Leaving after I finally got it *a must read*

[comic_relief]

more realizations from the field about life in general and what it means to be a DJ

Just could not leave out these new realizations that I have come up. Could not sleep tonight...

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Hey,

I was just coming from a United Chistian Fellowship (UCF) party and I was coming to some more big realizations, while I was there.

I found out two very big things. One is that Pook's "what every skinny guy needs to know..." post is bs. Also, that the most important part of being a DJ is life experience (not in dating, but just in everything).

Firstly, Pook's thread is total BS. Looks will get you in the door. Correct, but you know what? They are very unneeded. I get girls through my personality and patience. I am patient and let those other guys have thier go at them, but you know what. I do my thang and girls become attracted to me. I show them patience and indifference.

Secondly, think about, I could ask all the open ended questions that I want, but I won't get nada. Nothing. I begin to weave together tales and stories. Suddenly everyone wants to chill and hear some of my crazy adventures. This makes me the life of the party, while girls are becoming attracted (even one that is supposedly a "fiance."). Some of the guys are becoming very jealous of me for this. I am simply being myself.

I watched the on guy that always tries to c0ckblock me, watch helplessly as I attract everyone to me to hear more stories. That was another thing that I realized is that the DJ has a certain Aura about him. It is a life style, but more importantly it is that aura that gives everyone a want to be around him. When people want to have fun, they will go for that aura of fun. We must continue to keep that aura with us. That is what attracts people to us. Not, a trick or tactic.

I do not use techniques such as kino, neg hits, give and take, or whatever bullsh!t consciously. I just do them through how I interact. I have become a person, whom everyone wants to be. I managed to go in their with very little being known about me, but yet everyone wanted to get to meet. They have become part of me.

This is the standard that a DJ should have to meet. He should be the person that can walk into a room with only one or two acquaintences and walk out with everyone wanting to get to know him. The person that everyone gets jealous of because he managed to grab life by the horns and take control. He is the person that goes and smells the roses yet has his sh!t together.

This is a DJ. A person that is in control of himself and just wants to live life. If he gets rejected by a group, he will just wipe off the dust of his feet and continue on because he knows that THEY just lost the opportunity. He will NOT be put down by petty things like that. He knows that his own personal happiness is his responsiblity, not someone else.

An AFC is a person whom lets circumstance dictate his life. A DJ makes those circumstances happen.

Just figured that I should let you know about my new insights that I have gotten.

comic_relief

 

[izza]

Sweet!

 

[Ace of Flames]

Before... I sigged you because, well, you were my comic relief.

Now, you're my inspiration.

Kudos man. Kudos.

 

[itishe]

Comic you are a fuggin pimp. I believe I added you to MSN, we should chat sometime.

 

[Brian20o2]

Bump! Great stuff bro!

 

[Jariel]

great post!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...I found out two very big things. One is that Pook's "what every skinny guy needs to know..." post is bs. Also, that the most important part of being a DJ is life experience (not in dating, but just in everything)....

You mean looks aren't the most important thing???!!! That learning confidence and self control while having a popular personality are even more important???!!!!

:cuss: FVCKIN' BLASPHAMY :cuss:

 

[rsxtreme]

your post is really eye opening! appreciated.

 

[Bourne]

Thumbs up. Great list. Print it and put it up on the wall. Live it!

 

[lurker]

Just could not leave out these new realizations that I have come up. Could not sleep tonight...

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Hey,

I was just coming from a United Chistian Fellowship (UCF) party and I was coming to some more big realizations, while I was there.

I found out two very big things. One is that Pook's "what every skinny guy needs to know..." post is bs

wrong it isnt bull ****. getting bigger helps with chicks. im prove. it gets you more attention. you could have a pretty boy face but im getting your girl and banging her.

. Also, that the most important part of being a DJ is life experience (not in dating, but just in everything).

true not women. but everything very correct.

Firstly, Pook's thread is total BS. Looks will get you in the door. Correct, but you know what? They are very unneeded. I get girls through my personality and patience. I am patient and let those other guys have thier go at them, but you know what. I do my thang and girls become attracted to me. I show them patience and indifference.

Secondly, think about, I could ask all the open ended questions that I want, but I won't get nada. Nothing. I begin to weave together tales and stories. Suddenly everyone wants to chill and hear some of my crazy adventures. This makes me the life of the party, while girls are becoming attracted (even one that is supposedly a "fiance."). Some of the guys are becoming very jealous of me for this. I am simply being myself.

 

[comic_relief]

In a PM that I wrote to a friend on here, he asked about self-limiting beliefs like fear of the approach and how to overcome them. I came up with a little answer that I think could help him. It is just a little more in-depth.
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Like I said (or implied) in my final post, I had to get rid of all self-limiting beliefs before I finally got it. In order for you to realize your full potential as well, you must defeat these self-limiting beliefs, or as I like to call them, "Inner Demons" that like to hold us back.

Most of the self-defeating mindset is based on "something bad might happen. So why do it?" Than, years down the road when we are old and gray we will sit on our death bed looking up thinking of all the things that we did not accomplish. Would you really like to see these perfect moments just flash in your mind. Every opportunity is a gift for us to use. We only have ONE opportunity for each thing. I hate to squander each opportunity because of an illegitmate fear that does not actually exist.

And, so what if something bad does actually happen? Do YOU know ANY OF THESE PEOPLE that are around you? Most likely not. If so, these people probably do not go out there and approach women. More likely than not, they do not even want to take life by the horns, they would rather go let life take them to their next destination. Personally, I like having that plan or idea on where I would like to go.

Two very important things, realize the power of the number one and in order to reach maximum potential, you must defeat your inner demons. They like to hold you back. They WANT to hold you back. Hell, they were born to hold you back. You must kill each and every one of them.

Hope that helped,
comic_relief

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PS Lurker,

I am going to try and understand your post. You are basically saying that looks are more important than personality and inner game? If that is true, than you are most likely in it for STR or SLTR (****ty Long Term Relationships) and not truely fulfilling LTR's.

Self-respect and true confidence with a little bit of looks will get you far more results than just looks alone and getting bigger. Didn't you ever wonder how and why half of the biggest PUA's in history were not so big and brawny. Most had a lot of self-confidence to run their game without the looks because they knew that it did not matter as much.

But, let's forget this topic because I do not want to argue this point when their is a huge thread in the archives about just this same thing.

comic_relief

 

[comic_relief]

bump

I am losing my internet connection so I will see everyone tomorrow afternoon.

Have a nice month and have a happy new years.

comic_relief

 

[Last Man Standing]

Baseball DJ - to answer your PM - I am HE!!!

Comic Book dude, and to all others, don't define yourself within the realm of DJism - define your existence as it relates to being a man in a sea of humanity!!!!

DJism is mainly limited to and focused on your pursuit of women - but as a man you are so much more!! For those of you who do not have a permanent presence of women in your life don't be disheartened -a greater goal should be to have peace of mind - if you have his then you are ahead of most people on the planet!!

 

[comic_relief]

bonjour and hello again,

I am once again leaving, but this time, I will have no internet connection at all. So, I'll be back in September.

Best of luck everyone.

comic_relief