Lessons and observations after getting laid in the most racist and close-minded area of the USA.

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As you all may know, a few months back I went to Arizona.

A little background on the dating culture in Arizona, especially Tempe.

So Arizona girls are very ethnocentrist compared to women elsewhere in the country. To make a very long story short, due to illegal immigration in the state, it is tough for any guy who is not black or white to get hot girls there. As some Arizona locals on this forum would confirm, I am right. If you're anything other than black or white, you are automatic low status in the eyes of hot girls there.

Arriving in Arizona.

I was in Tempe and then Scotsdale, immediately noticed after going out a great deal that the trends proved what I observed to be correct. Lots of hot white girls with black guys but not any other minority groups despite Latinos outnumbering blacks 10 to 1. Lots of white guys with hot girls of other races too.

It was pretty clear, Latino guys in Arizona had a very low status compared to their cousins in Florida. Even Latinas in the area were selling out hard, often saw Salma Hayek lookalikes with plain looking white guys.

The culture was full on bro culture.

Staceys, bimbos and meathead jock culture. The epitomy of frat bro culture, granted I was in Scotsdale and Tempe but point being, tough place for an ethnic guy to do well. Women were also very vain and stuckup.

So here was the outcome.

I ended up sleeping with over 10 different women in both cities, more in Scotsdale than Tempe, and here are some lessons I learned and observations I had.

1. Ethnic guys are pretty self-defeating.

I would see black and white guys approaching all the time but rarely saw any other race doing it. Did see another Asian dude who was approaching and having some success and I was on board too. I would approach a hot girl and have a group of Asians look on as if I was crazy for it. Ran into more than enough Mexicans crying about race too.

2. When there is a will, there is always a way.

You might have to approach 20 more girls but even in an area as racist as Arizona, it can be done. I managed to lay a recent ASU grad that was in a sorority, they said it could not be done but it was done. You just need a strong character and the ability to thrive after many rejections but when there is a will, there is always a way.

3. Transplants made it 10 times easier.

Smashed a Minnesota girl, total hottie and a blonde, who was in the area and she had a thing for exotic guys. I noticed that due to the transplants, I had a much easier time getting laid even though I did pipe down some locals too. All white thankfully!

4. Never pay attention to what people say, only what they do.

Everyone wants to say the south is racist but when I lived in Florida and Georgia, I saw far more racial integration compared to Arizona or California. The west coast liberals might boast of tolerance and acceptance but really, they are the ones who will lose their minds if an Asian guy started to sleep with white women.

5. And as much as it seems like I am criticizing whites, ethnic people are just as guilty.

A lot of them self-segregated and would often attack other ethnics for going after whites. I had a latino wingman one night who approached a couple of white girls with me only for a random latina to come along and ****block him. Ethnic women are the biggest hypocrites in the dating game, plain and simple.

6. It takes strong men to thrive.

Most other ethnic guys would have given up which is why most ethnic men rarely get hot white girls. I on the other hand kept trying and trying and trying which led to success. That is the beauty of being a strong man, you can thrive in even the most unlikely circumstances.
 

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As you all may know, a few months back I went to Arizona.

A little background on the dating culture in Arizona, especially Tempe.

So Arizona girls are very ethnocentrist compared to women elsewhere in the country. To make a very long story short, due to illegal immigration in the state, it is tough for any guy who is not black or white to get hot girls there. As some Arizona locals on this forum would confirm, I am right. If you're anything other than black or white, you are automatic low status in the eyes of hot girls there.

Arriving in Arizona.

I was in Tempe and then Scotsdale, immediately noticed after going out a great deal that the trends proved what I observed to be correct. Lots of hot white girls with black guys but not any other minority groups despite Latinos outnumbering blacks 10 to 1. Lots of white guys with hot girls of other races too.

It was pretty clear, Latino guys in Arizona had a very low status compared to their cousins in Florida. Even Latinas in the area were selling out hard, often saw Salma Hayek lookalikes with plain looking white guys.

The culture was full on bro culture.

Staceys, bimbos and meathead jock culture. The epitomy of frat bro culture, granted I was in Scotsdale and Tempe but point being, tough place for an ethnic guy to do well. Women were also very vain and stuckup.

So here was the outcome.

I ended up sleeping with over 10 different women in both cities, more in Scotsdale than Tempe, and here are some lessons I learned and observations I had.

1. Ethnic guys are pretty self-defeating.

I would see black and white guys approaching all the time but rarely saw any other race doing it. Did see another Asian dude who was approaching and having some success and I was on board too. I would approach a hot girl and have a group of Asians look on as if I was crazy for it. Ran into more than enough Mexicans crying about race too.

2. When there is a will, there is always a way.

You might have to approach 20 more girls but even in an area as racist as Arizona, it can be done. I managed to lay a recent ASU grad that was in a sorority, they said it could not be done but it was done. You just need a strong character and the ability to thrive after many rejections but when there is a will, there is always a way.

3. Transplants made it 10 times easier.

Smashed a Minnesota girl, total hottie and a blonde, who was in the area and she had a thing for exotic guys. I noticed that due to the transplants, I had a much easier time getting laid even though I did pipe down some locals too. All white thankfully!

4. Never pay attention to what people say, only what they do.

Everyone wants to say the south is racist but when I lived in Florida and Georgia, I saw far more racial integration compared to Arizona or California. The west coast liberals might boast of tolerance and acceptance but really, they are the ones who will lose their minds if an Asian guy started to sleep with white women.

5. And as much as it seems like I am criticizing whites, ethnic people are just as guilty.

A lot of them self-segregated and would often attack other ethnics for going after whites. I had a latino wingman one night who approached a couple of white girls with me only for a random latina to come along and ****block him. Ethnic women are the biggest hypocrites in the dating game, plain and simple.

6. It takes strong men to thrive.

Most other ethnic guys would have given up which is why most ethnic men rarely get hot white girls. I on the other hand kept trying and trying and trying which led to success. That is the beauty of being a strong man, you can thrive in even the most unlikely circumstances.
There's nothing racist or close minded about Arizona, you just don't understand racial politics as a whole. And your observations are likely true for all 50 states. Black and white guys got it easier than us ethnics everywhere, hell even in our own countries.
 

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Most ethnic guys have a scarcity mentality and don't know how to put bitches in their place.

Women are not attracted to suck ups.
 

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There's nothing racist or close minded about Arizona, you just don't understand racial politics as a whole. And your observations are likely true for all 50 states. Black and white guys got it easier than us ethnics everywhere, hell even in our own countries.
See this post itself tells me you aren't cut out for the kinds of girls you are chasing.

First of all, I disagree with you. A cool ethnic dude can clean up anywhere, go speak for Indian guys but don't speak for the Latinos and Asians out there cleaning up hard.

Second of all, this is the mindset of a loser who cannot get those sexy bartenders he wants. This very mindset will make them take a sexy guy over you anyday because he is not going to be weak like you are, plain and simple bro.
 

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I was in Phoenix for a few months a while back, and I visited AZ State in September (when it was still HOT!) I could not believe all the tight little coeds walking around in their little cropped shirts.
 

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I’m born and raised Arizonan moved away but keep in mind that’s a huge rural state and your citing the two specifically richest city’s. Scottsdale seriously? Hot girls in that city only care about one color. Green.

Congratulations and all, but the state is huge. Your limited experience there is ignorant to project on 80% of the state
 

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IMO latino shouldn't be considered an "ethnic"


A good looking Latin dude is just as appealing to women as a good looking white guy (same thing with the females). White = Spanish = Light Skin middle eastern >>> black >> Asian >> Indian


Anyways, OP what's with the obsession with white girls? I would take a hot ethnic girl over a white girl any day of the week
 
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Anyways, OP what's with the obsession with white girls? I would take a hot ethnic girl over a white girl any day of the week
To the OP, a white girl IS a hot ethnic girl. :)
 

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Using race to rationalize rejection is a contrived ego-preservation mechanism.

Each subset of women has a specific type. To maximize your results, target that type.

For example, I do extremely well with Eastern European and all countries from the former Soviet Union. If I target, for example, Australian women, my ratios fall.

Find your subset of women and capitalize on them.
 

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My buddy(black) grew up out there and was involved in some seedy activities...he said latinos are basically all assumed to be in gangs out there...perhaps this plays into it?
 

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Anyways, OP what's with the obsession with white girls? I would take a hot ethnic girl over a white girl any day of the week
So you're allowed to have your preference in ethnic girls but OP is not allowed to like white girls? That's some logic you have there.
 

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My buddy(black) grew up out there and was involved in some seedy activities...he said latinos are basically all assumed to be in gangs out there...perhaps this plays into it?
Pretty much this.

The status of your race in an area plays a big role in how much success you can have with women. This is why a Latino can come to a southern state and absolutely outslay a black guy when it comes to getting hot white girls (except for in Atlanta which is a cesspool of angry yankees and west coast trash) but a black guy can outslay a latino in Colorado or Arizona.

Same reason why an ugly black guy will get more hot white girls in the bay area than an Indian or Asian guy that is hot but lose to that same guy in the south (with the exception of Atlanta).
 

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So let me get this straight, you sleep with over 10 girls there but it’s still racist? Riiiiiight

You even said yourself that it’s the defeatist attitude that makes ethnic guys miss out. Get over the race obsession, seriously pathetic
 

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My buddy(black) grew up out there and was involved in some seedy activities...he said latinos are basically all assumed to be in gangs out there...perhaps this plays into it?
Latinos here in Chicago are in high demand, white woman and black woman love them, especially the carribean types, puerto ricans, dominicans, cubans. Mexicans would be on the bottom of the list for latinos, but they get play for white women and black women to

I'm in Chicago I have seen white women change their whole appearance to appear Puerto Rican. I'm seeing Indian and Asians guys picking it up in general with all races, Chicago is a very liberal, but segregated city.

White woman mostly date their own kind or African Americans/Puerto Ricans a tie its close

Still shocked latinos have it tough out there in the west, but I assume most are Mexican

Chicago has the most gang member in America so I'm not sure it exactly that. In fact the more gangster the bettter
 

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I really don’t understand the fixation with race, I think it’s an American thing.
 
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