I had a gf of 4 year ltr (+LDR) and cause of circumstances we had to end. It took lile 6 months to finish everything. As always she wanted to stay friends and i rejected that it cant happen cz i still love you. She said the same things but she couldnt think of a life without me bla bla bla.
Like 2 months ago, we decided to move on to our own ways while keeping a low level of communication. I already had 2 more plates around even they were not like her. She left all alone after that talk. When we made our deal, i told her that no contact when i m out of the country and she doesnt exist when i come to her country.
Like a month ago, i told her that i will be out of my country for 3 weeks. I purposely told her that I will be in her country where i am now and going back to mine tomorrow.
She failed to keep her promise and wanted to meet. I wanted that also cz wanted to tell her that im meeting new girls and i told her in a nice way that i met with some girls. Our meeting was so short but her eyes were unbelivable almost crying.
Even she wanted to see me she told me about a problem with her laptop. Without the laptop, i couldnt fix anything so i called her to call me after work and she started to get crazy.
She was telling me how hurt she was and why not to talk now cz i m with another girl etc. Later i called her and told that just for laptop...just bring and i ll be there etc...She send me so many love and hate messages that she cant see me cz she is still in love with me. At the end, i told her i will wait for her, she didnt answer exactly whether she will come etc. And she didnt come, i asked her with sms about coming ...no reply...i called she didnt pick up. After I wrote some hursh messages she replied and said "I am sorry i cant come cz I m still in love with you and i cant see you while you touch someone else...it hurts so much"...Then I replied "I am also sorry, by forever"...At the beginning, she didnt take it seriously but later she got crazy...so many massages so many calls for almost 2 days. But during this period i was with another chick.
Anyway, at the end i told her "I have nothing to tell her, if she has anything to say, im in my apartment", she replied that she is coming early in the morning.
I will have 3 hours before I leave but somehow I got so angry this time. I want to bang her and may be keep as a FB but I dont want her to think that I want us to be back as before a year ago. What do you guys advice me to do in that short period?
Like 2 months ago, we decided to move on to our own ways while keeping a low level of communication. I already had 2 more plates around even they were not like her. She left all alone after that talk. When we made our deal, i told her that no contact when i m out of the country and she doesnt exist when i come to her country.
Like a month ago, i told her that i will be out of my country for 3 weeks. I purposely told her that I will be in her country where i am now and going back to mine tomorrow.
She failed to keep her promise and wanted to meet. I wanted that also cz wanted to tell her that im meeting new girls and i told her in a nice way that i met with some girls. Our meeting was so short but her eyes were unbelivable almost crying.
Even she wanted to see me she told me about a problem with her laptop. Without the laptop, i couldnt fix anything so i called her to call me after work and she started to get crazy.
She was telling me how hurt she was and why not to talk now cz i m with another girl etc. Later i called her and told that just for laptop...just bring and i ll be there etc...She send me so many love and hate messages that she cant see me cz she is still in love with me. At the end, i told her i will wait for her, she didnt answer exactly whether she will come etc. And she didnt come, i asked her with sms about coming ...no reply...i called she didnt pick up. After I wrote some hursh messages she replied and said "I am sorry i cant come cz I m still in love with you and i cant see you while you touch someone else...it hurts so much"...Then I replied "I am also sorry, by forever"...At the beginning, she didnt take it seriously but later she got crazy...so many massages so many calls for almost 2 days. But during this period i was with another chick.
Anyway, at the end i told her "I have nothing to tell her, if she has anything to say, im in my apartment", she replied that she is coming early in the morning.
I will have 3 hours before I leave but somehow I got so angry this time. I want to bang her and may be keep as a FB but I dont want her to think that I want us to be back as before a year ago. What do you guys advice me to do in that short period?
