who has read the DJBible. The community is pretty small for those out anyway. I imagine it's a lot bigger counting those who are still in the closet.
I'm kind of in an awkward position in that when I go on a date and if things don't work out, it's possible for me to bump into these people again. It's kind of like dating in your workplace. If things go wrong, it can be very, very awkward.
The reason I'm posting this here is because I trust your guys' advice more than my fellow ladies, since I think you guys have more experience with being the one who initiates. from my experience with where i live anyway, girls, unless they are very butch, DO NOT initiate. there's pretty much a stalemate with both girls giving each other subtle hints hoping the other one makes a move. :nervous:
so 2 questions:
1) how do i handle awkwardness from bumping into someone who is someone else's +1 at an event I didn't invite her to or vice versa?
2) should i proceed with looking for an ltr as you guys would? or would it be different, b/c i'm female?
I'm kind of in an awkward position in that when I go on a date and if things don't work out, it's possible for me to bump into these people again. It's kind of like dating in your workplace. If things go wrong, it can be very, very awkward.
The reason I'm posting this here is because I trust your guys' advice more than my fellow ladies, since I think you guys have more experience with being the one who initiates. from my experience with where i live anyway, girls, unless they are very butch, DO NOT initiate. there's pretty much a stalemate with both girls giving each other subtle hints hoping the other one makes a move. :nervous:
so 2 questions:
1) how do i handle awkwardness from bumping into someone who is someone else's +1 at an event I didn't invite her to or vice versa?
2) should i proceed with looking for an ltr as you guys would? or would it be different, b/c i'm female?