Left a message no call back

[penkitten]

Originally posted by FunkyMillion
I left the message last week on wednesday and my message was very short, i just said "this is Funk call me back" and I gave out my number just incase it doesn't register in her phone and that's it....

I'm thinking of calling her back one more time as LongDrinkofWater suggested but if she doesn't answer this time, i'm cutting the rope and never look back.

I'm thinking of calling her tonight.... what do you guys think?

thanks for the suggestions DJs, I really appreciate it.

-Funk

ok so she gave your her number and you waited a week to call her
you called her 6 days ago.

she isnt interested anymore. someone probally snagged her up when she was waiting for you to call her that very first week or she felt that you didnt have that much interest since it took you a week to call in the first place.

 

[FunkyMillion]

no..no.. I called her after two days that we met, I envited her to dinner but she was busy so I called again a week after (last wednesday) and no answer so I left that message... and this is where we are..

-Funk

 

[dip]

call her ONE more time and dont leave a message...if she picks up lucky her(and dont even ask her why she never returned ur first phone call)...if she dosent...next

 

[00Kevin]

Girls like to have you on their answering machine calling over and over again.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by josekortez
I need to try that and see how creeped out the chicks get.

shut up.. I was hoping he would try it.

 

[JackPrescott]

Funky Million, if this woman has voicemail, and is as obsessed with her cell as all women are, she got your message. Bottom line, she knows who called on her cell, and IF she wants to sleep with you, she will call back/return the message.

 

[Johnnie5]

give her a call again and have a plan of what you are going to say

eg

Hi there this is funk , just giving you a call , i'm thinking about doing xx this week , give me a call back on xxx xxx , hope to catch you soon

give it say another 5 days and make 1 more call Hey havent heard from you if you are interested in getting together then call me on xxx xxx see ya

then do not call again

 

[penkitten]

i think she has already next'ed you.
i wouldnt call anymore.

 

[Brando23]

I don't see the problem with calling her again. So what, she didn't call back one time, you can try again. What do you have to lose? You don't have her now and if you try calling her again and she doesn't call back then you still don't have her so you've lost nothing. So you run the risk of her thinking your needy or desperate, if your never gonna talk to her again anyway then who gives a crap. At least you know you tried. The only bad thing that can come from calling her is that you find out for sure that shes not interested, which isn't even that bad because at least the uncertainty will be gone. Besides, sometimes persistance pays off.

 

[FunkyMillion]

I like Brando23's attitude. . . .

I'll call her again next week because I got tons of stuff to do with the holidays...

thanks guys,
-Funk

 

[Logen]

Originally posted by FunkyMillion
see, i'm afraid that if i call her back, i would be known as the creep or needy or desperate and if i don't call her back i might miss an opportunity.

so what's the right move here...?

don’t worry about being needy. get in contact with her and stop being such a nice guy to her. she did not call you back, she messed up not you and you have every right to be direct with her. it's not about being needy it's about you doing a favor for her by going out with her.

Simply tell her….

"listen, if you want to go out then lets do it, if not then stop wasting my time because i have other girls to see"

If she does not return your calls then she deserves this harsh treatment. You wont be missing out if she rejects you, she will miss out because you’re a great guy and you could of rocker her world. This is the mentality to have.

 

[dpw]

Originally posted by Logen
don’t worry about being needy. get in contact with her and stop being such a nice guy to her. she did not call you back, she messed up not you and you have every right to be direct with her. it's not about being needy it's about you doing a favor for her by going out with her.

Simply tell her….

"listen, if you want to go out then lets do it, if not then stop wasting my time because i have other girls to see"

If she does not return your calls then she deserves this harsh treatment. You wont be missing out if she rejects you, she will miss out because you’re a great guy and you could of rocker her world. This is the mentality to have.

Wow i like that ^^^

Or you could try what was posted in one of the old threads where you say "Playing hard to get? Talk to me" I dunno, just a suggestion.