last minute resistence?

[Shocker]

Hey guys,

Glad to see this site is back up. So I have a question, what is a good way to deal with last minute resistence? My problem is im seeing a girl with a boyfriend and when ever things start to advance in the physical stage I start to get resistence, she isnt saying no but when i start to take clothing off i can tell she feels quilty, there is no resistence up to this point.

I know about the freeze out and I have done this and it has made her come to me, but hasnt worked fully. Any other ideas? Thanks

Shocker

 

[vorbis]

i find myself that a lot of times i'm not forward enough. You should expect token resistance to a degree. How far are you getting? You stopping is only going to compound the guilt. If she's not giving hard resistance (telling you to stop), keep going. I'm amazed at how many girls block your first attempt to do something and then are perfectly happy with it when you push through it. (e.g. going down on her, fingering her etc.)

 

[JimmyZ]

man, if there is no resistance, then "make the ho say no."

once she has said no, then you can freeze her, and she make sure that she understands... if she isn't in the mood, so be it, she is still accepted into your world...

but if you back off alone, then there is nothing to be said for you....

cheers shocker.

 

[sexy_kuta]

so u guys saying that when u making out.. u take her shirt off...

and she said no i cant do it.. u keep going until she actually givies the resistance like pushes u away? im kinda confuse on what the freeze is

 

[everywomanshero]

I don't get it

I see lots of posts about LMR, but I don't understand it because this doesn't really happen very often. If it became a frequent problem, I'd get rid of her or make it clear that we can only see each other if there is sex involved. I straight up told the last chic who gave me LMR this, and I am still seeing her.

You usually do not need a freeze out. Just redirect things or do something funny. Say you have a possesed hand which you have no control over, and keep subtly playing with her nipples.

Above all else you need to have sexual technique down. If you can do this, you can avoid many objections. Here is the most important things:

1. Breathe on her neck/Smell Her Neck Shoulders/Neck her.
2. Play with her nipples subtly while doing something else like necking.
3. When you finger her, I use my fingers in an upside down V. One finger on each side of her ****oris. Too much stimulation too soon is a bad thing. Get your fingers wet inside her if they dry out, suck on them before entry.
4. Oral: Kiss up and down her body, suck nipples, kiss thighs. If she's really finicky, leave her panties on and start outside of them, then push them aside. and proceed. Some girls will panic if you try to remove panties first. Alternatively, you could try getting them off when her pants come off. I remove later without difficulty. If she pulls away before orgasm, you're being too direct/hard too soon. reuse fingers, lick around, tease with tongue, etc. This is something of an art, it is difficult to explain with words.
5. Understand that she may flake. You can minimize this by using "A3" portion of Mystery Method. I used to get alot of ONSs before I started A3ing. Now, my repeat ratio is extremely high, and my sexual technique has made only marginal gains.

 

[Shocker]

Well, really when i think things should progress they dont. When making out I really have no trouble taking the shirt off, or touching downstairs over the pants. The resistence is when I try to go under the pants and take them off.. Legs are usually closed and kept closed when trying to go under. A few nights ago i was doing the same thing and she was like 'its late, i have to go'.

Maybe its just me but if a girl was about to give me a blow job the time would be the last thing on my mind.

Shocker

so u guys saying that when u making out.. u take her shirt off...

and she said no i cant do it.. u keep going until she actually givies the resistance like pushes u away? im kinda confuse on what the freeze is

 

[Shocker]

Awsome, thanks for the tip

I see lots of posts about LMR, but I don't understand it because this doesn't really happen very often. If it became a frequent problem, I'd get rid of her or make it clear that we can only see each other if there is sex involved. I straight up told the last chic who gave me LMR this, and I am still seeing her.

You usually do not need a freeze out. Just redirect things or do something funny. Say you have a possesed hand which you have no control over, and keep subtly playing with her nipples.

Above all else you need to have sexual technique down. If you can do this, you can avoid many objections. Here is the most important things:

1. Breathe on her neck/Smell Her Neck Shoulders/Neck her.
2. Play with her nipples subtly while doing something else like necking.
3. When you finger her, I use my fingers in an upside down V. One finger on each side of her ****oris. Too much stimulation too soon is a bad thing. Get your fingers wet inside her if they dry out, suck on them before entry.
4. Oral: Kiss up and down her body, suck nipples, kiss thighs. If she's really finicky, leave her panties on and start outside of them, then push them aside. and proceed. Some girls will panic if you try to remove panties first. Alternatively, you could try getting them off when her pants come off. I remove later without difficulty. If she pulls away before orgasm, you're being too direct/hard too soon. reuse fingers, lick around, tease with tongue, etc. This is something of an art, it is difficult to explain with words.
5. Understand that she may flake. You can minimize this by using "A3" portion of Mystery Method. I used to get alot of ONSs before I started A3ing. Now, my repeat ratio is extremely high, and my sexual technique has made only marginal gains.

 

[Create Reality]

Um I second that quote above me Very good advice :yes: