The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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Leaving GF to work on my game

Rampage

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Im a senior in highschool and i've been going out with a pretty hot chick(HB8) for 2 months now. Everything is good between us and im ****ing her so its pretty great. Only thing is just in the past year have i been working on my appearance and becoming a pick up artist if you will. My gf is the first girl i ever started to game and needless to say it worked out real well. My problem is ill be going to college soon and i want to be able to get any chick i want there cuz there will be SO MANY SINGLE CHICKS, having only really gamed one girl i feel kinda inexperienced. I still flirt with other girls and use kino and it always goes well but oviously im not allowed to get their numbers and ask them on dates. Im considering breaking up with my girlfriend simply so that i can practice all these things i've been learning and try to get as many numbers as i can and actually go on dates and get better at talking with girls i just met. This way come college i will have a lot of experience (and devilish good looks) as opposed to having had just one girlfriend. What do you guys think about this?
 

Rampage

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how about you give me a reason why thats stupid you dip****. then maybe ill respect your oppinion
 

Microphone Fiend

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lol @the responses.

Anyways, its totally up to you. If you think you will regret breaking up, then don't do it. If you think that you will regret not doing it more, then do it.

Only you can really factor in the pros and cons because they change for each person. Good luck
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Awesome idea!
Personal skill is way more important than having a girlfriend. The skill to actually game and score with whomever you decide to is much more valuable than being stuck with one.
 

The Forms

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Having a girlfriend is the best training for how to game a girl (assuming you don't turn into an AFC while dating her).

Listen, how you attract a woman is by finding out what particular things there are about you that women find attractive. I almost need to repeat that because it's that important. By spending time with your girlfriend and seeing what it is that she's really responding to, you are learning how to game a girl.

The same things that make you attractive to her are the things that will make you attractive to most of the other girls you will meet. There's no point in breaking up until it's time to leave for college. Even then you should leave on good terms so you can still bone her at thanksgiving and christmas and any other time you both happen to be at home.

While dating this girl, you can still flirt with other girls. You can still hone your skills and build attraction.
 

DJsomeday

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Be careful dude it's a double edge sword.

On one side if you actually commit to the training you'll definately become a better person and flirter whatsoever and might bang a good amount of girls in college.

On the other side are you REALLY sure you want to do this? remember that there will be lots of failures along the way (which is good because they're steps to the victory) and there will be days when you'll be probably horny and have noone like your girlfriend to f*ck at anytime.

I think there's not a "good" or "bad" choice, just think about it carefully.

Good luck.
 

Kev07

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
Awesome idea!
Personal skill is way more important than having a girlfriend. The skill to actually game and score with whomever you decide to is much more valuable than being stuck with one.

You're a fvcking idiot.

It's not like you're choosing EITHER OR. You can have a girlfriend and still develop personality skills.

Keep gaming your girl to see what works/what doesn't

flirt/game other girls, but don't cheat, unless you and your girl have a mutual don't ask don't tell policy or something like that, but I doubt that since you're still in high school.

Cold approach do whatever, keep your social skills high.


Just remember though, that in college, girls are EASY, you don't even need that much skill to game in college. Not to mention, college game is much different than high school/real world game. Either way, when you get to college and just parted with your girl, the first month or two is plenty of getting used to/practice.


So I say, if you and your girl are getting along well, no reason to take that away, you only have another half year of high school left, live it up, you have 4 whole years of college to go pick up chicks.
 

KontrollerX

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Just do what chicks do.

Keep your girlfriend thinking you and she are having a relationship together while you go out and look for something on the side and improve your skills in so doing.

If you secure a new girl that you find is better than your girlfriend and the new girl has made it clear that she is yours then drop the dead weight.

Its not the most moral thing you can do but at least if you crash and burn you'll always come home to something else to fvck until you finally succeed in securing a new source of pvssy.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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