Lets just be friends - Need to get out of trap

[jdawgmcb]

Alright, so there's this HB8 and an HB7 that have been coming on to me for the last few days, as i've been applying proper game.

We've been making tanning appointments and they are tending to do a lot of tease.

But after speaking to one of my friends, he says that the only reason they are being so nice to me is for my car.

He says that they were talking like "they owned" me and had no problem "just hanging out" but would never "get with me"

I have a problem with this, i'm not going to drive girls around that just want to use me as an emotional tampon.

What would you recommend for a retalliation move to show that these girls do not own me, and the only reason i was driving them was because i also needed to go tanning, and was going to anyway.

 

[Mr. Me]

First off, I would ignore your friend and not tell him anything more about you and these or any other women. He may have an agenda.

Secondly, if the women ask you to chauffeur them around, you just don't do things for them anyhow. Blow off any request in a C&F way.

 

[jdawgmcb]

First off, I would ignore your friend and not tell him anything more about you and these or any other women. He may have an agenda.

Secondly, if the women ask you to chauffeur them around, you just don't do things for them anyhow. Blow off any request in a C&F way.

The friend is a long term friend that is currently with a girlfriend and has no agenda.... he has helped me out of traps like this before.

I'll try the C&F approach though.

But i don't want to chaffeur girls around if they talk about ex boyfriends and tease me.

 

[ezily]

Dude, if you trust your friend I think he's trying to warn you. Just forget these girls. They are obviously b*tches just using you for your car. DON'T drive them anymore even if you are going. Seriously, you now know you have NO CHANCE so don't even bother wasting your time.

 

[Mr. Me]

The friend is a long term friend that is currently with a girlfriend and has no agenda.... he has helped me out of traps like this before.

Listen, I wouldn't dramatize your circumstance by calling it a "trap", but as for your friend... what if he has thoughts about dumping his GF and has an eye on one of the girls you're flirting with? Or he has an attitude about them. Or a score to settle. Or whatever. Best friends or not, you never know what's going on in someone else's head. The best policy is to keep your business to yourself.

So if it's true that they'll never get with you, then put it to the test instead of running around for tanning appointments. Get a phone number, call her up, invite her out. See if she says yes or if she stalls you.

 

[jdawgmcb]

Listen, I wouldn't dramatize your circumstance by calling it a "trap", but as for your friend... what if he has thoughts about dumping his GF and has an eye on one of the girls you're flirting with? Or he has an attitude about them. Or a score to settle. Or whatever. Best friends or not, you never know what's going on in someone else's head. The best policy is to keep your business to yourself.

So if it's true that they'll never get with you, then put it to the test instead of running around for tanning appointments. Get a phone number, call her up, invite her out. See if she says yes or if she stalls you.

i was on a kind of "date" where we went to the mall and saw a movie...but i just think they are continually teasing me.

 

[Mr. Me]

"Kind of a date"? Is that like a "little pregnant"?

Escalate to a kiss then. Or be their friend. Your choice. But just don't let your guy friend color how you feel about them.

 

[JackPrescott]

Alright, so there's this HB8 and an HB7 that have been coming on to me for the last few days, as i've been applying proper game.

We've been making tanning appointments and they are tending to do a lot of tease.

But after speaking to one of my friends, he says that the only reason they are being so nice to me is for my car.

He says that they were talking like "they owned" me and had no problem "just hanging out" but would never "get with me"

I have a problem with this, i'm not going to drive girls around that just want to use me as an emotional tampon.

What would you recommend for a retalliation move to show that these girls do not own me, and the only reason i was driving them was because i also needed to go tanning, and was going to anyway.

Call them on their $hit RIGHT in front of the friend who ratted them out, and tell them both to get fukked, and that they will NEVER ride in your car again, unless they live by your philosophy, which shall be
"Ass, Gass, or Grass, nobody rides for free"

 

[SharinganUser]

1) why are you going tanning? are you burt renold illegitimate love child or a full blown flamer?

2) A friend should be able to support you and warn you about things. All he seemed to do was warn you, so I would consider not listening to him.

3) If they are teasing you, it's a test. You are failing. Flip it back on them and tease them.

4) I don't really see what you are upset about. If you don't let people use you, it won't be a problem. Don't do them anymore favors, until they start doing you favors. That is the only way to know if yu are being used.

 

[shinko]

You know your mate well enough to know if he's on the level or not. So if he's warning you, then all he's doing is what a real friend does and giving you a heads up. As for the girls, i had a friend who shipped 3 girls around for a few years at uni, never got with one of them, never even got a kiss, they called him their "brother" the whole lot and yet the guy just kept on driving them places. We warned him over and over and eventually he listened and he stopped.In a matter of weeks the girls stopped speaking to him and he never saw them again except by coincidence. I wouldnt even bother trying to prove that you were going to the tanning place because you wanted to go yourself, these girls arent worth your effort for that. Stop all contact and wait for them 2 ask for a lift, if/when it comes, blow them off and be done. A girl who liked you would never say to anyone else that she was using you. (im assuming your mate is legit of course) So cut ties and move on.

 

[JackPrescott]

You know your mate well enough to know if he's on the level or not. So if he's warning you, then all he's doing is what a real friend does and giving you a heads up. As for the girls, i had a friend who shipped 3 girls around for a few years at uni, never got with one of them, never even got a kiss, they called him their "brother" the whole lot and yet the guy just kept on driving them places. We warned him over and over and eventually he listened and he stopped.In a matter of weeks the girls stopped speaking to him and he never saw them again except by coincidence. I wouldnt even bother trying to prove that you were going to the tanning place because you wanted to go yourself, these girls arent worth your effort for that. Stop all contact and wait for them 2 ask for a lift, if/when it comes, blow them off and be done. A girl who liked you would never say to anyone else that she was using you. (im assuming your mate is legit of course) So cut ties and move on.

Again, when it comes to Attention Wh0res and rides, you tell them "Ass, Gass, or Grass, nobody rides for free, and you keep a business card of a local cab company. If they dont agree to fill your tank, buy you a couple of fresh packs of Marlboros, or lower their panties for you, hand them the card, and drive off, peeling out and leaving them breathing exhaust fumes.

 

[DonGorgon]

But i don't want to chaffeur girls around if they talk about ex boyfriends and tease me.

Start being very sexually suggestive , crass raunchy with them , flirt openly and let them know you want to f... if they shut you down then shut them down...

 

[ezily]

You know your mate well enough to know if he's on the level or not. So if he's warning you, then all he's doing is what a real friend does and giving you a heads up. As for the girls, i had a friend who shipped 3 girls around for a few years at uni, never got with one of them, never even got a kiss, they called him their "brother" the whole lot and yet the guy just kept on driving them places. We warned him over and over and eventually he listened and he stopped.In a matter of weeks the girls stopped speaking to him and he never saw them again except by coincidence. I wouldnt even bother trying to prove that you were going to the tanning place because you wanted to go yourself, these girls arent worth your effort for that. Stop all contact and wait for them 2 ask for a lift, if/when it comes, blow them off and be done. A girl who liked you would never say to anyone else that she was using you. (im assuming your mate is legit of course) So cut ties and move on.

I completely agree.

 

[traffic]

Tell them, "no more using my car unless we **** first."