Law of Attraction

Daniel_March

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Hello, fellow ladies' men!!!


This Law of Attraction is a fairly simple idea...

All you have to do is to visualize your success, imagine having the things that you desire. In our case it could be social proof, beautiful women chasing after us and so on. If you believe that you already have it, it will come into your life.

Sit back and relax, take long deep breaths until you feel completely relaxed...

Now begin to visualize yourself walking down a busy street... hear the sounds around you, feel the breeze. You see a hot girl looking at you and you smile, you both are holding strong eye contact...



There is nothing magical about Law of Attraction. It works by changing the habitual patterns of thought in your subconscious mind.

It is impossible to stop yourself from having negative thoughts, however the negative thoughts can be replaced by positive ones and one way to do that is through application of the Law of Attraction.

Your subconscious mind does not recognize the difference between reality and imagined reality, therefore when you begin to retrain yourself by thinking positively and seeing yourself getting successful results your subconscious mind is retrained to EXPECT successful results.

Your behavior will begin to change accordingly to the way your subconscious thinks. Your body language will be powerful and inspirational.

"As you think you shall become" "Believe you have received and you shall receive"

these popular quotes show that you have to live and think in present and you shall receive what you want.

So start now, come up with positive affirmations!

" I am a charming man with masculine qualities, women find me attractive and men respect me..." repeat that affirmation from time to time during the day and you will see a dramatic change in your confidence and self belief!


Take this seriously, please it really works wonders.


P.S. good luck from psychology student on the front line of self development and dating :)
 

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well i just did an online compatibility test regarding horoscope. im a capricorn and my target is virgo. those 2 arent compatible signs do you thing the LOA can improve our compatibility. we havent officially met but i know shes a virgo cuz i overheard her say it. i would like to make us as much compatible as possible before i make my first move.
 

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Don't let horoscope rule your life. What LOA states is that you are the only person in control of your life.

This is what being a real man is, being in CONTROL.

You can be compatible by horoscope but if she has nothing in common with you it will never work, so just take it easy and meet her expecting finding similarities and you will find them.

Picture yourself having a very engaging conversation with her, simple as that.

BE IN CONTROL, forget about the horoscope.
 

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Tiguere said:
well i just did an online compatibility test regarding horoscope. im a capricorn and my target is virgo. those 2 arent compatible signs do you thing the LOA can improve our compatibility. we havent officially met but i know shes a virgo cuz i overheard her say it. i would like to make us as much compatible as possible before i make my first move.
Ignore horoscopes, as they're generally a load of crap. They do have a little truth to them (as psychology shows) that children may get more/less attention being born during certain times of the year. Example, a baby born during winter time is spent more in doors and may get more attention from his parents etc then say a baby that was born in the middle of August which may effect his or her upbringing/psychology, but as far as "reading the stars" goes, it's garbage.

I've studied astrology deeply though, as I was extremely interested in it for a long time, but I mostly just use it as another seduction tool. Any girl who doesn't know any better you can tell them your signs are compatible and she'll believe you. In fact, I've had woman try and use this same trick on me and tell me "our signs are so compatible" even when astrology actually shows the complete opposite. It's just another tool in my bag to raise comfort. Horoscopes feed our egos by complimenting us (whether they are true or not) so they're fairly easy to buy into, I mean who doesn't like to be complimented? Using astrology is a great way to compliment your target and get her feeling good without looking AFC. After all, it's some astrology bible you read that is saying all of these things about her, you're just simply agreeing.

Stop wasting your time reading hoccus poccus woman garbage and read some more PUA material bud. Don't let the stars decide who you should target and who you shouldn't, unless your goal is like mine and simply use it to target EVERYONE. Example, a woman who says she "only dates" Sagittarius or has a long history of Sag boyfriends is probably openly admitting that she likes her guys fun, who enjoy freedom (aka, she doesn't like the clingy type), she probably likes bad boys, and somewhat intelligent. Now, just because you're a Taurus or something doesn't mean you can't live up to her sexual fantasy. She pretty much layed it down of what man traits she respects the most, so you simply over ride her logic and take advantage of that. Nah what I mean? If a woman says she only dates Aries she's probably in love with Artsy guys, whether it's music or painting whatever.. so if you tell her you play guitar (true or not), she will probably be more attracted to you. It's not a full proof science, but I've been putting it to the test and it seems to work well for me. Plus it's interesting and keeps things fun. I've actually been meaning to write an article about ruthless ways to quickly seduce a target by pure lying. Maybe I'll start on it soon.

-Scars
 

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well i just did an online compatibility test regarding horoscope. im a capricorn and my target is virgo. those 2 arent compatible signs do you thing the LOA can improve our compatibility. we havent officially met but i know shes a virgo cuz i overheard her say it. i would like to make us as much compatible as possible before i make my first move.
I have a strong belief in the compatibility of the signs based on astrology but you should use your knowledge to your advantage rather than be worried about being compatible.

Think of it as more of a way to get to know the person you are with, what makes them tick, maybe adapt your game and tactics a bit based on their sign.

My belief in astrological compatibility is based on girls I been with that i just seemed to click with naturally, and they just seemed to like me or be impressed by me just being my natural self. I found out that we had compatible signs. Call me superstitious but I think it works from those experiences :)
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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You have the Law of Attraction, I have the Laws of Power. I agree with the central idea of the Law of Attraction, but a more sophisticated explanation is more effective than telling yourself cheesy affirmations.
Law 34: Be Royal in your Own Fashion: Act like a King to be treated like one
The way you carry yourself will often determine how you are treated; In the long run, appearing vulgar or common will make people disrespect you. For a king respects himself and inspires the same sentiment in others. By acting regally and confident of your powers, you make yourself seem destined to wear a crown.

Keys To Power
As children, we start our lives with great exuberance, expecting and demanding everything from the world. This generally carries over into our first forays into society, as we begin our careers. But as we grow older the rebuffs and failures we experience set up boundaries that only get firmer with time. Coming to expect less from the world, we accept limitations that are really self-imposed. We start to bow and scrape and apologize for even the simplest of requests. The solution to such a shrinking of horizons is to deliberately force ourselves in the opposite direction—to downplay the failures and ignore the limitations, to make ourselves demand and expect as much as the child. To accomplish this, we must use a particular strategy upon ourselves. Call it the Strategy of the Crown.

The Strategy of the Crown is based on a simple chain of cause and effect: If we believe we are destined for great things, our belief will radiate outward, just as a crown creates an aura around a king. This outward radiance will infect the people around us, who will think we must have reasons to feel so confident. People who wear crowns seem to feel no inner sense of the limits to what they can ask for or what they can accomplish. This too radiates outward. Limits and boundaries disappear. Use the Strategy of the Crown and you will be surprised how often it bears fruit. Take as an example those happy children who ask for whatever they want, and get it. Their high expectations are their charm. Adults enjoy granting their wishes just as Isabella enjoyed granting the wishes of Columbus.

Throughout history, people of undistinguished birth—the Theodoras of Byzantium, the Columbuses, the Beethovens, the Disraelis—have managed to work the Strategy of the Crown, believing so firmly in their own greatness that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. The trick is simple: Be overcome by your self-belief. Even while you know you are practicing a kind of deception on yourself, act like a king. You are likely to be treated as one.
 

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Good post. Yes, every interaction you make you should be portraying that subconcious thought. I sometimes envision myself going on a date with a girl, before we even mention it. It helps the convo, and the feel of everything move correctly. If you know it's gonna happen you wont force things, is the point im trying to make.Concerning astrology. I'm a firm believer. Read the articles on your sign or one of your close friends or siblings, some will fit perfectly. It's a huge advantage. I read up on a girl's sign, and knew she liked arts,music,had a deep admiration for it. This is an hb9 btw. I took her for drinks and we went to this real cool art gallery, we had sex that nite. She kept telling me howmuch fun she had. Had Ii simply not read that before hand, I probably would've taken her to chilis or something. There are huge advantages to astrology, some girls will fit their sign perfectly, and it's like having the answers to a test.
 

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Man I went through a phase of my life where I was all about this stuff...look, this new-age stuff isn't magic -- and it can't bring you everything you want. You can watch the movie, "The Secret" a thousand times, or watch the movie, "What The Bleep Do We Know" and submerge yourself in quantum mechanics, etc, etc -- but the truth is you're not going to become a millionaire or a chick-magnet by thinking it all of the time. There is definitely truth in you become what you think about yourself -- your thoughts are powerful; they effect your body language; they effect your actions -- and actions effect "reality". But also, wishing and hoping for things won't get you everything -- you are going to have to work your @ss off -- but keeping a positive and enabled mindset is crucial.

That being said, even in my times of darkness, good things have come. And my thoughts were not "fruitful" at the time.

Is there a magic bullet to life? Probably not. Is staying positive, focusing on what we want, and visualizing our success probably a good strategy to better get what we want? Yes, probably.

Good vibes to all seeking good things within and without.

/edit -- One thing I want to denote too, in regards to my conflict with the Law of Attraction is think of hypochondriacs (people who think they are sick or dying all of the time) -- 9 times out of 10 these people are fully healthy (other than their false mental assumptions)...if the law of attraction was so sound, how come the millions of people with mental disorders of psychosis or false realities, do not see those things manifested? How come the lunatic who thinks he's going to be the "president of everybody" never achieves such a role?

I do believe positive thought and the proper mindset is important to success -- but more than anything, I believe in action. That's the only thing that's going to effect the reality around you. Otherwise you're stuck in your head.
 

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Universal Law of the Jinx
A jinx, in popular superstition and folklore, is:

• A sort of curse placed on a person that makes them prey to large numbers of minor misfortunes and other forms of bad luck;
• A person afflicted with a similar curse, who, while not directly subject to a series of misfortunes, seems to attract them to anyone in his general area.
• An object that brings bad luck.
• A common slang term used when two people say the same thing at the same time (said as a game amongst the young).

The superstition is also used when talking about a future event with too much confidence. A statement like "We're sure to win the contest!" can be seen as a jinx by tempting fate. After such a statement, failure would be ironic. For the human mind, the irony makes it all the more likely. This therefore brings bad luck: it is a "jinx". The event itself is referred to as "jinxed".

The Law of Attraction is diametrically opposed, and inversely proportional, to the Law of the Jinx. Thus they cancel one another out.
 

Daniel_March

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I never said that the law of attraction is anything magical. From psychological point of view I see it as one of the tools for trasnforming the subconscious into a positively thinking machine.

The bit with the Law of the Crown actually suits more of what I am trying to share with you guys.

When you have positive expectations there is a stronger chance of you getting what you want.

You also train yourself to take advantage of certain situations and noticing great opportunities :)
 
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