Leave my house and do what...

[RichardTheFrog]

So I got the amazing advice of leaving my house, which I do anyway, but...

Then what? Talk to people? About what? Guys and girls? Make friends? What if I don't want to make friends?

Small talk sucks but it's obviously necessary at some point, I think. Unless I just want to get drunk and talk about my bionic d1ck.

It usually takes me 6 beers to utter a single word, anyway. Plus, I got a nutritionist and beer is definitely not on my diet.

OLD is trash and ugly girls. I could talk to good looking girls all day long on Seeking Arrangement, but the down side is that I would have to pay.

I have gotten looks from hot girls in person, even bartenders and stuff like that, but it's hit or miss and I'm just as likely to get pissed off at some prissy pretentious little girl who thinks get sh1t doesn't stink and thinks that her butt is worth just as much as my whole life.

Right now, I'm going to drive to that Hugo Boss store and get shirts. It's open until 11.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Read this: https://www.google.com/search?clien...64.mobile-gws-img..14.9.1961....0.n4ZUFJ8v7aQ

I flip houses and should be making $300k/year at least within a few years. How is that not "a life?"

Or do you just not know the answer so you talk sh1t because you're a dork.

 

[GoodOne123]

Lol don't say you don't want friends. None of us are special, we all want companionship and a sense of a circle of trust we can call our own.

We are social animals, of course we want to talk to people, don't tell me you don't because deep down you probably do. If youre dis-satisfied, u might not be talking to the right group of people that's all.

Small talk? It's not necessary unless you are the type of guy who is straight to the point. Like me. Works fine.

You have a bionic dik???

If it takes 6 beers to even talk you need to work on your social skills....

You might get looks from girls, but it don't neccesarrily mean interest. She might be creeped out if you are constatntly staring at her and wants to see who you are, or she just might be glancing your general direction. See if you are correctly reading her body language.

Btw what is the point of this post, or have I just not picked up on the fact that you're just trolling???

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Lol don't say you don't want friends. None of us are special, we all want companionship and a sense of a circle of trust we can call our own.

We are social animals, of course we want to talk to people, don't tell me you don't because deep down you probably do. If youre dis-satisfied, u might not be talking to the right group of people that's all.

Small talk? It's not necessary unless you are the type of guy who is straight to the point. Like me. Works fine.

You have a bionic dik???

If it takes 6 beers to even talk you need to work on your social skills....

You might get looks from girls, but it don't neccesarrily mean interest. She might be creeped out if you are constatntly staring at her and wants to see who you are, or she just might be glancing your general direction. See if you are correctly reading her body language.

Btw what is the point of this post, or have I just not picked up on the fact that you're just trolling???

I don't trust other guys because I know how competitive the world is and how it's everyone for themself.

Correction: Takes me 2-4 beers to get in touch with my emotions.

I don't even like my family.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Frog, I have asked you before what qualities exactly you are looking for in another person. Not what you want to do with them (sex), but what you desire them to be in regard to interests, personality, intelligence level....everything. There is a very good reason I ask, because the answer to that one question will answer so many of the other questions you have: where to go, what to do, what to talk about, etc. By identifying what qualities and traits these people might have, you could then define where such people can be found (where you can go and do), what such people would be interested in talking about (that would actually interest you, rather than bore you, anger you or turn you off), and so on.

Imagine the company of a woman who enjoys discussing all of the things that you are interested in. Is that person going to found at a nightclub or somewhere else? You have to figure that sh1t out, because once you do, you would thewn be able to pinpoint situations where you can explode with natural conversation topics. You wouldn't need to sit there thinking about what stupid topic to reluctantly go on to next as you play pop song trivia with angry clenched teeth. That sh1t isn't going to work.

List topics you know about and enjoy discussing. That will be a list of specific facets you're looking for in others.

List topics you know nothing about but have an interest in learning. That too will be a list of specific facets you're looking for in others, not only because it can help you meet and open discussions with them by asking questions, but they will do most of the talking.

List the kind of activities you enjoy or want to start doing. That will become a list of potential places to go/things to do.

Make a list of everything you can think of that will open you up and make socializing less tedious for you, more interesting, more natural. In that list will be many of the answers to your other questions, resolve the hang ups in your social skills, etc.

I don't desire to talk to them about anything. I don't care if we share interests or care to tell them what my interests are or have a discussion about it. I don't care what their interests are, either.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Well then you need to stop trying to socialize with women for sexual purposes, stop asking all of these questions you ask here and just regulate it all down to the simple, straight forward business of an agreeable price for sex.

Yea but I want that price to be zero.

Unless I could FAKE caring about what their interests are? But most girls have boring interests like their fvcking cat. What's to talk about?

Also, I think they assume they are better than me, anyway. Sometimes, I get treated like I'm some hobo.

 

[derby1]

people treat you the way you allow them to treat you, you attract what you fear

 

[RichardTheFrog]

If you don't want to utilize social skills to get laid, and you don't want to pay money to get laid..... then you're not going to get laid.



Insincerity is impossible to mask if you don't have the social acuity that it actually takes to mask it. Do you really want to pretend you're happy & smiley if you're actually miserable? Doesn't that piss you off to begin with? Some guys can do this. Some can stroll into any place, find any woman and talk about anything even if the genuine interest isn't there. You're not one of these guys. Not now, anyway. You have to find a more sincere and natural route that gives you the best chance to succeed right now. That's what I'm trying to lay out for you.

And yeah, many women are fvcking boring, but I didn't ask you what they like to talk about that doesn't interest you (their cat). I asked what your interests are on topics of conversation. You just have to seek out women who share your interests, because those interests are natural openers for you, with the appropriate women who can feed into the conversation on your terms. You don't HAVE to be interested in her. It's the topic, the opener and the dynamics of conversation that benefit you the most that should be of interest to you.

If I know a lot about or would like to learn more about astronomy, for example, if it's a topic I can start talking and/or asking questions about with a natural interest, then finding a woman who is interested in such a thing can resolve a lot of problems. Where do women like that go? It is unlikely I will find them at a bar or behind the counter at Hugo Boss. I'd have better luck at a star party. How do I approach and open such a woman? I ask her a related question. "What are you looking at in your telescope?". Easy. Natural, Appropriate. No discussion about cats or pop songs. See where I'm trying to go with this?

Every interest YOU have. Every single interest YOU want to pursue, holds within it that same, natural, opening potential with a woman who possesses those same interests.

How can you have any interest in women if you don't know where to fvcking look for interesting women?

See this hole in the wall with wires sticking out of it (pics below)? That will be the first in a series of outlets that will go above the countertop. The "input" wire from this house was built in the 1950's, so the cable only has a hot and neutral wire, and no ground. Technically, it doesn't need a ground because it's a GFCI outlet, but I'd rather put one anyway. To replace this old cable with a new one, I would have to remove ceiling and wall panels, which would be hella time consuming and annoying. So instead of doing that, I'm borrowing a ground from a different circuit, and while I'm at it, grounding the bathroom exhaust fan which had been ungrounded since I bought the house. I doubt a code inspector would like you branching ground wires to different circuits but I know that it is not a hazard. It is simply letting current get back to the ground bar in the panel, and then the Earth.

That is what is interesting me today. I do not wish to find a female electrician to discuss this with.

Girls are not interesting people!!!! And I barely care about their butts. They would have to be giving me some super awesome head for them to even be worth my time.

Yet on the surface, society would tell you that females are the valuable ones, despite the fact that they have very little value at all. The whole post-feminist world we live in is a fvcking joke.

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[RichardTheFrog]

If you don't want to utilize social skills to get laid, and you don't want to pay money to get laid..... then you're not going to get laid.



Insincerity is impossible to mask if you don't have the social acuity that it actually takes to mask it. Do you really want to pretend you're happy & smiley if you're actually miserable? Doesn't that piss you off to begin with? Some guys can do this. Some can stroll into any place, find any woman and talk about anything even if the genuine interest isn't there. You're not one of these guys. Not now, anyway. You have to find a more sincere and natural route that gives you the best chance to succeed right now. That's what I'm trying to lay out for you.

And yeah, many women are fvcking boring, but I didn't ask you what they like to talk about that doesn't interest you (their cat). I asked what your interests are on topics of conversation. You just have to seek out women who share your interests, because those interests are natural openers for you, with the appropriate women who can feed into the conversation on your terms. You don't HAVE to be interested in her. It's the topic, the opener and the dynamics of conversation that benefit you the most that should be of interest to you.

If I know a lot about or would like to learn more about astronomy, for example, if it's a topic I can start talking and/or asking questions about with a natural interest, then finding a woman who is interested in such a thing can resolve a lot of problems. Where do women like that go? It is unlikely I will find them at a bar or behind the counter at Hugo Boss. I'd have better luck at a star party. How do I approach and open such a woman? I ask her a related question. "What are you looking at in your telescope?". Easy. Natural, Appropriate. No discussion about cats or pop songs. See where I'm trying to go with this?

Every interest YOU have. Every single interest YOU want to pursue, holds within it that same, natural, opening potential with a woman who possesses those same interests.

How can you have any interest in women if you don't know where to fvcking look for interesting women?

Okay well at least we've narrowed the problem down to...

The manner in which I socialize.

I'm telling you, I barely talk. Like almost never. If there's something to talk about, like at the bank or Home Depot, then I can talk, but I can't just talk about nothing.

Most of the time, I feel that it is not worth my breath to make pointless conservation.

 

[Bible_Belt]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I'll see that and raise you this:

The following behaviors are often associated with Asperger syndrome. However, they are seldom all present in any one individual and vary widely in degree:

• limited or inappropriate social interactions
• "robotic" or repetitive speech
• challenges with nonverbal communication (gestures, facial expression, etc.) coupled with average to above average verbal skills
• tendency to discuss self rather than others
• inability to understand social/emotional issues or nonliteral phrases
• lack of eye contact or reciprocal conversation
• obsession with specific, often unusual, topics
• one-sided conversations
• awkward movements and/or mannerisms

I don't do any of this stuff, neither do I do most of the stuff on your list.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

you've done everything on that list just in your short time here

I lacked eye contact?