There is more to it. Since this is a High School forum, im guessin your in highschool or younger, most chicks dont wanna have sex just yet!.. So dating is not based on sex, its more about going out with the person you have interest in, and also ofcourse to have fun. After a while sex can come in, or sex can never come in. Its all depends on the age and how attracted you guys are to each other. No offence but a lot of chicks in my school are sluts and *****es, they will bang any guy tht is well known and has $$.