Last minute Valentines date!! NEED ADVICE!!

[Ken785]

today she told me she broke up with her BF and wanted to hang out with me....i was like "ohhh...is that why you didnt call?" (in a jokingly way) and she ignored what i said and kinda played it off. what would you guys do?

 

[bp1974]

Forget about her, she's bad news and she's on the rebound.

 

[Ken785]

**** im pissed now....so me and her was flirting as usual today at work. then she comes up and asks me what im doing after work and i do my usual reply and say "nothing"...then there was a pause. then later when were outside shes talking to my other co-workers about how this other co-worker named dan is pissed because shes dating ANOTHER co-worker name adam. i gotta say... my afc took over and i was CRUSHED!!.

Kinda felt like i wanted to cry a little but laughed it off and walked kinda fast back inside. Later...so some reason her interest level with me was shot. Everytime i tried to talk with her she replys back in a non flirty way....

what do you guys think i should do??? im gonna next her definatly...i dont want no damn tease anyways....she seems like nothing but a attention *****. what would you guys do or say if you were in my shoes??

 

[Ken785]

help?? come on guys.... opinions? comments?? advice???

 

[alphawolfx]

you're right... she seems like an attention w.hore

SO, use her for what she's worth

practice your C&F on her, and practice the flirting - WITHOUT expecting to get into anything (and who knows, this might get you somewhere, but THAT'S NOT THE POINT)

so when a girl isn't interested in you, keep her as a friend...

instead of LJBF, it's LJBFPB (let's just be flirting practice buddies)

USE her for what she's worth

 

[Ken785]

i asked her what her age was the other day and she was like "18" i was like "whoa! ur only 18??" she said "why? how old are you?" i said "im too old!" and i walked away...she later comes up to me and asks if i thought cuz she was 18 that she couldnt go out with me cuz of a 3 year difference...i said no. she says why dont i call her...i said why doesnt she call? i told her i lost her number and i think she was going to write it down but forgot...she then looked at our work schedules and said since we were both free on saturday that we should go out....i said yeah she should call me...

heres what i think...

i think shes either trying to play her cards with me and a couple of my other guy co-workers she is dating...by me saying i was too old i think kinda made it seem like i was a challenge because by saying im "too old" gives her the impression that i need someone more mature....

what you guys think? What if i go up to her and say...sure we can go out....WAIT A MINUTE....arent you dating ____?? and she says were just "hanging out" what would be a ****y/funny remark to that?? any advice is appreciated.

 

[Ken785]

replys??