that you don't want to be an @sshole, but getting involved with someone right now just isn't an option. Yes, she might be hurt, but you've been honest with her, and you didn't use her like a wh*re.

There's always the chance that she may want to continue having no-strings attached sex, but from what you've said, she seems to want more. Being that you took her virginity, that often happens. I wouldn't say it would be a good choice to continue sleeping with her unless you plan on dating, because regardless of how many times she'll say "I'm not attached," she *will* fall for you, and you'll end up hurting her badly.

Think about how you'd want a guy to treat your sister, or a girl friend if they were in that situation- it helps to put it in a real-life light.

= Pretty.

 

[Cecilia]

Tell her the truth. And if she decides to keep having sex with you no strings attached, and fall for you anyways, that's on her. Don't destroy the woman's faith in men, but make her see what men are really like.
Good luck.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by HeyPretty

Think about how you'd want a guy to treat your sister, or a girl friend if they were in that situation- it helps to put it in a real-life light.

= Pretty.

thanx that was pretty solid

 

[HeyPretty]

Glad I could help.

 

[ShortyBrown]

Re: Re: Re: Lettin her go...

Originally posted by drixsa
thanx...i most definatley showed her the time of her life which actually made me question if she was really a virgin

when you say leave my ego at the door do you mean that i should just be honest, right?

to be honest i wouldnt mind havin her as my sexual playthang for a little while but i dont want to dig myself into a deeper grave than necessary

LOL.....stay on the path grasshopper. She's young, she's probably got a romanticised view of sex..........she's not gonna want to be a bonk bud.

Pick your moment and walk away.