Lay count vs. Quality

skinnyguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2013
Messages
3,446
Reaction score
1,259
A lot of guys come on here bragging about their lay count, but what we don't know is what the girls look like and how many of them were hookers.

I believe that a guy who has had a very hot girlfriend is worth more than a guy who has banged 200 below average girls.

What do you guys think? Does lay count even matter if you don't know the context?
 

GS750

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 28, 2013
Messages
1,565
Reaction score
192
my bro's in college used to brag about their lay count. then I'd see some of these slores and I wouldn't be impressed. I think having a cute/hot gf with a pleasing personality beats a high lay count with a bunch of mediocre girls any day. But that's just me.
 

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,125
Reaction score
5,751
Age
48
Location
midwestern cow field 40
My count is closer to 20 than 200, lol. But it's because those 20 or so came back for more and occupied my time, often for many years at a time.
 

mustfirstregister

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 19, 2009
Messages
553
Reaction score
5
im at 16 lay counts. all from daygame. I head guys about getting 600 lay counts and another guy who is 18 and has 100 laycounts LOL...
 

old_skoolr

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2011
Messages
642
Reaction score
243
Location
Melbourne
Every guy has banged/hooked up/made out with a girl deemed ugly or not attractive. It happens, how I see it, you gotta slay a few rats before you get to the dragon.

Just gotta make sure noone finds out haha
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

mangotot

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2014
Messages
1,113
Reaction score
22
Its better to have low lay how but only higher quality. Personal preference anyway.
 

logicallefty

Moderator
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
6,054
Reaction score
5,239
Age
50
Location
Northeast Florida, USA
I think there is something to be said for quality for good men.. But at the same time if you take your worst of the worst AFC with zero game, if he is too much of a wuss even he may have trouble getting what we might call a HB1-3.. Even fatties and uglies have some options and aren't gonna get wet over some chumps.. So if Mr. AFC Chump goes from there to finally railing any women, IMO, that would be a +1 for him. For guys like us though, again, I'm with you fellas who say quality trumps quantity.

I'm right at 20 for a romp count now but I was such an AFC that at age 30 I had only railed one. The other 19 have been sense then.
 

MattR1984

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2014
Messages
84
Reaction score
1
old_skoolr said:
Every guy has banged/hooked up/made out with a girl deemed ugly or not attractive. It happens, how I see it, you gotta slay a few rats before you get to the dragon.

Just gotta make sure noone finds out haha
I can honestly say I have never fvcked an unattractive/ugly girl. I am very picky. The heaviest girl I've ever banged and dated was about 145 LBS and she was 5'9, and totally athletic, blonde, very beautiful. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder, however when out in public with your friends and they are all telling you how hot she is and when you walk in places everyone looks you know it's true. To answer the OP question I do go by quality and not quantity. I was in a long relationship, about 7 years with a smoking hot girl. 19 to about 26 I suppose and at that time I only had sex with 5 girls. However, after moving to a new city and restarting my life in the past two years I have slept with 21 different girls (Yeah I do keep count) and each one you wouldn't ever be ashamed to take in public or anything and loved the feeling you had when they were hanging on your arm. That being said, I am beginning to move away from the looks department and put more value on the person they are as I am getting to that point in my life where I should look into settling down.

Getting beautiful girls has never been my problem, KEEPING them has as I tend to drop the game and get comfortable and months down the road we split up and it's back out into the dating world. This is what I have to work on, that and sometimes I do totally stupid sh!t when I have been drinking.
 

old married dude

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 28, 2009
Messages
344
Reaction score
15
Location
St. Louis, MO
old_skoolr said:
Every guy has banged/hooked up/made out with a girl deemed ugly or not attractive. It happens, how I see it, you gotta slay a few rats before you get to the dragon.

Just gotta make sure noone finds out haha
Yep, lol I've had everything from a HB1 to an HB9.5 :crackup:
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

RangerMIke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 23, 2014
Messages
4,717
Reaction score
7,782
Location
USA, Louisiana
I never talk about women I sleep with even numbers... just bad manners IMO. It all part of being a mystery. In none of anyone's business. I'm happy with my sex life that's all that fvcking matters.
 

Bokanovsky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2012
Messages
4,889
Reaction score
4,632
What do you think would look more impressive on a resume: working as a hamburger flipper at 20 different fast food joints or being the CEO of McDonalds?

Quality beats quantity every time. In this day and age, getting laid is like shooting fish in a barrel, provided you are willing to lower your standards enough. Lay count is not something to be proud of in and of itself.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2004
Messages
340
Reaction score
42
Location
KC
Well betas cant even get laid, or if they do its just a lucky fock. Lay count means you have game, quality+lay count means you have elite game.
 

TheMonkeyKing

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2014
Messages
2,337
Reaction score
1,427
Bokanovsky said:
What do you think would look more impressive on a resume: working as a hamburger flipper at 20 different fast food joints or being the CEO of McDonalds?

Quality beats quantity every time. In this day and age, getting laid is like shooting fish in a barrel, provided you are willing to lower your standards enough. Lay count is not something to be proud of in and of itself.
Have to disagree here.

Chances are, you only make CEO at McDo if you flipped burgers at 20 different restaurants before hand anyway. Experience is needed in dealing with different products, equipment, staff, environments and customers.

That being said, I can't really bring myself to attempt anything less than a 7 these days. Just looking for my CEO role, having flipped at 70-odd restaurants!
 

Bokanovsky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2012
Messages
4,889
Reaction score
4,632
TheMonkeyKing said:
Chances are, you only make CEO at McDo if you flipped burgers at 20 different restaurants before hand anyway. Experience is needed in dealing with different products, equipment, staff, environments and customers.
Out of curiosity, I looked it up. As I expected, the current CEO of McDonald's has never flipped a burger in his life. He is an accountant by training who started his career at PWC. His predecessor was an electrical engineer. You simply don't go from hamburger flipper to CEO in this day and age.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Bingo-Player

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2014
Messages
3,426
Reaction score
3,926
Location
uk
I used to be super strict on what type of chick i would bang , for about 4 years i would only bang “my type” .......this was exhausting

then i realised i aint getting any younger and p0ssy is at the end of the day is p0ssy and as long as i can get hard for it then i don’t mind fUking it

my lay count increased 5 fold over the space of a year , and belive it or not , one chick i laid who was about a 6 in my book had the nicest hole i have ever had the pleasure of filling

she definitely wasn’t my type but i would get rock hard for her as soon as her panties came off ......literally couldn’t stop pounding her , she felt awesome and so did i

on the flip side ive had a HB 8.5 who was a gorgeous and totally my cup of tea , we got down to business and it felt like someone had gone at her with a jackhammer the resulting sex was awfull and to be honest i couldn’t wait for it to finish

the morale of the story is when it comes to getting laid only one thing matters and thats having great sex .....whether that’s with a hb 5 or a hb 9 you won’t know how she performs until you get down and dirty which for me is all part of the fun
 

Mr Wright

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 19, 2010
Messages
980
Reaction score
242
Location
London, UK
If you're going by that example, the answer is obviously quality. But in reality, it doesn't really go like that, yeah you get some guys who only fück slores and chubby chicks. But for the most part most of the guys I know with reasonably high counts have also banged hot chicks, granted they usually end up in relationships with chicks that aren't as hot as the hottest they've banged for whatever reason.
 

TheMonkeyKing

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2014
Messages
2,337
Reaction score
1,427
Bokanovsky said:
Out of curiosity, I looked it up. As I expected, the current CEO of McDonald's has never flipped a burger in his life. He is an accountant by training who started his career at PWC. His predecessor was an electrical engineer. You simply don't go from hamburger flipper to CEO in this day and age.
Ha! Fair enough, it is Pedantic Wednesday after all.

This may be where we have to diverge from the metaphor though. Even a CEO has had to work his way up some where along the line, has a resume of proven experience to draw upon to be granted his position - unless of course he is born in to the lap of higher society, which is a luxury most wont be afforded.

The point being, a 9 or a 10 is not gonna let any old amateur start flipping her burger if he doesn't at least convey some level of experience or resume. How many women have you met who say, 'All I want is a nice virgin'?

Look at it more like telling new graduates that they'll walk straight in to a 150K/year job; it happens to a few. But most have to work for it.
 

Masculinity

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2009
Messages
1,911
Reaction score
544
Age
35
GS750 said:
my bro's in college used to brag about their lay count. I think having a cute/hot gf with a pleasing personality beats a high lay count with a bunch of mediocre girls any day. But that's just me.
Very true; I agree ^

MattR1984 said:
I can honestly say I have never fvcked an unattractive/ugly girl. I am very picky.
I can also identify; it actually feels more embarrassing to have b@nged an unattractive woman than not having banged anyone. I have never had a woman who was below an HB7.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Top