Last minute college info!

[DiSt0rTi0n_07]

I read tweeder's college post and he is 100% correct on everything from classroom approaches to the library stuff.

One small thing I overlooked that I just thought of...

Im going into my first year of business and all our classes are chosen for us this year... so tell me, if you approach a HB in your first class and sit beside her and you kick it off real well, everything is as it should be right?

So what I wanna know is if the same chick is in multiple classes do you go sit beside her in the other classes too? Im inclined to sit beside new ppl each class but I want input from other members.

College orientation is tomorrow and im gonna meet a bunch of ppl (unfortunately my highschool buddy expects me to give him a ride and hang out with him for the thing and he's quite the AFC). Im not too sure yet what I will do about this... any advice?

However, classes start on wednesday so the sooner these get answered the better.

LOL, I just watched Van Wilder tonight so im totally pumped about college

PS
Tweeder's post
Thats the post I was referring to if you haven't seen it.

 

[evolvingnerd]

i'd like to know the answer to this also
this chick i met happens to be in 3 of my classes, and she usually sits by herself in all of em...international from america
anyhoo, is it wise to sit next to her in all of em?
or would that be coming on a little too strong?
or it is plainly wrong...

 

[Don_Marko]

Pay attention to social circles... inflitrate as many of them as you can and watch your reputation. If you are cool social circles alone can get you more women than you know what to do with.
There's so many things I want to write about on this subject but don't feel like getting into it now... I will get to it once I move back to college and test ideas I have.

 

[DiSt0rTi0n_07]

First day is tomorrow, can someone answer my question asap?

 

[TooColdUlrick]

Originally posted by evolvingnerd
i'd like to know the answer to this also
this chick i met happens to be in 3 of my classes, and she usually sits by herself in all of em...international from america
anyhoo, is it wise to sit next to her in all of em?
or would that be coming on a little too strong?
or it is plainly wrong...

pick out a hot chick in each class and sit next to her in that class. uh huh, thats what i'd do. diversify.

 

[lizardfloyd]

thats a tough one. Cuz i was in the same exact situation last fall semester. We sat apart cuz i didnt know her. when i got to know her everyone already had their seats that they wanted for the rest of the semester. but, i would like to hear more replys, cuz it could happen to me again.

 

[Dukester]

yep, tweeders post is great stuff, read it several times.

i just started classes yesterday, and i go back tomorrow. in each of my classes, i sat next to different people, and interected with different people. talk to her outside of class, do more kino and flirting. get her attention, and she will come sit next to you, esp, if you are talking to other girls- this will throw a little jealousy in there

 

[que_est_suave]

i would only reccommend getting close to a HB in ur class if you're really secure and you know how not to get infatuated and or switch into wuss mode, because if u see her flirting or chatting with other guys or things get wierd it can affect ur work... so the best thing would be to get into as many social circles OUTSIDE your classes as possible, join the clubs, go to the bar events whatever, unless ur really sure that this girl is giving you a good vibe, even then... be careful and good luck!

 

[waldo]

My advice would be to ditch the AFC friend from back home, he won't help you while he's an AFC.

As for where to sit, that's an impossible question to answer because every situation is different, you need to figure it out for yourself. As a rule of thumb if your stuck for anyone to sit next to then go for the chick, because that's better than sitting on your own.

You're trying to get girls attracted to you, but every girl is different, some might be impressed by you having the balls to come and sit right next to them, where as others might see this as you trying to pick them up to impress your new friends. Just do what seems right and you won't go far wrong.

 

[DiSt0rTi0n_07]

Orientation was on tuesday and it went well. They split us up into random groups and I hardly knew anyone in my group

I met so many HBs that I forgot all of their names collectively
Thats ok tho, things are going nicely.

I met a bunch of new HBs and I didn't spend alot of time with any individual... I even got the president of the student association giving me positive feedback

Its Wednesday and my first day of classes was today. It went pretty well.... sorta.

My first class had guys surrounding all the HBs except for one. Did I go sit there? I really should have but I knew instantly that it would be very awkward. If I wanted to sit there I would have had to get like 3ppl to move out of my way when there were perfectly accessible seats right across from them. I ended up sitting beside a not so HB.

This brings me to my next question: If I tried to sit beside that HB the next time I have that class would it look like I was just there to hit on her?

My second class today went better; I saw a friend there and she had a really hot friend that ended up sitting next to me. So that kinda makes up for my stupidness in my first class. My plan is to go for the # tomorrow morning.

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I have an update regarding the question of sitting beside that HB in multiple classes! Here is the answer puzzling us all. YOU DECIDE. Thats right, its up to you... Not what you expected? Ok, fine...

Walk into the doorway of your next class and look around. Assuming she is in the room, look at her for a sec. If she makes positive eye contact like she's saying "I hope he sits next to me" inside, go and sit with her. If she doesn't see you, sit somewhere else. If you randomly walk up you look like a clingy chump. If you sit somewhere else she wonders:
a) If you saw her
b) If you are that rare guy, the catch, that she needs to fight for.
c) Thank god he didn't see me! (This means you've done something wrong LOL )

So really its your call. You must judge her expression, whether it says "I wonder if he is gonna sit with me, he better not be an @$$****" or "Leave me alone!" or "This guy seems... different... like a suave DJ..." or whatever.

Good luck fellow college DJs/Aspiring DJs!

 

[gav]

one thing to note if you haven't already been told about it. fresher's flu - that illness you get in the first few weeks of college - is something you should really try to avoid. last year, i was making great efforts to meet new people, which worked out great. then i got a serious chest infection because i was drunk for about half the day every day and lost my appetite completely, so i wasn't eating anything.

i have never been so sick in my life. it killed my energy and most of the contacts i had put lots of effort into making

 

[DiSt0rTi0n_07]

LOL, I had one 50min class today and I gotta say, it has been interesting...

Went in and sat beside this girl that was sitting by herself... (btw, to answer a previous question, sit wherever you want any day. It doesn't really matter) and I introduced myself.

She's like a HB9.5 and she kinda knows a friend of mine from I party. Anyways, I was doing my usual confident "I don't need ya" attitude and wow, I have never seen this kinda reaction b4.

I swear she must be a playerette. She was talking alot and her pupils were dialating when she looked at me (though she didn't hold the contact very long). Intimidated? maybe... It was cool tho.
She was acting all nervous and she smiled alot and did the classic "make fun of the proffessor routine"...

So after class I was off to meet a friend and I said ttyl when I went in a different direction but she kept walking. Playing hard to get? I dunno.

I think she realized after class what she was falling into and she tried to keep her game upon realizing this...

Ah well, we will see what happens next week.