Lazy gf, starting to piss me off.

arcilitei34

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My gf's always had a weakness for rainy weather apparently she gets really lazy and she doesnt even want to do anything at all, what makes me angry the most is we had plans for today and the rain comes between it. On the phone while i was talking to her when she told me she didnt want to do anything she asked me if i was mad at her afterwards, frankly i was, i told her i was dissapointed. How would a DJ handle this?
 

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I would say (not to her) "**** it."

And get some of your friends, and go and do something.

If she wants to be a party pooper, let her, don't let her drag you down with her.

Misery loves company, don't be her company.
 

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Originally posted by The TallOne
If she wants to be a party pooper, let her, don't let her drag you down with her.
I agree.

Do your own thing bro. Always have a back up plan with the boys or another girl, just in case.

And the next time she asks if you're angry, say 'nope, not at all, i'll find something to do, talk to you later'.
 

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You're in luck

I had the SAME situation a few years back with my ex.

Very lazy person, never wanted to go out if it was too hot or too rainy. It really had me trippin every single time. But one day as I was just staring at the ceiling, unhappy, I just said **** it.

The next time she told me she didn't feel like it, I told her I was gonna go chill with some other people instead. She said "Ok thats cool......who?" I mentioned a few guy friends and a lot more girls, and I said they were all going out and had wanted me to come along but I said no because I wanted to spend the day with her instead. It was a fib, yes, but it put her in line because one of the girls I mentioned, she HATED.

She indirectly asked me not to go, and to "stay home and be with her" but I said no, I don't want to stay home today, I need to go out. I called up my buddies and some girls and had a GREAT TIME
 
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dump her dude, she's not the one for you obviously. go find a girl that likes to have fun!
 

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Re: You're in luck

Originally posted by Gold Heart

She indirectly asked me not to go, and to "stay home and be with her" but I said no, I don't want to stay home today, I need to go out. I called up my buddies and some girls and had a GREAT TIME
Listen to this man...
 
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