Lets analyze where did I f**k up last night.

PokerJohn94

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Hi guys. I f**ked up, and f**ked real good last night. I am so ashamed, that I am writing this whyle she is still besides me asleep in my bed. So I just started to live with this dude (a natural) and his gf in the same apartment. 2 room apartment. We live in seperate rooms. So I come home from work, and there is this chick visiting my roommates. We all drink a little, and the two chicks went out to drink a little more. Guys stay. Whtle they are out, my friend says that the new girl is super horny, heaven had sex in 4 months and think I am cute. Says I should go for it.
Girls cone back, its 1 am and the new chick suggests we watch a movie in my room. My friends quickly leave( on purpous). Because she felt a little sick, I wanted to wait a whyle, because if she were sick , I would give it a rest.
1 hour passes, I see that she is OK and we proceed from here. I all ready got a plan. Say that she smells nice, lean in, sniff the neck, say its all natural for me to like it, kiss the neck and proceed from there.
What I do? I suddenly lose balls. We watch a movie 1 more hour. The movie ends, we lie down and talk for an hour. Than the miracle happens. I gather some stones, kiss her. And my friend was right. She was horn y. She starts to scratch my back, bite my lips, pull my hair a little and fiersly rubs her ***** in my leg (we booth are fully dressed). I try to get my hands under a brawl, she pulls th em out. I try to rub her oussy with my hand (whyle her panties are still on). Let's me do it for 10 seconds and puts my hand away. After a whyle starts complaining about how hot it is, and how my 8 hour grown musaches
are hurting her lips an make out session sort of ends.
I try to make out again, but she only gives me these little kiss is and starts some little girl the teasing ****. I get fed up, and go to sleep.

So guys, beside timing, where were my biggest leaks?
 

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Besides you taking an hour to escalate, there's more to this incident that you aren't aware of. You seemed to be just trying to hit it then fall asleep- a boring sex life. But like your friend said, she was super horny. When a girl is horny, foreplay is everything. Don't just make out with her like teenagers, kiss and feel her everywhere. Kiss her neck, feel her hips and travel up to her ribs, grab her ass, lift up her head by grabbing her hair then kissing the center of her neck, kiss her stomach up and down, flip her over and kiss her back down to her lower back, whisper dirty things in her ear, maybe bite her ear, pick her up and pin her up against the wall, basically do everything that involves exploring her body. Sex is more about tension through foreplay for women.

If you do this whole process while slowly undressing her, like half way lifting up her shirt to kiss her stomach area, then she should be begging you to put it in. You tried hitting it and quitting it. Slow down tiger. And when a girl says its "hot" that's code for take some clothes off.
 

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PokerJohn94 said:
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We watch a movie 1 more hour. The movie ends, we lie down and talk for an hour (we booth are fully dressed). I try to get my hands under a brawl, she pulls th em out. I try to rub her oussy with my hand (whyle her panties are still on). After a whyle starts complaining about how hot it is, and how my 8 hour grown musaches
are hurting her lips an make out session sort of ends.
Pretty much this stands out to me. Too long to progress things, you didn't take her brawl off ( seriously feeling under the brawl, wtf?)..I say that right there hurt you. Chill though, IMO i'd start kissing her neck how she was asleep...wake her up and get her horny and try again.
 

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OK. Thanks for input. I will stop doing that **** when I put my hands under that bra. Never thought it might be weird. That's how I learn.
 

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Sorry. Missed Frayzers input. Thank you. Good stuff. It is planned, that that girl will come to visit later this week, so mabey I still have a shot with her. What you guys think? Mabey I just blew it, and should not even bother? Getting sick from my friend and his gf all ready. Could it be, that I can make matters worse? True to be told, I have bean obsessing about this all day, and feel ****ing ****ty.
 

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Well you should have tried for morning sex. You could have also woken her up and tried for wake up in the middle of the night sex.

I meet girls who don't like to kiss for what ever reason including mustache bothering them and you know what I just don't kiss. I don't need to kiss a girl to escalate. You could have kissed her neck instead. You should have been more aggressive and started a lot earlier not waiting an hour. You know that though.

When she said she was hot you could have said let's take some of your clothes off. You could have started rubbing her vag again even though she had pulled your hand away. You could have wipped your dic out and said sck it. lots you could have done. Live and learn for next time.

Be a lot more aggressive and don't focus so much on the make out she obviously doesn't love kissing.
 
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