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Jariel

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The whole deal with women and their games can be a complicated affair. Women have rules and games they play with guys, most of which they learn at a young age. They learn how to manipulate their fathers with cuteness, tantrums and compliments, and soon realise that this same stuff works on most guys. This is further taught and encouraged in their teen magazines and from various media sources of feminist propaganda (Sex and the City springs to mind) aimed at giving power to women.

The best way to counteract this is to learn their games and their rules. In doing this, we can prepare, learn how to turn them to our favour, and not least, we can get some insight into their thinking.

So what I hope to achieve with this tip is an ongoing collection of rules woman abide by and games they play. Additions would be more than welcome...
 

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This is a list of rules for women I pulled from http://www.topdatingtips.com/dating-rules-for-women.htm


General Dating Rules

Always look great, whatever your income. Gorgeous hair and some lipstick and wearing rags will still turn his head. You have the advantage, you are the woman. Look your best as you could meet a potential Mr. Right anywhere at any time.

Never reveal information you don't have to. An enigmatic woman drives men wild.

Keep dates brief but your men interested. Less is always more.

Try and stay in shape and involve some fitness regime at a gym. However much you hate it, your Mr. Right loves your body as much as your mind.

Let your man pay. If he is interested, he is interested enough to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a cab.

Ensure you receive flowers, if he doesn't know what a florist is, dump him.

Never ever sleep with a guy until he has fallen for you. Sex early in your dating game plan will ruin everything.

Always keep a guy waiting and never turn up early. It is a lady's perogative.

Never be available when he wants you to be. Never be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or two first before replying.

If he is available Tuesday, you are available Thursday.

Weekend shopping trips with girlfriends are sacred and not available for dates.

Keep your man standing on quicksand by shifting landmarks and goalposts constantly.

Ensure you are a good kisser. Men will walk away if you cannot kiss. Practise on a mirror if you have to.

Never ever talk about previous boyfriends and particularly their prowess in the bedroom. The number of ex boyfriends is your business only.

Never pre suppose anything about your date until you choose to know him better. You cannot always tell by looking

If any man shows the slightest signs of possessiveness or insecurity run like the wind. Life is too short for boys.

If his shoes or hygiene are a disgrace dump him

Never talk too much about your father and how your date measures up in comparison.

Never ever come across as too available or too desperate, he will run a mile. He is the one doing the chasing remember.

If the guy in the corner is gorgeous go and get him and create the need in him for you. Never wait for men to come to you because you may watch him leave with someone else.

You may well have all the bodily functions of a man, just try not to demonstrate them early on.

If you are wanting a child, don't mention it on the first few dates.

Never ever criticize his mother unless you want to remain single.


Online Dating Rules

Always let them come to you, don't chase via email

Block anyone who annoys you instantly

Place the best & most vampish photo up you can find

Don't reply to instant messages with clever opening lines

Remain aloof and let yourself be chased

Always reply to emails at least 3 days after receipt

Never provide you true email or phone details to the man

Always date safely and protect yourself at every turn

Make sure your login name is stunning and sexy as well as enigmatic

Do not login for hours on end. Short, rapid visits are best

Do not assume the man you are talking to is destitute or sad

Never ever reply to emails at weekends, wait until a weekday

Never state how good your sexual performance is in your profile

If you don't want to date married men spell it out in your profile

A man who doesn't reply to your email within 3 days should be ignored

Make sure your humor levels come across in text

Do not chat to hundreds of men at once, the delay in replying is a dead giveaway and your Mr. Right will be off.

Don't even think about misrepresenting your size or description. They will find out.

Come across as cool and sophisticated for best results

Always remember ladies that you are a sexy desirable woman and the world is your oyster. Always let men do the chasing and always let yourself be the chooser.
 

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Jariel, plz delete that bullsh1t. I know your normal posts in the H+F forum etc. are MUCH better than that so just delete it.
This is no little girly forum and threads like that make the don juan forum a sad fvcking joke.

I dont care sh1t what some girls have for dating rules because i dont give a fvck about little girls i want real women(though i like it when real women behave like little girls ;) )

just delete it man
 

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Originally posted by Double
Jariel, plz delete that bullsh1t. I know your normal posts in the H+F forum etc. are MUCH better than that so just delete it.
This is no little girly forum and threads like that make the don juan forum a sad fvcking joke.

I dont care sh1t what some girls have for dating rules because i dont give a fvck about little girls i want real women(though i like it when real women behave like little girls ;) )

just delete it man
I think you misunderstand. These are the sort of dumb rules and games women live by and try to string us along with. This is the sort of thing they've been fed since their teens and women (even adult women) actually follow this stuff.

Yes, it's total trash, but this is why so many guys are left dumbfounded, wondering what the hell happened.

I mean, how many posts have there been from guys asking why a girl flaked out on them or never returned their calls. Well, here's one reason they never considered...

Never be available when he wants you to be. Never be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or two first before replying.
She didn't answer your call because she's playing games and following some dating tips she read in some magazine.

All I'm saying is that we should know what advice women are following in order to understand them better.
 

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As far as I'm concerned more women should follow these rules... if she looks good all the time, doesn't stress with phone calls and spends weekends with her girfriends, leaving you to get other chicks, practices kissing in the miror and hopefully BJ's on banana's... It's A-OK by me :D
 

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this is intresting, and although it could be usefull to know, it is all in all pretty useless all in all, as there is nothing you can do with this information.
 

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This is pretty much old stuff as you have taken it from the Rules book that has been around for some time.

There is a thread here a couple of years old that deals with "Rules Girls" and how to cope with them. I read it once, very good quality, but I forgot who wrote it. A search would be a good idea.
 

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The only way you can counteract this sh*t is by playing your part: Women do the choosing, therefore you do the picking, and out of all the women choosing, you have to identify the most interested parties.

Once you have something established with a very interested female, she will have great difficulties adhering to these 'rules'.

Weed out the women with mediocre interest and you'll be fine.
 

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Jariel I still think it's bullsh1t :p !

how is this going to help some young DJ ?
"ummm ok i understand now, next time i'm in loo0000oove with a girl i will spend my whole money on her, tolerate her sh1t, act secure, ........."
come on man, who wants to be with such hoe'S anyway??!if the woman flakes on you SHOULD NOT care about the reason....could be tha silly lil girly ruleZ, she's AW, she couldn't say straight "umm no sorry", she got a "better" guy, she got back with her X-BF,..........WHO CAREZ IT'S OVER FIND THE NEXT ONE::::::::::::::u should concentrate on yourself and not on some girl......girls there are many but there is only one you, so improve yourself and go out hunting instead of analysing why you couldnt get with some chick.....

beside that i don't think there are many girls that live by these rules.....if they would live by all these rules they would be single for a loooong loooooooong time(uglo+average girls probably for lifetime:D ) i mean come on.......the man should bring flowerZ and buy sh1t...and always take disrespect like the girl showing up late.....ok thats doable for niceguys.......but "If any man shows the slightest signs of possessiveness or insecurity run like the wind. Life is too short for boys." loooooooooooooool thats so controversial!
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Another thing to keep in mind is that the girls who use these rules invariably end up bored out of their minds with the men they eventually end up snagging using these rules.

Just forget reading this stuff, it will confuse you and keep you from implementing your DJism.

Only a guy who is not out there getting multiple phone numbers and dates would even be concerned with this crap.

The guy concentrating on one girl at a time is the one worrying over this foolish stuff.

Let a girl play all the damn games she wants, because if you aren't getting what you want because of games, it won't matter anyway, because there are tonnes of chicks just around the corner that will give you what you want.

Don't fall into their mindset by reading this garbage.

In fact, my slogan for my new image, since discovering this site is:

"Some girls push me away, and some girls pull me closer"

In fact, that shall be my new sig.
 

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no your sig doesnt work.......


but good supporting, yeh only invite girls with high interest in your life than you are the one getting drinks and stuff;) haha at least it will be equal

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lol you used location instead of signature??
 

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It's no different than guys taking the advice of this site and the Bible, David DeAngelo and alike. Believe it or not, women get used and abused by men too, so they have rules and games for the same reason we do - to increase interest and to prevent themselves from being treated like a doormat.

Trust me, I hate women's games as much as anybody, but if I am truthful, they work! Girls who are predictable, easy to get and supplicating are boring, just like nice guys are boring to girls.

If you look at that list, most of those rules are the same rules taught to men on this site to avoid looking desperate, being treated like a doormat etc.

I'm certainly not suggesting we should give into their games, but rather to call their bluff. I do this all the time and it works like magic. If a woman is pulling something like this, I will do the opposite of what she wants. It totally messes up their game and gives me the upper hand.

Personally, I think it's important to know their games so that I can avoid falling into their traps and falling for their sh1t tests.
 

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okay man i trust you! your intentions were good and if that is working for you than great! i just have a bit different point of view because for me these rules are really silly and i dont deal with such girls that use this ridiculous stuff

i dont think you need to know these rules from your thread - you just need to know that girls also can use DJ techniques. infact these techniques were surely not invented by some guy named DeAngelo or some other guy who makes much $$$ with that, but from women themselves. focus on yourself, look your best, be a challenge, that all are not dj techniques but originally girl techniques. so you know everything you need to know.

As my observation skills improved i was really stunned by how much game some women have - they are really 100% game. But realize - if they want YOU THE DJ to win their game - than their game works FOR you. Than you don't have to use sh1tty techniques - just lean back, take a beer(or better a whey protein) - their game will be easy and fun. just relax because it may take some time.
It has nothing to do with that the girl is easy to get or supplicating - they are only easy because they want YOU - let an AFC enter their game and it will be cruel, painful and in the end - LJBF.

Interested woman will always do SOME tests - how else can they find out if your the real deal? that is just fine with me - hell i also do my own little tests to see if she is good for more than sex. but it is a lotta difference if she is doing some little tests or if she uses fvcking techniques that just disrespect me. i love that saying "she does this only twice to me - the first and the last time". why deal with such girls? either she is full of sh1t or not really interested.


Personally, I think it's important to know their games so that I can avoid falling into their traps and falling for their sh1t tests.
If that is your most important point than i agree with you, i just think it can be done with basic knowledge of the game and good observation skills
 

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What I find annoying is it is hard to decipher whether a woman is playing games or not interested, as the general point of games is to play hard to get. For example if she doesn't return a call is she playing hard to get, or is she just blowing you off and not interested.

I think the only way to deal with games is to not let them get to you and dp the opposite of what she wants you to do.

e.g. She doesn't return a call. Don't do what she wants and keep phoning her. Instead don't call her and break off contact until she phones you-so she realises that if she wants to see you, she has to return calls.

e.g. She says oh i can't do tuesday, you say how about thursday. She says thursday is no good. Your response should be. Those are the only days i can do. Bye.

e.g. She says i dunno i might be busy on tuesday. I will give you a ring when I am certain. You say, I will give you a ring another time when your schedule is tighter.

e.g. If she is running late and you have waited for five minutes and she hasn't phoned to say she is running late. Leave. She can't make a fuss because all you have to say is "You didn't call to say you were running late, so i assumed you were a no show and left."
 

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Here are some gifts you should buy for ur special women.............



1. Electrical appliances.

2. Cleaning equipment .

3. Cooking utensils .

4. A gift for yourself and pretend it is for her.

5. Cheap perfume

6. Clothes

7. Cubic zirconium jewelry

8. flannel lingerie

9. Gift certificate for weight

10. Anti-wrinkle cream

11, Gift vouchers

12. A weekend away together to your parents

THE DIFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN
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A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.

A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
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A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.

A successful woman is one who can find such a man.


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Any married man should forget his mistakes. There's no use in two people remembering the same thing.
 
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