Landing hot girls becomes easier after college, anyone agree?

[HyperAnalyze]

I disagree. I was VERY SOCIAL and VERY OUTGOING in my college years, no success whatsoever. Again, might have to do with my ethnicity, the only guys who got laid at my university were White guys or athletes who were usually Black. Other guys were AFCs and I was actively trying my ass off to not be an AFC but I ended up being one anyways. I could make girls laugh, went out, did my best, put my best foot forward but at the end of the night? NO SEX.

My college years were frustrating and I believe me not being a White male in a hellhole like USC worked against me in attracting women. Part of it being that girls are TIGHTLY tied to their social circles and if you were a minority trying to penetrate that social circle you often got the disgusting look by people. I had people tell me right to my face "why not go hang out with the mexicans?". That is how bad it was.

Now being out in the real world, 20 or so lays later, and having relationships with some dime pieces, I don't ****ing get it. I didn't change **** about myself other than location. The same kind of women who would not TOUCH ME in college have given me head, let me rawdog em, and even let me do anal. Hell I have even ****ed some college girls to make up for the lost time.

Those of you having success in here in college, more power to you but college was hell for me and I tried to improve myself, that went nowhere.

My younger cousin is full Dominican (looks Black though) and is attending the University of Tennessee (Knoxville). Tells me how much of an incel he is there.

As an minority I could not agree more with that above statement. It's like a superiority complex with white men for some reason. A lot of times they are just so socially conditioned to think that minorities are losers and aren't entitled to s**t. I believe that from this kind of aspect, people are cut from a different cloth in terms of thinking. Kind of sick to think about.

But that's the world we live in and I don't mean to make pre-judgements about anyone I meet, this is just from what I have seen and experienced.

 

[user name]

As an minority I could not agree more with that above statement. It's like a superiority complex with white men for some reason. A lot of times they are just so socially conditioned to think that minorities are losers and aren't entitled to s**t. I believe that from this kind of aspect, people are cut from a different cloth in terms of thinking.

Absolute and utter fckuing BULL****!

I don't like to disclose my ethinicity but I feel i have to to set the record straight here.

I am half indian/german and I NEVER had a problem getting laid at college. NO SIREEE. no fcuking problems.

in fact the white (American) girl in the room opposite ONLY slept with black dudes until she finished college and now she's with a nice white guy. lol.

absolute bull**** here! dont believe a fcuking word of it.

i am good looking and dark and the chicks fcuking loved it. whilst they were at college lol. different outside of college. lol.

edit: although that was pre 911 - things might have changed since then...

 

[HyperAnalyze]

Absolute and utter fckuing BULL****!

I don't like to disclose my ethinicity but I feel i have to to set the record straight here.

I am half indian/german and I NEVER had a problem getting laid at college. NO SIREEE. no fcuking problems.

in fact the girl in the room opposite ONLY slept with black dudes until she finished college and now she's with a nice white guy. lol.

absolute bull**** here! dont believe a fcuking word of it.

i am good looking and dark and the chicks fcuking loved it. whilst they were at college lol. different outside of college. lol.

edit: although that was pre 911 - things might have changed since then...

Black guys and white guys, nah... no problem

I'm talking about like LEGIT minorities

Ethiopian, Indian, Pakistani, Chinese, Korean, Vietnamese, etc.

It's because there is a preconceived notion of who we are and all of the social conditioning led to believe that we are:

nerdy, play a lot of video games, have no lives, etc.

I mean I never really had TOO much of a problem but I'm sure south east Asian guys can relate to this.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

I have learned that most white males live in this magic bubble of denial and do not start to come out till life hits them hard. Minorities are already aware of negativity because it is part of their life

 

[skinnyguy]

Agreed.

In college, it's true that you meet a lot of chicks your age. If you have hook ups to house parties, you're basically golden, but if you don't you are in for a rough time. After college, the women are more mature and play fewer games. Yes, there are some who play games, but those are the ones who aren't in the professional world (probably stripping, working at a restaurant, etc).

One of the issues I do see in the real world is status. If you're not a bigshot in your career, a women will say "who the hell are you?" at first. But in college, they know exactly why you are there so there is no issue of that.

 

[Benjaymin]

The Black guys I saw having success in college were athletes and the White girls who went after them were the very select few that were pre-disposed to going after Black men and those girls were few in numbers. I can pass for a light skin Black male (like T.I.), these girls were fetish kind not the cute sorority girl. Even the Black athletes I knew didn't get a lot of the sorority girls at SC, most of them went for the White athletes or the White fraternity guys.

If you are Indian and German mix, then you will probably look like an exotic White dude, kinda like Keiran Lee (who is half Indian).

I didn't post this thread to tell all minorities they are ****ed, I did it for the exact opposite reason.

Work hard in college.
Make some connections for the future.
Get your degree.
Go to grad school in a better area (New York or a more cosmopolitan city).
Get that job.
Get that lifestyle.

My fellow minority brahs, you will be set and swimming in ***** of all races.

Back at USC I knew this one Vietnamese dude. Guy was funny, not bad looking, cool kid to be around, and had the guts to approach any girl on sight. Failed hard at USC, would get depressed about his time there.

Fast forward to now, he has a job that pays him a decent salary, has dated some legit attractive Latin girls, was in a relationship with this one Brazilian beauty, then dated some Blue eyed brunette with tanned skin that everyone was going crazy for, and has been with a few blondes too.

I know a few Asian and Indian dudes who have managed to do the same. All of them have been swimming in White ***** (since for some reason that is all you guys are after) ever since they have been out of college.

Fact is, College girls are Status Hungry, no other way to put it.

They want that Channing Tatum looking boyfriend who can make them look good to their sorority sisters. All of them are hungry for compliments and being in the spotlight, they don't want boyfriends and lovers, they want trophies to display around. All of these girls are the same in colleges like USC and UT, this **** gets even worse than elsewhere.

It doesn't have to do with race, it is just that these girls are:

1. Young
2. Confused
3. Obsessed with validation from their social circles
4. Obsessed with being the princess who has all the attention in the room

As time goes on, these girls will hit their peak and star to drop and if you invest your time right you will be rising and getting better.

 

[Benjaymin]

One of the issues I do see in the real world is status. If you're not a bigshot in your career, a women will say "who the hell are you?" at first. But in college, they know exactly why you are there so there is no issue of that.

Wrong.

I do not have the bigshot career but I still get decent pay, enough to pay bills and love life in a huge city. Women care about

1. How I dress and look (can't be fat or dress poorly, you have to be single digit bodyfat and dress GQ)
2. How I approach them
3. How I talk to them
4. How I escalate
5. If I can get them back to my place

Girls in college care about

1. If I am an athlete
2. If I am in a fraternity
3. How I can raise their status to their sorority sisters

If I cannot do any of those 3, I am ****ed.

We aren't talking average girls here, we are talking top level talent.

 

[bigneil]

20 years after college, I've never had more hot girls than now. I just culled 4 of the 9 women I was dating:

1) Texas bartender at expensive steakhouse - dumped.
2) San Fran bartender brat owner's daughter - dumped.
3) Hot business woman I met at pool - dumped.
4) Bikini model A - dumped.

Two are on the rocks but telling me they love me:

5) NY girl from Russia.
6) The stripper from TX.

Three more who are super-hot are my disposal:

7) Hot CA nurse who works at bikini bar.
8) Hot TX neighbor who got naked last week.
9) Waitress who works at bikini bar - possibly the love of my life.

I don't even have time for more.

And NONE ARE FB FRIENDS!!

All sent a text thumbnail though or I took a photo for one.

Stay in shape, eat healthy, earn lots of money, dress well and surround yourself with beautiful women. Once it all becomes second nature they'll call you a ladies man.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

I wonder why do single women 30 and over, when they lose their value, past their prime, why do they still bother try to get dates, get a boyfriend, when they no the odds are stacked against then, they are not as desirable as they used to be

 

[user name]

I wonder why do single women 30 and over, when they lose their value, past their prime, why do they still bother try to get dates, get a boyfriend, when they no the odds are stacked against then, they are not as desirable as they used to be

lol. what are they supposed to do? twiddle their thumbs and wait for death?

its all relative, isn't it? at that age the guys are also older, fatter, balder, greyer etc

 

[JaegerPilot217]

lol. what are they supposed to do? twiddle their thumbs and wait for death?

its all relative, isn't it? at that age the guys are also older, fatter, balder, greyer etc

just being sarcastic, besides, the women that have experienced tons of dating and relationships in teens and their 20's, and once they are single in their 30's, they deserve their karma for all of those years of rejecting and friend-zoning guys, going for bad boys instead of nice guys, making guys have to overcome their fear, making them develop their balls by having to do the approaching, making the first move and asking out meanwhile all they had to do was passively wait and just say yes or no, accept or decline, be socially-awkward, quiet, shy, be boring and get away with it, as for the older guys you mentioned, well men are usually capable of getting a woman at pretty much any age from what it seems, meanwhile for the most part women have to use the time while they are young

 

[user name]

just being sarcastic, besides, the women that have experienced tons of dating and relationships in teens and their 20's, and once they are single in their 30's, they deserve their karma for all of those years of rejecting and friend-zoning guys, going for bad boys instead of nice guys, making guys have to overcome their fear, making them develop their balls by having to do the approaching, making the first move and asking out meanwhile all they had to do was passively wait and just say yes or no, accept or decline, be socially-awkward, quiet, shy, be boring and get away with it, as for the older guys you mentioned, well men are usually capable of getting a woman at pretty much any age from what it seems, meanwhile for the most part women have to use the time while they are young

do you mind if i ask how old you are? I'm guessing late teens, early twenties?

 

[JaegerPilot217]

but since i'm still 25, I don't want to waste the rest of my prime years, I don't want this message to pop in my mind when i'm much older:

"I see twenty something couples everywhere. I see a twenty something guy with a nice twentyish young women. I think those years slipped right by for me. Why should I continue another 20+ years alone? I will just work, come home, eat, maybe do something, then go to bed (alone) for the next day of the same thing."

Goal is to prevent that from happening but it's a matter of knowing what is the right action to take, yes I know obviously us guys are expected to approach, initiate, that's why I'm starting to read David Wygant's Fearless Code lately