Lasting longer during sex

[D97]

Yes, this more or less explains itself. I'm sure it has been asked millions of times, but this is probably the only question I have regarding relationships now.

Apart from using performas (which I don't like) and maybe thinking of anything but sex, during sex, what has a guy go to do to last longer?

Go for it.

 

[tosh]

I have the opposite problem. Takes too long.

Wanna switch?

 

[SweetSassyMalasy]

Here are a few tips:

1. Masturbate on your own time at least once a day. This way your guy is not goin going to be going "OWW damn this feel so good...oh oh done. "

2. Use two condoms. That's right. Still not lasting long enough, put three on!!! Then your buddy will get used to 3 condoms, use two, then use one. This works great!

3. Have sex in positions that requare the least amount of work on your part. Girl on top is great for that, just lay back and relax. Doggie standing up another good one. Missionary is BIG NO NO, terrible for trying to last longer. You are flexing all your abdominals, and putting pressure on you prostate which screws u up.

4. Deep controlled breathing! You gotta be as relaxed as possible, not freaking out about how much longer u can go! Just chill and enjoy the moment. Dont have to think about your grandma, just breath deep, it helps to relax the muscles, and decrease the blood pressure to your friend below the waist.

 

[Warlord]

Don't use more than one condom, there will be a lot of friction between the three condoms that it'll start tearing apart.

 

[reyalp]

also, if you feel like you're gonna pop, pull out and grab your tool on the bottom side right behind the head, squeeze it there. this cuts off the blood flow to the most sensitive areas.

other than that, yeah the breathing helps, her being on top helps, and for me, not kicking off the wall helps too.

 

[BuckwildNYC]

Why are you worried about lasting longer............... bust a nut wait 20 minutes and bang her again.............. problem solved.

U said u don't beleive in perfomas but u need to try viagra. I used to be one of those guys "I dont' need that stuff..........I'm a real man". Look I'm 30 years old and if you want to keep a girl forever........ pop a V and bang her for like 3 hours.

 

[john_1234]

there are a bunch of how to ebooks on premature ejaculation. check 'em out. breathing deep and relaxation are key. you have to commit to the program and it takes time and energy to get it down. but man, it's a great feeling to be able to *** on command. also, when you jerk off make sure you go at it for a minimum of twenty minutes at least

oh yeah, when you feel the urge to ***:
1)pull out
2)grab your balls and pull them downward
3)rub her **** while you do the above
4)the urge to *** should subside after 15-30 seconds or so
5)pound away!

 

[Synik]

Yeah, I'm with Tosh. It's the exact opposite for me. Anyway, the best thing to do is stop banging and go with some head. That'll give you some time to relax. After some oral stimulation, think of cottage cheese, a bulldog, and your mom. If that doesn't do it, then I suggest you let it go and bust. Afterwards, you can cuddle and watch The Notebook. It'll be great. Good luck.

-Synik

 

[Tomatoes]

Postions wise will increase your time. Missionary is the only postion i can easily *** in. The rest i can hold myself in body and mind. SO pound away til im ready

Also if you bang one out before you go to meet your girl....that will help you last longer too.

 

[blinkwatt]

Originally posted by D97
Yes, this more or less explains itself. I'm sure it has been asked millions of times, but this is probably the only question I have regarding relationships now.

Apart from using performas (which I don't like) and maybe thinking of anything but sex, during sex, what has a guy go to do to last longer?

Go for it.

Count backwards from 99. Just wondering how long are you lasting to make yourself think your a "quick to finish" guy?

 

[Fash]

on a serious note....

don't think about the pleasure. think about other things. when you are about to ***, think of something non-sexual, like sport, your favourite team...

if all else fails.....

Think about Jesus and religous stuff! trust me, it works even if you are not religious!

 

[Tomatoes]

Originally posted by Fash
on a serious note....

don't think about the pleasure. think about other things. when you are about to ***, think of something non-sexual, like sport, your favourite team...

if all else fails.....

Think about Jesus and religous stuff! trust me, it works even if you are not religious!

No but in my head i just could not get to grips with when i am about to *** i think of jesus.......Thats just really wrong for me....

 

[GropeDope]

For some reason I bust a nut a lot faster by myself than when I'm banging a chick. I think the problem is that I think too much about making her c*m instead of thinking about myself. I start worrying/stressing about my speed, rhythm, and all of that sh!t...so the stress I create internally gets in the way of my c*ck sensations and I end up taking a lot longer to have an orgasm with someone. Also sometimes I play with her cl!t while I'm banging her and do rubbing patterns with one of my hands all over her body..and all of this also creates more distractions and stresses for me.

So basically what I'm saying here is when I focus all my mental and physical energy on whether or not she's cummin, I create so much stress in my head that my d!ck's sensitivity seems to be put on hold.

Trust me you can train yourself to be like this. It's just like how you used to be afraid of doing something as simple as saying hello to a random HB due to paranoid thinking, fear of rejection, and anxiety. Those were all irrational thoughts you programmed into your head that clouded your ability to feel anything else, so you were insecure everytime you saw a potential HB to say hello to and didn't end up carrying it out.

If you can tap into that same negative thinking you used to have (or still have), you can use it to overflow your head with anxiety while you're having sex, which will cause you to last longer since it will divert your nervous system to other things instead of focusing 100% on what your c*ck and prostate are feeling.

It's just using a bad habit you had/have and making it beneficial.

 

[Tomatoes]

Originally posted by GropeDope
For some reason I bust a nut a lot faster by myself than when I'm banging a chick. I think the problem is that I think too much about making her c*m instead of thinking about myself. I start worrying/stressing about my speed, rhythm, and all of that sh!t...so the stress I create internally gets in the way of my c*ck sensations and I end up taking a lot longer to have an orgasm with someone. Also sometimes I play with her cl!t while I'm banging her and do rubbing patterns with one of my hands all over her body..and all of this also creates more distractions and stresses for me.

So basically what I'm saying here is when I focus all my mental and physical energy on whether or not she's cummin, I create so much stress in my head that my d!ck's sensitivity seems to be put on hold.

Trust me you can train yourself to be like this. It's just like how you used to be afraid of doing something as simple as saying hello to a random HB due to paranoid thinking, fear of rejection, and anxiety. Those were all irrational thoughts you programmed into your head that clouded your ability to feel anything else, so you were insecure everytime you saw a potential HB to say hello to and didn't end up carrying it out.

If you can tap into that same negative thinking you used to have (or still have), you can use it to overflow your head with anxiety while you're having sex, which will cause you to last longer since it will divert your nervous system to other things instead of focusing 100% on what your c*ck and prostate are feeling.

It's just using a bad habit you had/have and making it beneficial.

I do EXACTLY the same!

The only problem is when you concentrate on pleasing her and she starts screaming out. That makes me even more arroused. So i can still be hard

 

[Sato21m]

I usually last like an hour and a half or 2 hours my girl comes like 3 and 4 times before i come. What i do is that i drink some wine 30 mins before doing it just to relax and this advice an old guy gave it to me and it works really good.
Also i talk alot while im doing it like i say alot of things to drive her imagination crazy. The breathing thing works very good also.

But is all in your head, usually before i go **** my girl i imagine my self lasting alot alot and i picture her having the best sex ever is all in ur head good luck.

 

[reyalp]

am I the only guy here who stays hard after he cums?

i mean, when i pop i just swap condoms and keep going, and the 2nd orgasm is always the best. after #2 i guess i start getting numb or something.

way back when, my then-GF got on the pill so we went at it, i was kicking off the wall and pounding it as hard as i could. i think i came 5 times in 20 minutes. then we did it for another 2 hours at a regular pace.

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by Fash
on a serious note....

don't think about the pleasure. think about other things. when you are about to ***, think of something non-sexual, like sport, your favourite team...

if all else fails.....

Think about Jesus and religous stuff! trust me, it works even if you are not religious!

whats the whole point then?

there are other ways. learn how to control and withold your orgasms. ITS NOT ABOUT THE ORGASM.

 

[L777]

Originally posted by Dayr0n
I usually last like an hour and a half or 2 hours

utter, utter s.hite. This is probably biologically impossible.

Why are KBJ's like this muppet taken seriously?

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Excercise your PC muscles. This gives you more control over erections. If you don't know what the PC muscles are, look it up

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

I can last along time by changing positions and clinching my pc muscle and such, but I want to learn how to fk the breaks off of a chick for 2 hours straight without feeling the need to bust....