Lack of sex or lack of women is reason for most unhappiness in life...

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It this line of thought that perpetuates the belief. The person who is happiest is the one who doesn't need anyone else to make him happy. This is not to say that he wants to be alone, just that he is well capable of having a happy life without dependence of needing someone else there. This person is happy because of self confidence and self awareness, not just because he's dating someone.

 

[Luthor Rex]

So how come childhood is the happiest time of most peoples lives

That's because they stay children on the inside even when they are "grown up."

While certain specific aspects of my life have gotten harder over time, I would have to say that overall I prefer my life now to my life as a child.

Life is getting better as I'm getting older. Maybe not easier, but better...

 

[CanuckinSK]

I agree with everything you say Mahon. If the focal point is just lack of sex, just say this to yourself:

Women's services can be rented. Just like your favorite food. You crave sugar... buy a choclate bar. Crave pVssy, get an escort.

I know what you're saying though; it's a hit to the old ego if we don't feel like we're capable of getting women.

 

[ricorico]

I agree with the guy who said a woman will not make you happy. I too have been miserable with many women and happy on my own.

That said, there is no reason for a 26 year old guy not to go out there and get as many girls as he can unless he lives at home or looks like the Elephant man.

Most women will not come to you unless you are very exceptional and make eye contact easily. Otherwise you have to go to them. As I said to someone else, if you have to get yourself a cute dog as a prop to talk to girls do it! Whatever it takes to make you comfortable. Besides that women will actually come up to talk to you in cases like that. If you have low self esteem it's a good start.

 

[squirrels]

We're TAUGHT to be.

I'd personally rather have a good circle of male friends than have to worry about a girlfriend. Don't get me wrong, chicks are a BLAST, but try playing a game of pickup football with them.

 

[mahon83050]

As I stated earlier, I can see clearly why two co-workers are so angry and insecure.

One guy is a divorced retired cop who lives by himself. I can guarantee his short fuse and anger is because he ain't getting laid. One girl at work burned him bad over a year ago. He still won't talk to her and gets angry at every guy who does talk to her.

The other guy is in his mid 40's, overweight, smokes, lives with his parents and probably has never had a g/f in his life. He is so desperate for female approval and attention he even hits on and flirts with the 18 year old front desk agent.

Lack of a woman is definitely the reasons why these two guys are the way they are. I would bet my life on it.....

 

[Bible_Belt]

www.globaltesol.com

Fuzzx, that looks awesome. The pay looks like it sucks, though! Argentina pays $400/month. Greece says it pays a few hundred bucks a month more than the cost of living, France is a little better. Japan is not much different.

Where does it pay the best? Where have you been? Did you have enough spare money to have a good time? Lately I have been wanting to run away, and this looks like fun.

 

[STR8UP]

One guy is a divorced retired cop who lives by himself. I can guarantee his short fuse and anger is because he ain't getting laid. One girl at work burned him bad over a year ago. He still won't talk to her and gets angry at every guy who does talk to her.

Sex and female companionship can be a band-aid to an open wound (unhappiness), but what you really need are SUTURES.

The truly happy man is one who can live with or without pu$$y.

It's no different than anything else you can do to kill the pain; drugs, alcohol, spending money, etc. It's only ESCAPING from something else that's lacking.

I'm going through some really rough times right now and there are moments when I would give my left nut just to have a woman who "loves" me to take my mind off things, but then I realize that that is all she's gonna do.....make me forget about things for the moment. The next day everything will be as it was FUBAR.

There's something to be said for sex and companionship though. It definitely helps you cope. And I once heard a saying that went something like "To be happy in life, you need someone to love, someone to love you, and something to look forward to. You can live without one or two of these things, but you can't live without all three". I don't think this saying hits all the points, but it does make sense.

Bottom line though- if you aren't happy without pu$$y you won't be happy WITH pu$$y.

 

[Bvbidd]

I tried to get pvssy when I was 4, and you could get it too when your that young.

 

[Mad Manic]

Women are the cause and solution to nearly all of male problems, this I do believe. It's just the way things are, women generally have more value sexually and socially over men. They have it easy in terms of having a bf and indeed in terms of having lots of social options too, male and female. I/we don't make the rules, that's just how it is, sad but true.

But you know what, if you can improve yourselves, get better with women and try and keep your mental resolve, it'll be great when you do get with the type of girl you're looking for.

Currently I'm writing an essay about the social situation as I see it, when I'm done if anyone would like to read it I'll hand it out. Not about pick up, since I'm only 20 and learning, but just about the state of society with regards to men and women. Just an interest of mine.

 

[~attrACTION~]

In essense, women HAVE IMMENSE POWER over men.

I can tell you 100% in all honesty, the reason for most of my depression and unhappiness in life has been lack of women or lack of female compansionship. I am 30 and never had a LTR with a woman. It hurts even more, since I am on the attractive side. This is probably true for most other men who don't have a wife, girlfriend or haven't gotten any in awhile.

Who do you think is happier? A millionaire who has all of these material things, but no woman or guy who has an average job, house, but is married to an attractive woman? I think this one is no brainer........

I have also witnessed this with some older guys at work. One guy is 45, lives at home, is overweight, and has never had anybody. He teases and hits on all of the women (18 year olds at well) since he is so DESPERATE for female attention. Although he doesn't seem it, I am SURE he is MISERABLE inside since he does not have a female companion.

If a man is unhappy or depressed, 90% of the time it is due to lack of sex or lack of female companionship.

Look at men in prison. I bet the worst thing about it is lack of access to the opposite sex.

I'm 23 and have never had an LTR, although I've had my share of dates and sex on occasion. Still, probably not as much as other guys I know, or as much as I should be having.

Nonetheless, there are major flaws to your argument. I'm very happy, and I love my life. Sure, we all get into ruts once in a while and feel down, but more often than not I feel amazing. Life is too fvcking short to base your happiness on some pvssy. Seriously, snap out of it.

You're trying to rationalize your argument with 2 extremes. It's either you're a rich guy with no women, or a poor guy with hot babes. What if you dont' base your happiness on women OR MONEY? You're assuming that it's either money or women.

Hate to break it to you, but for me it's neither. I love life for life itself.

I want to be a millionaire not because money will make me happy but I have dreams and goals that I want to make happen. It's not for the pieces of paper or material things. Sure, those will make me happy in the short-term, but they are in essence meaningless objects.

I would much rather be that guy with money and no women. I've seen the guys who get lots of pvssy like their lives are consumed by it. They are going nowhere in their lives. I could care less what you think happiness is, I think you're wrong. I once made a post about thinking that happiness doesn't exist. I was wrong then. Happiness is the joy of living everyday to the last drop.

As I stated earlier, I can see clearly why two co-workers are so angry and insecure.

Most of the workers and people I've seen in work environments, nearly 99% of them are only unhappy because of their lack of MONEY. Not women (or the opposite sex). Money rules the world, whether you accept it or not.