As you all may know, a few months back I went to Arizona.
A little background on the dating culture in Arizona, especially Tempe.
So Arizona girls are very ethnocentrist compared to women elsewhere in the country. To make a very long story short, due to illegal immigration in the state, it is tough for any guy who is not black or white to get hot girls there. As some Arizona locals on this forum would confirm, I am right. If you're anything other than black or white, you are automatic low status in the eyes of hot girls there.
Arriving in Arizona.
I was in Tempe and then Scotsdale, immediately noticed after going out a great deal that the trends proved what I observed to be correct. Lots of hot white girls with black guys but not any other minority groups despite Latinos outnumbering blacks 10 to 1. Lots of white guys with hot girls of other races too.
It was pretty clear, Latino guys in Arizona had a very low status compared to their cousins in Florida. Even Latinas in the area were selling out hard, often saw Salma Hayek lookalikes with plain looking white guys.
The culture was full on bro culture.
Staceys, bimbos and meathead jock culture. The epitomy of frat bro culture, granted I was in Scotsdale and Tempe but point being, tough place for an ethnic guy to do well. Women were also very vain and stuckup.
So here was the outcome.
I ended up sleeping with over 10 different women in both cities, more in Scotsdale than Tempe, and here are some lessons I learned and observations I had.
1. Ethnic guys are pretty self-defeating.
I would see black and white guys approaching all the time but rarely saw any other race doing it. Did see another Asian dude who was approaching and having some success and I was on board too. I would approach a hot girl and have a group of Asians look on as if I was crazy for it. Ran into more than enough Mexicans crying about race too.
2. When there is a will, there is always a way.
You might have to approach 20 more girls but even in an area as racist as Arizona, it can be done. I managed to lay a recent ASU grad that was in a sorority, they said it could not be done but it was done. You just need a strong character and the ability to thrive after many rejections but when there is a will, there is always a way.
3. Transplants made it 10 times easier.
Smashed a Minnesota girl, total hottie and a blonde, who was in the area and she had a thing for exotic guys. I noticed that due to the transplants, I had a much easier time getting laid even though I did pipe down some locals too. All white thankfully!
4. Never pay attention to what people say, only what they do.
Everyone wants to say the south is racist but when I lived in Florida and Georgia, I saw far more racial integration compared to Arizona or California. The west coast liberals might boast of tolerance and acceptance but really, they are the ones who will lose their minds if an Asian guy started to sleep with white women.
5. And as much as it seems like I am criticizing whites, ethnic people are just as guilty.
A lot of them self-segregated and would often attack other ethnics for going after whites. I had a latino wingman one night who approached a couple of white girls with me only for a random latina to come along and ****block him. Ethnic women are the biggest hypocrites in the dating game, plain and simple.
6. It takes strong men to thrive.
Most other ethnic guys would have given up which is why most ethnic men rarely get hot white girls. I on the other hand kept trying and trying and trying which led to success. That is the beauty of being a strong man, you can thrive in even the most unlikely circumstances.
A little background on the dating culture in Arizona, especially Tempe.
So Arizona girls are very ethnocentrist compared to women elsewhere in the country. To make a very long story short, due to illegal immigration in the state, it is tough for any guy who is not black or white to get hot girls there. As some Arizona locals on this forum would confirm, I am right. If you're anything other than black or white, you are automatic low status in the eyes of hot girls there.
Arriving in Arizona.
I was in Tempe and then Scotsdale, immediately noticed after going out a great deal that the trends proved what I observed to be correct. Lots of hot white girls with black guys but not any other minority groups despite Latinos outnumbering blacks 10 to 1. Lots of white guys with hot girls of other races too.
It was pretty clear, Latino guys in Arizona had a very low status compared to their cousins in Florida. Even Latinas in the area were selling out hard, often saw Salma Hayek lookalikes with plain looking white guys.
The culture was full on bro culture.
Staceys, bimbos and meathead jock culture. The epitomy of frat bro culture, granted I was in Scotsdale and Tempe but point being, tough place for an ethnic guy to do well. Women were also very vain and stuckup.
So here was the outcome.
I ended up sleeping with over 10 different women in both cities, more in Scotsdale than Tempe, and here are some lessons I learned and observations I had.
1. Ethnic guys are pretty self-defeating.
I would see black and white guys approaching all the time but rarely saw any other race doing it. Did see another Asian dude who was approaching and having some success and I was on board too. I would approach a hot girl and have a group of Asians look on as if I was crazy for it. Ran into more than enough Mexicans crying about race too.
2. When there is a will, there is always a way.
You might have to approach 20 more girls but even in an area as racist as Arizona, it can be done. I managed to lay a recent ASU grad that was in a sorority, they said it could not be done but it was done. You just need a strong character and the ability to thrive after many rejections but when there is a will, there is always a way.
3. Transplants made it 10 times easier.
Smashed a Minnesota girl, total hottie and a blonde, who was in the area and she had a thing for exotic guys. I noticed that due to the transplants, I had a much easier time getting laid even though I did pipe down some locals too. All white thankfully!
4. Never pay attention to what people say, only what they do.
Everyone wants to say the south is racist but when I lived in Florida and Georgia, I saw far more racial integration compared to Arizona or California. The west coast liberals might boast of tolerance and acceptance but really, they are the ones who will lose their minds if an Asian guy started to sleep with white women.
5. And as much as it seems like I am criticizing whites, ethnic people are just as guilty.
A lot of them self-segregated and would often attack other ethnics for going after whites. I had a latino wingman one night who approached a couple of white girls with me only for a random latina to come along and ****block him. Ethnic women are the biggest hypocrites in the dating game, plain and simple.
6. It takes strong men to thrive.
Most other ethnic guys would have given up which is why most ethnic men rarely get hot white girls. I on the other hand kept trying and trying and trying which led to success. That is the beauty of being a strong man, you can thrive in even the most unlikely circumstances.