Don't go to Clubs if you don't enjoy the music and/or can't dance.
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You just look like an idiot on the dance floor if you suck at dancing and don't like club music. I love dancing, its one of my secret weapons. I've been dancing at clubs for 15 years or so now and I love every minute of it. I use to go to raves as a kid and loved that, clubs suck by comparison. I always get tons of attention from the 20 something broads and its a great way to demonstrate higher value to your LTRs. One of the things that really turns girls on is that if you are dancing, its usually by YOURSELF.. and in order to look good, you need a bit of space. I've pushed tons of girls away that walk up and try and rub their body or butt again my junk... man when I'm dancing GTF Away. Women see this and they love a challenge... I generally ignore all women when I'm dancing and it brings them out in droves. The hottest women will compete to see who can get my attention. That is not why I dance though, I love it, I get a natural adrenaline high off of it and when the music is great, it becomes like a sort of ocean that you can play in. When people stick their hands in the air, they are 'feeling it'.
http://www.energythenetwork.com/home/ <-- watch videos of trance energy on youtube and you'll get a better idea... when the beat drops, it feels like a refreshing wave hitting you and washing out all your stress. Not even sex gives me what I get on the dance floor.
I taught a chinese sailor (second officer) to dance recently, dude had 2 left feet and swore up and down he hated clubs. Man I had this guy up on the stage going crazy and women were actually hitting on him. Afterwards, all he wanted to do was go dancing and was showing off to all the girls in class. Second if you can dance even a little bit and there are a group of breakdancers in the place, you will get social cred and can hang out and make new friends. I went to one place in Nanjing with a bunch of my ESL colleagues and when I busted out my stuff, I got schooled by about 8 chinese (girls & guys) that were doing mind blowing stuff. We couldn't speak but we could dance together and it was awesome to watch. Anyway everyone ended up having a great night, one of the dancers worked at the club and gave us all VIP.
If you want to look good, invest a few hours in learning some styles. I've heard people talk about 'vibing'... to be honest, that looks like sh1t. It might get you by, but if you are interested in clubbing why not take some time to actually learn what works in a night club. Most guys sit in the gym for a couple hours and hope their muscles will turn women on, doesn't work. Clubs are about being seen, and no one gets looked at more than the guys in the center of the dance floor... If you want a cool place to chill out and learn to dance, go to a RAVE. No bvllsh1t just straight up dancing for 12 hours. No pressure, no pickups, no worries. Women are always asking me to teach them the moonwalk and body wave, you have to touch them quite a bit. I taught my girlfriend, she kinda sucks at it but she tries and its better than her sitting off in a corner.
PLUR
(I am in China and youtube doesn't work over here but if you are interested look up some of the following to pick up a few quick steps)
Melbourne Shuffle Pae & Sarah
Popping
Locking
Botting
Gliding
Liquid
TRANCE ENERGY
A couple hours a night for a month or two can make all the difference in the world. I love clubs, its a free workout and I get all the girls in the place checking me out and guys buying me drinks to earn social cred. Works even better over here in China!
