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Well after great frustration yesterday, i decided to tell my girl to pick up her things, and through my intelligent hb9 out of my appartement, and broke up with her.
Today, i regret and fell very sad about the situation..

The reason i broke up with her, was simply that she kept complaining over me, and had some serious issues with dobbelt standarts. Another reason being that i went through a 12 Day severe illness, where she only had time to be there for mé 1 Day - this also made me fell very sad.

Let it be Said though, that i have been with this girl for 8 months, and before that used 6 months to get to her.
I really care for her, and still dó love her.

But i need a kick In the nuts, and some tips for moving ón... Going back is not the Right thing, my mind/heart just have to realize it too..
Today i really felt like calling her to arrange a meet up, just so i could tell her how i fell.. but yet again, i know it is the wrong thing to do.
 

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Wow.... I fell like Shvt!
- 12 hours after the breakup, she is mildly 'flirting' with an old flame, she kissed 2 weeks before we Got together....
 

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You dumped her for a good reason (if she's complaining it means interest level is going down). But now you're being a girl. You whine because she's not there for you when you're needy and sick? Who wants to be around some sick person?

Then you want her back the next day? Now you're spying on her and wondering why she's moving on? You've got to wait until she comes back or you're done.
 

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I disagree with the illness part, i would have been there for her - i Guess it is a matter of values.

But yes, i dumped her and have the felling of wanting her back, but i know i shouldn't, and i am not going to take her back.

The last part i have no comments for, nothing Else than i thought she cared a bit more for mé than that :(
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
if you got 1 HB9(assuming she's not crazy) you can get another one.

There's a guy i know that looks like a 2 or 3 but has some status(But not enough to make up for his looks). He got dumped by his 7 gf and is now dating a 9. Its the most unreal thing ever to me haha, Ive hit on both his gf's too(before I knew). Tight game conquers all.
I Guess something good allways follows a bad situation!
 
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