Appearance=How you look. This includes clothes, hair, but most of all your posture and attitude.
First of all, if a girl doesnt just walk up to you and say your hot, it doesnt mean that you dont look good. You might just not look outstanding, by outstanding i mean standing out. Maybe you have been wearing preppy clothes for a while. Girls are used to seeing you like that, so you just need to kinda change something about you a bit so you look different, yet still look good.
For example take the goth kid in your school, everyone is used to seeing him where goth clothes, and black. He may stand out, but they usually dont look good in a girl's eyes. Anyway, girls expect him to wear that. It is his style. If that guy all of the sudden, changed his mohawk into a stylish hair cut, stopped wearing make up or whatever and started wearing nice abercrombie shirts with bright colors, and started struttin his stuff like a stud, he would look outstanding. Girls would notice him more. He may have been noticed before, but he didnt look outstanding.
See, when you change your style. You get a second look, which gives them a second thought as to what to think about you. But your appearance goes hand in hand with your posture. You could wear a 'hot' outfit, yet walk hunched over with your head down and drag your feet. They might take a second look, but not like what they see cause you look like you have no confidence or your not a social person.
If youve read my whole little article, youde see that i said i wore ghetto stuff that was too big for me and i wasnt confident. i went from XXL ecko, and rocawear stuff to small hollister shirts and 'beat up'(you know the whole ripped style) jeans that actually fit me. Then i just walk around with my head up, shoulders upright, and had a little smooth bounce to my step. My new style went well with my new attitude/posture. Im not saying dont wear ghetto stuff and start dressing preppy, this just worked well with me and girls liked it and thought i was hot But changing your appearance gets you noticed and gives you a second chance to say "hey, i look good, i feel good, and im happy with myself". Woman can sense this and will respect you for it, so dont ACT, BE confident. So make some changes for the better and see what happens.
If anyone of you ''DJ's'' think im wrong, feel free to correct me. But im speaking from experience.
First of all, if a girl doesnt just walk up to you and say your hot, it doesnt mean that you dont look good. You might just not look outstanding, by outstanding i mean standing out. Maybe you have been wearing preppy clothes for a while. Girls are used to seeing you like that, so you just need to kinda change something about you a bit so you look different, yet still look good.
For example take the goth kid in your school, everyone is used to seeing him where goth clothes, and black. He may stand out, but they usually dont look good in a girl's eyes. Anyway, girls expect him to wear that. It is his style. If that guy all of the sudden, changed his mohawk into a stylish hair cut, stopped wearing make up or whatever and started wearing nice abercrombie shirts with bright colors, and started struttin his stuff like a stud, he would look outstanding. Girls would notice him more. He may have been noticed before, but he didnt look outstanding.
See, when you change your style. You get a second look, which gives them a second thought as to what to think about you. But your appearance goes hand in hand with your posture. You could wear a 'hot' outfit, yet walk hunched over with your head down and drag your feet. They might take a second look, but not like what they see cause you look like you have no confidence or your not a social person.
If youve read my whole little article, youde see that i said i wore ghetto stuff that was too big for me and i wasnt confident. i went from XXL ecko, and rocawear stuff to small hollister shirts and 'beat up'(you know the whole ripped style) jeans that actually fit me. Then i just walk around with my head up, shoulders upright, and had a little smooth bounce to my step. My new style went well with my new attitude/posture. Im not saying dont wear ghetto stuff and start dressing preppy, this just worked well with me and girls liked it and thought i was hot But changing your appearance gets you noticed and gives you a second chance to say "hey, i look good, i feel good, and im happy with myself". Woman can sense this and will respect you for it, so dont ACT, BE confident. So make some changes for the better and see what happens.
If anyone of you ''DJ's'' think im wrong, feel free to correct me. But im speaking from experience.