The night started of really well. I put my best shirt on, nice jeans, nice shoes, and a bit of cologne. I am in New Orleans temporarily to do an internship so I went down to Bourbon Street by myself. It was halloween weekend and the place was pretty packed with women dresses very slutty.
So initally I went and held off on drinking for about and hour and a half. Instead I just had some water and walked around a bit to get adjusted to the scene. I went inside one bar and met these two girls from Australia who were very cute and only in town for 2 days. We talked and the conversation was light, funny, and the flow was really good. When some better songs came on I persuaded them to dance with me one at a time and we had fun doing that. After dancing they said they were going to go back to their hotel to drink a little more and shower and stuff. They did not invite me but mentioned the possibility of seeing me later so I asked for their numbers. One told me she doesn't have a phone and the other told me she lost her phone. Ok cool so rejections number 1 for the night but whatever I had a good conversation and had fun dancing. So I told them "ok, maybe I'll see you later but I'm gonna take off now" and I left.
Went to another bar on Bourbon and meet this other women who was there by herself just like me. I thought this would be great because women who go out on their own are easier to pickup. Well I asked her if she wanted to dance and she said yes so we danced. Afterwards I told her I was going to head to another bar and if she wanted to come with me to which she replied "oh no" while smiling. Fine ok another rejection but still had fun dancing.
At another bar, meet these three really hot older women and asked one of them if she wanted to dance. She said she wasn't drunk enough yet but that she'd come find me once she was ready to dance. I said "ok" and went and sat down somewhere else and started talking to another older woman who was there by herself. I persuaded this older women to come dance with me but she didn't like the songs that were being played so i took her to another bar and we danced there. After dancing there I walked her back to the bar that we meet at. Once we got back to that bar the original woman I meet there seemed excited to see me again and had her hands all over me. I reciprocated and we were pretty touchy for a while until we all went somewhere else to dance. We danced, I kissed her a bunch of times, had my hand on her ass and on her lower back, and thought this was all going well and she was smiling and laughing. Eventually we all left that one bar and they took me to some restaurant/bar that she were in a halloween costume competition at. We hung out there for a while and I sat down with one of the women in the group and we were talking while the other two women were out mingling. Well the hot one that I was dancing with and who I kissed and everything eventually came and brought back some other guy with her. The guy was older, closer to their age, and pretty clearly did not like me since I was an obstacle for him. He kept trying to talk to me in a demeaning tone but I wasn't having it so he backed off a little. I started getting the feeling that I no longer had anything to gain from talking to these ladies so I told them I was leaving to another place. The hot one that I was kissing and everything said she was sad about that and asked me where I was going so that she could come there later and meet me. I told her I wasn't sure how long I would be there and said the best way would probably be to exchange numbers. We both took our phones out and then told me to give her my number to which I replied that no I wanted hers. She said she "doesn't give out her number to people" and I replied that "I don't like to do it that way". So we put our phones away and left it at that and I left. All of these three women were single and out having fun so maybe one went home with that guy they brought over. So another rejection but this was a pretty good interaction and I thought for sure it would get better from here.
It only went downhill from there. I decided to start focusing on younger women since I've had a lot of older women tell me i'm too young for them and was getting sick of hearing that. So I danced with and talked with a bunch of younger women. The slightly uglier women would dance with me but afterwards just said thanks and left. The attractive younger women would just roll their eyes at me when I tried talking to them. Towards the end of the night it was about 1am and I had just gotten rejected for the 10th time that night and was so ****ing down on myself and pissed off that I just went home.
Throughout the week I was also messaging girls on POF and got a bunch of numbers. A few of them we exchanged some pictures and they understood that we were just going to have sex and they were fine with that. Two of them told me they would hit me up yesterday at night sometime but neither of them did. I texted both of them with just a simple "how's your night goin?" and got no responses.
That was, thus far, the single biggest disappointing and discouraging night I've ever had. It was halloween on Bourbon Street and I could not get laid despite having read and practiced this sosuave material for a few years now, how pathetic. I am tall, good looking, and felt like I played all my cards right and still went home alone. There was so many hot young pieces of ass there but they were either already there with some guy or there with their girlfriends and if I tried talking to them they would roll their eyes or just bluntly say "no". Attractive women on friday/saturday nights are ****ing impossible to pick up. Even the not so attractive ones were willing to talk to me for a bit but as soon as I tried to escalate they turned me down.
In my day to day life I continually struggle with women and getting sex. The only women I get sex from are uglier women and that is not what I want. The ones I am physically attracted to always reject me or play some stupid game with me for a while before rejecting me. After reading all this material I feel like I understand how the game should be played and what kind of man women like and I've made a lot of changed to myself to be that man. But god damn it just aint working for me. I'm 24 years old and see all these hot young things walking around and they are with some other guy and I'm just going ****ing nuts with resentment towards all women that none of the attractive ones will pick me. I have this idea that once I am a little older and have money then maybe a few of them will pick me but only because of my money. God damn i'm just in pieces this moring after having such a terrible night. I can't even find the will to continue with my workout routine today. I work out 2-3x/week and am in great physical shape but wtf is the point if it doesn't help me at all with women? I'm falling into a deep depression here and really need someone to offer some words of wisdom or something to pick me back up because I don't think I'll be able to do it on my own this time.
So initally I went and held off on drinking for about and hour and a half. Instead I just had some water and walked around a bit to get adjusted to the scene. I went inside one bar and met these two girls from Australia who were very cute and only in town for 2 days. We talked and the conversation was light, funny, and the flow was really good. When some better songs came on I persuaded them to dance with me one at a time and we had fun doing that. After dancing they said they were going to go back to their hotel to drink a little more and shower and stuff. They did not invite me but mentioned the possibility of seeing me later so I asked for their numbers. One told me she doesn't have a phone and the other told me she lost her phone. Ok cool so rejections number 1 for the night but whatever I had a good conversation and had fun dancing. So I told them "ok, maybe I'll see you later but I'm gonna take off now" and I left.
Went to another bar on Bourbon and meet this other women who was there by herself just like me. I thought this would be great because women who go out on their own are easier to pickup. Well I asked her if she wanted to dance and she said yes so we danced. Afterwards I told her I was going to head to another bar and if she wanted to come with me to which she replied "oh no" while smiling. Fine ok another rejection but still had fun dancing.
At another bar, meet these three really hot older women and asked one of them if she wanted to dance. She said she wasn't drunk enough yet but that she'd come find me once she was ready to dance. I said "ok" and went and sat down somewhere else and started talking to another older woman who was there by herself. I persuaded this older women to come dance with me but she didn't like the songs that were being played so i took her to another bar and we danced there. After dancing there I walked her back to the bar that we meet at. Once we got back to that bar the original woman I meet there seemed excited to see me again and had her hands all over me. I reciprocated and we were pretty touchy for a while until we all went somewhere else to dance. We danced, I kissed her a bunch of times, had my hand on her ass and on her lower back, and thought this was all going well and she was smiling and laughing. Eventually we all left that one bar and they took me to some restaurant/bar that she were in a halloween costume competition at. We hung out there for a while and I sat down with one of the women in the group and we were talking while the other two women were out mingling. Well the hot one that I was dancing with and who I kissed and everything eventually came and brought back some other guy with her. The guy was older, closer to their age, and pretty clearly did not like me since I was an obstacle for him. He kept trying to talk to me in a demeaning tone but I wasn't having it so he backed off a little. I started getting the feeling that I no longer had anything to gain from talking to these ladies so I told them I was leaving to another place. The hot one that I was kissing and everything said she was sad about that and asked me where I was going so that she could come there later and meet me. I told her I wasn't sure how long I would be there and said the best way would probably be to exchange numbers. We both took our phones out and then told me to give her my number to which I replied that no I wanted hers. She said she "doesn't give out her number to people" and I replied that "I don't like to do it that way". So we put our phones away and left it at that and I left. All of these three women were single and out having fun so maybe one went home with that guy they brought over. So another rejection but this was a pretty good interaction and I thought for sure it would get better from here.
It only went downhill from there. I decided to start focusing on younger women since I've had a lot of older women tell me i'm too young for them and was getting sick of hearing that. So I danced with and talked with a bunch of younger women. The slightly uglier women would dance with me but afterwards just said thanks and left. The attractive younger women would just roll their eyes at me when I tried talking to them. Towards the end of the night it was about 1am and I had just gotten rejected for the 10th time that night and was so ****ing down on myself and pissed off that I just went home.
Throughout the week I was also messaging girls on POF and got a bunch of numbers. A few of them we exchanged some pictures and they understood that we were just going to have sex and they were fine with that. Two of them told me they would hit me up yesterday at night sometime but neither of them did. I texted both of them with just a simple "how's your night goin?" and got no responses.
That was, thus far, the single biggest disappointing and discouraging night I've ever had. It was halloween on Bourbon Street and I could not get laid despite having read and practiced this sosuave material for a few years now, how pathetic. I am tall, good looking, and felt like I played all my cards right and still went home alone. There was so many hot young pieces of ass there but they were either already there with some guy or there with their girlfriends and if I tried talking to them they would roll their eyes or just bluntly say "no". Attractive women on friday/saturday nights are ****ing impossible to pick up. Even the not so attractive ones were willing to talk to me for a bit but as soon as I tried to escalate they turned me down.
In my day to day life I continually struggle with women and getting sex. The only women I get sex from are uglier women and that is not what I want. The ones I am physically attracted to always reject me or play some stupid game with me for a while before rejecting me. After reading all this material I feel like I understand how the game should be played and what kind of man women like and I've made a lot of changed to myself to be that man. But god damn it just aint working for me. I'm 24 years old and see all these hot young things walking around and they are with some other guy and I'm just going ****ing nuts with resentment towards all women that none of the attractive ones will pick me. I have this idea that once I am a little older and have money then maybe a few of them will pick me but only because of my money. God damn i'm just in pieces this moring after having such a terrible night. I can't even find the will to continue with my workout routine today. I work out 2-3x/week and am in great physical shape but wtf is the point if it doesn't help me at all with women? I'm falling into a deep depression here and really need someone to offer some words of wisdom or something to pick me back up because I don't think I'll be able to do it on my own this time.
