Ok guys, so we've all been there...
You've spent the time you needed to make yourself look good at the start of the evening (or morning, but i'm using the evening in my example) and you're feeling your usual self; suave, energetic and most of all, confident.
When you get to the party (or class) you were headed to, you can't help but notice that one of the girls has gone out of her way to look drop dead gorgeous today.
Already she is being swamped by drooling AFC's whose necks are sore from staring up at her on her pedestal.
She's looking HOT and she knows it.
Some vague social programming starts to creep back in your head (or should i say, the AFC mindset does).
It's not that you feel any less good looking than you did when you walked out the door, merely that now, you're faced with the daunting task of approaching the very dolled up HB9+.
You fear for a second that you'll be caught up in her good looks if you get close enough to talk to her, and will probably end up talking to her chest and making a bad impression.
Not wanting to have to deal with a babe of her magnitude you may slink away and fall victim to the three second rule, whereas if she was in her ordinary state you wouldn't hesitate to go up and start a conversation with her.
Theoretically this would not happen to the evolved Don Juan because he would naturally be as unfazed talking to a HB9.5 as he would talking to a HB5.
Let's be honest, very few of us here have reached that stage so it's nice to have alternate method of 'getting yourself into the game' when faced with a dazzling beauty.
We've all heard of psyching oneself out, but for those who haven't, it's basically negative self talk that throws you off the path and caused you to be in a losing mindset before anything as happened. A real bummer for your confidence. EX. "That girl looks like a pornstar, what do I have to offer?"
I'm essentially looking for the opposite.
Faced with the above scenario, or one of similar circumstances, how would you go about psyching yourself INTO approaching this babe who has transformed from what you usually see her as. Or, better yet, how would you go about knocking her right off her pedestal and into your outstretched arms so to speak
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Some common examples include:
- imagine the girl has a hairy ass
- imagine the girl is your sister
- imagine the girl is a transvestite
- imagine the girl 100lbs heavier etc.
collaborate boys, and lets make up one helluva list that we can all use for the next time we need that little extra to psych ourselves... IN...
You've spent the time you needed to make yourself look good at the start of the evening (or morning, but i'm using the evening in my example) and you're feeling your usual self; suave, energetic and most of all, confident.
When you get to the party (or class) you were headed to, you can't help but notice that one of the girls has gone out of her way to look drop dead gorgeous today.
Already she is being swamped by drooling AFC's whose necks are sore from staring up at her on her pedestal.
She's looking HOT and she knows it.
Some vague social programming starts to creep back in your head (or should i say, the AFC mindset does).
It's not that you feel any less good looking than you did when you walked out the door, merely that now, you're faced with the daunting task of approaching the very dolled up HB9+.
You fear for a second that you'll be caught up in her good looks if you get close enough to talk to her, and will probably end up talking to her chest and making a bad impression.
Not wanting to have to deal with a babe of her magnitude you may slink away and fall victim to the three second rule, whereas if she was in her ordinary state you wouldn't hesitate to go up and start a conversation with her.
Theoretically this would not happen to the evolved Don Juan because he would naturally be as unfazed talking to a HB9.5 as he would talking to a HB5.
Let's be honest, very few of us here have reached that stage so it's nice to have alternate method of 'getting yourself into the game' when faced with a dazzling beauty.
We've all heard of psyching oneself out, but for those who haven't, it's basically negative self talk that throws you off the path and caused you to be in a losing mindset before anything as happened. A real bummer for your confidence. EX. "That girl looks like a pornstar, what do I have to offer?"
I'm essentially looking for the opposite.
Faced with the above scenario, or one of similar circumstances, how would you go about psyching yourself INTO approaching this babe who has transformed from what you usually see her as. Or, better yet, how would you go about knocking her right off her pedestal and into your outstretched arms so to speak
.Some common examples include:
- imagine the girl has a hairy ass
- imagine the girl is your sister
- imagine the girl is a transvestite
- imagine the girl 100lbs heavier etc.
collaborate boys, and lets make up one helluva list that we can all use for the next time we need that little extra to psych ourselves... IN...
