Re: 1. as david deangelo says 'Charm is exaggerating the double take'
Originally posted by alphamale1
(I like to thank David DeAngelo and his audience for this example)
Hey Guys,
Chicks in a cafe shop next to the window.
You: (walking past the cafe window)
You: (you spot some attractive women through the cafe window)
You: (they spot u)
You: (you can walking and then u STOP)
You: (walk back and walk back keeping ur body facing the way u were gonna walk)
You: (once u get back to the spot u notice them, look at them all)
You: (smile and emit the 'yeah' attitude)
They will smile at u and laugh happily and u can easily go in if u wish and they will welcome u.
Ben
note: David D. mentioned that this works well, only if there is a pane of glass between you, also that there has to be a walk buy, stop, and walk back.
ALSO: maybe this only works for me, that is is what I see it meaning, but something I heard someone say was "walk into a room like you mean it" I walk around all the time like I mean it. This made me appear more confident and charming. Now, when I speak, all heads turn my way. When I'm in a queue somehwere, like today at walmart, a woman just started talking to me, because I was standing there like I meant it. Random people didn't used to just talk to me freely before, even when in a long long line.... does this make sense to anyone else?