First of. DJ has a lot to do with mindset and not only about techniques on how to get a Girl.
Therefore it is important to change your mindset at first.
Most important thing to realize is, that there is no "One" opposite to what the World and the Disneyreality told you and everyone. There is no Little Princess waiting for you to cross her way. There are girls that fit in to your life, and there are ones that do not. But there is no one, no soulmate or what else that is meant for you! Realizing this is the most important thing on your way to become a DJ. Nearly everything else is Build on that.
Second you must realize that you are the prize to be won. That does not mean inaction towards women but to stand your ground not to put up with bull**** that women throw at you and to not run after any women. You Do not let yourself he played along any more.
Start lifting, that will change your looks and you will feel more confident. Do this on a regular basis.
Confidence is key on the way to become a DJ.
Start socializing with anybody. Not only woman.
Regarding women you must overcome your approaching anxiety and your fear of rejection.
How to do that? Trial and error. Get out there and talk to women.
You can walk up to a Girl and talk to her? Learn about ****y and funny and how to tease.
Learn using KINO - very important.
To be continued and completet by others....
As important to learn how to be able to get girls is to learn what Girls are to avoid and what you do not aim for.
Be aware what you want? Only ****, LTR, Marriage.
Anything else than just fcuk, the following applies.
Watch out for red flags.
Avoid Girls with daddy issues. Do not underestimate any of the redflags given here in this Forum and especially do not underestimate the influence of Daddy issues on a realtionship.
Read this forum, learn from the mistakes from others and do not think that your girl will be a Special Snowflake. If something independandly happend to two or more users, be aware that might Happen to you.
I know being at the beginning at the Route to DJ that might Sound like waste in use of getting girls. But believe me a lot of guys would like to have known many of these things before they have gotten involved with their girl that later on broke their Heart.
You are my mentor now haha.
My background:
I'm a scrawny guy, but girls think I'm handsome, I think I'm handsome too. I have slept with one girl, that to a 2.5 yrs LTR, lost virginity to each other.
I thought she was, "the one", "my world", "put her on the pedestal", "spoke to her every night", "let her psychologically abuse me, and think this is how relationships are", etc, all the AFC TRAITS.
As usual, found out she ****ed me over over, I got into depression, too afraid to get into in a new relationship.
What's pathetic is, we broke up in 2013.
It's been it's almost 5 yrs! I think my virginity has grown back. Since the break up, I have finished school, and built a foundation for my career. Built a little personality, wardrobe, friends, improved my appearance a bit.
It's not enough!! I want to be a DJ, a good DJ, good enough to be imparting wisdom on this forum in future.
