Let women catch you checking them out!

[Deep Dish]

Let women catch you checking them out. A few days ago I was caught checking out a real hottie, caught for the first time in a whole number of years, and I was surprised by her reaction. She smiled and suggestively raised both her eyebrows as if to say "Hey hey hey". And I, rather than looking away, as I would have years ago, wasn't afraid to hold my ground showing my desires, I held my gaze extra long. She never stopped gazing until I stopped. [Women are entirely sexual, there is truly no limit.]

Get caught, keep on looking. Women eat this stuff up. They love it. And so should you, because it feels really good.

[Too bad the girl was riding atop of a convertible passing by me, I would've done something.]

After the event passed, I said to myself "I'm never again going to be afraid to be caught checking a woman out." In fact, ever since, I have made it an effort to check out every woman I find hot and by chance get caught, and to keep on looking. It's fun. It's exciting. There's absolutely nothing to fear. The worst reaction I've gotten is non-reaction. I've even caught women checking me out, so it's a matter of both of us catching the other, which is excellent.

Up to this point I've only smiled after getting caught, but I've come up with some good ideas I want to try out. But, find your own game, come up with your own ideas, play around with the opportunity.

Be a man, don't be afraid to express your sexuality and your desires.

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Didn't someone suggest that you should completly ignore their body?

I'd like to hear an argument or agreement here

 

[Fred Da Head]

I think letting them catch you shows that you're a sexual male.

You should check out hot girls that pass you all the time. HOWEVER, while you're talking to her, you should NEVER, NEVER check her out. You talk to her face. Look at those eyes! KEEP EYE CONTACT WITH HER!

Just my $.02

 

[thecraftylefty]

Deep Dish is on the money with this one.

So what if she catches you looking at her. You're just being a man. You are a sexual being and you make no apologies for it.

I think the best part is to keep on checking her out even after she catches you. I've done it countless times and know that this advice is solid.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

thecraftylefty

 

[jakethasnake]

I agree.


But I think that this issue goes deeper than "being a MAN" and all this chest thumping male-ego stuff.

It's about being SEXUAL. It has nothing to do with MALE SEXUALITY. It is sexuality, period. Women make no distinction. It's only about how you make them feel. Women will do anything to feel sexual, to feel DESIRED. It's even more important to them than feelin horny. By not looking away, you give them that. And they will appreciate it. It's not even about OUR sexuality. It's about making them feel theirs. That will win you their respect.

 

[TesuqueRed]

I knew a dj who said he would slowly and casually nod as if to say "was'up?" The worst thing is to look away quickly, as we know...

His response is probably as good as or better than smiling, I believe.

 

[Charisma]

seriously don't let them catch you checking out their tits or something, that's the worst thing that could happen to you.. If you check her out, she just took control over your penis, and that's the worst that could happen to you ..

 

[Dario]

"Don't be afraid that you're a man. It's a normal reaction, that you're looking at other woman. If they won't accept it, you shouldn't accept them"

Well, not one of the best quotes, but it was said a few months ago on this board and it's a very good tip.

 

[Charisma]

If a girl is interested in me, and I'm not, I just stare at her boobs for a couple of seconds and she will lose interest immediatelly lol

 

[USSOCOM]

tough one, it really depends on the situation. Don't use this as a rule of thumb, but I would say if you feel like doing it do it, use moderation of course.

 

[mahon83050]

I for the most apart agree with deep dish. I saw a cute blonde cheerleader at a hockey game once and when I walked right buy I checked her out. When she turned I did not shyly look away.....I had that look..."yea I was checking you out, you should be thankful."

 

[Pook]

All women will like you checking them out. But the question is will it get the woman?

Sure she will smile and all, but will it GET HER? I could give her flowers and she will like that too, but she will run toward the hills!

Women are turned on by male lust. But it is girls who just stand there and stare (or flirt endlessly). We men get to ask them out.

If you ask her out, she will think that you want her in that way. You don't have to stare at her to do that.

I've experimented with this. Some girls just chalk it up as a victory and leave since YOU have turned her into a goddess. But other girls will even come TO YOU to talk to you. I haven't seen a really hot chick do this though.

I'd recomend going for the chick rather than staring at her. It provides the same sexual feeling in her but she won't think you are admiring her 'greatness' but rather taking it since you believe you're the prince and are worthy of it.

In other words, checking out a chick is sexual but it is a PASSIVE sexual. I think men excel when we are ACTIVE sexually (this explains why I can completely not check them out while interacting with them. Since a woman's body has sexuality diffused throughout it, when they do something action they are being stimulated sexually. No wonder action dates work so well.)

 

[Sisko]

It is true that staring will not get the women.
But i wasn't able to even do that at the begining.
You have to go step by step in order to improve, you can not do it all at once.

And i do check girls out and let them catch me, and think everyone should, especially when they have no time to approach.
I'd be lying if i say that a returning smile by a girl doesn't make me feel good.

 

[Charisma]

Seriously, what kind of girl friends do you guys have ? Try asking one of them how they feel about a person if he looks at her, when she doesn't know him, in a way that says '**** I wanne titfvck you' .. christ my friend you will be in the 'you ain't worth **** zone' IN NO TIME, WAY TO GO ! same thing goes for whistling when a girl passes by, all that you will get by doing that is a stronger connection between your hand and your c0ck, or a nice slut to absolutely waste your time with and feel cool for about 2 seconds after hopefuly realising you're just as cheap as she is. When people say 'Be a man ! Don't be a wuss!' That doesn't mean you have to throw your brains out of the window and start thinking with your dic.k and your dic.k only .... If you are caught checking her out look in her eyes right away, and walk up to her, instead of standing there like a friggin kid looking at his new skateboard, while he can't skate.

 

[Elimidate]

I agree, pooks, sisko and charisma are right.

Women love you checking them out but the second you do and they know you think she's a real hottie, then inturn she begins looking down from the pedistal we are all trying to bump them off of!!!!!

Think of it, why would women spend hours in fron of a mirror and $1000's on boobjob, clothes etc if they didn't want attention from the chumps out there that stoke thier ego all the time??

Over the weekend, I ran into a girl I LGBF'd and hadn't seen in a few months, I've bulked up and now have a lot better body and this girl was eyeing me up and down like a piece of meat!
Now, I know what it feels like for a women when men stare at their breasts. LOL I admit..... I did like it!

Women love attention and there's nothing wrong with showing her you're sexual but looking into her eyes and showing her you're interested in her brain rather than her legs, will get you much much further!!

ELIMIDATE

 

[sublime]

everyone's right before me, but some points need to be made regardless.

I think what charisma was referring too isn't just a no-harm-done check out, thats kind of leering. If you're tongues flappin around slappin your neck and you have some raging wood going I doubt that's going to be received well. BUT if she catches you eyeing that booty shes got and you make some eye contact afterwords I think you'd be pretty well off, no?

 

[Oxide]

hi. 3 sec rule. thanks.

 

[Milliardo_Peacecraft]

hi .Bend the rules. thanks.

 

[Deep Dish]

Of course results will vary. I had considered including this in my original post, but I don't like stating the obvious. In terms of effectiveness, it matters not what you do, but how you do it. A good-looking guy can get away with a helluva lot more than an ugly guy.

In the situation in my original post, I couldn't do anything about it. But man, if the situation had permitted it, hell yeah I'd've done something about it.

 

[SlyDonJuan]

Sheesh!!!!

I checked out girls and got caught by them. I got frightened and then act like a wuss.........I hate it men but I just failed to control my reactions.

They knew they had control over me and walked over with victory.

Anybody knows how I could handle the situation well and smooth?