lack of car seriously hurting my game

[LaDanian Tomlinson]

im a senior and i wont be able to drive until august. it is embarrassing that i ride my bike to school while sophomores are driving to school. its embarrassing when people find out that i dont drive. its embarrassing when a sophomore chick has to drive me home after a date. that is not what the man is supposed to do. it severely limits what i can do with my social life. i cant go to most events because i don't drive and my friends don't want to give me a ride because gas is too expensive. guys with cars have a HUGE edge over guys without cars. it is a much bigger issue then you people think. i pretty much have to wait until i drive before i can actually get serious about getting girls.

 

[habdragon08]

whats the point of this thread? All your doing is complaining.

Instead of complaining, go out and do something. Read, take a run, do homework. None opf those require a car. Improving yourself doesnt require a car.

Also, Get a ride from your parents. Its not that embarassing.

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

whats the point of this thread? All your doing is complaining.

Instead of complaining, go out and do something. Read, take a run, do homework. None opf those require a car. Improving yourself doesnt require a car.

Also, Get a ride from your parents. Its not that embarassing.

I hate getting rides from parents, getting a ride back from a date would be pathetic you won't be able to DO ANYTHING and it's awkward, you also can't really stay late at parties or at ur girlfriend's house... So in someways it hurts a true DJ for not having a car. All I can say is meet more girls and keep DJing so when you finally can drive again you have girls you can date. Try setting up double dates with your friends so they can drive you, offer to pay for the gas too if they refuse to give you a ride cuz gas prices are expensive.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

I can't drive. I'm almost a senior. Doesn't really matter if you got GAME. I can play off the fact that my mom drives me. I call her my chauffer lol. The ladies don't mind as long as they get to see me. They even offer to give me rides.

 

[Split Infinity]

Skilla's right.

I don't drive and I'm also a senior and it doesn't make any difference at all. Girls don't care at all if you've got your **** down in other areas. Don't ever blame your inability to pick up chicks on your lack of one trait, because it will just hold you back since it's a convenient excuse.

 

[KarmaSutra]

I have an 11 year old daughter who loves her " Heelies " ! Maybe you could try that or a skateboard?

 

[Exo]

I got a fix too (the rents dont let me drive for some reason) but if you allready can manage to get a date to begin with there's not really anything a car could help you out with..

Sure a brand new 918 would get all the gold digers you can handle (even if it gets gutted by a civic hatch *cough cough*) but is that the sort of girl you want (assuming you can buy a porche). Come to think of it what about all the don's out there who cant afford a car, huh? Is it hopeless for them?

 

[JSH]

Now I am from England so I do not really understand this whole lack of car is hurting my game issue. (Side issue: gas prices are not at all expensive where you are, trying paying double what you pay due to tax. And its you thats screwing up the environment but anyway)

You do not need a car to go out on dates, if you can get to her house (scam lifts, walk, RUN, cycle, buy a motorbike, get a bus, whatever) then you can take her out. Do things that do not involve driving, you do not need to drive her to a cinema or a mall or something to hang out and have a stereotypical date. Instead, do something new and different, take her for a walk near her house, get her to teach you things about where she lives and you teach her things. In england, for example, you can talk about 'kissing gates', which are gates designed to stop animals getting out but which young men used to hold shut until the girl gave them a kiss. Lying on your back in a field looking up at the night sky can be so much more romantic than a cinema.

Do things locally. If you live somewhere, anywhere, even in the middle of nowhere there are things that you can do there. There are sheep you can go and poke fun at, there are horses you can stroke, there are people you can visit.

Its easy, get some spunk. Although I realise saying that, really will not help. But still.


Good Luck

 

[WesCottII]

Bullsh!t. Stop blaming everything/everyone else for the fact you can't get girls. The onus is on you.
I don't have a car, I get laid, so can you.

 

[dannowillbookem]

the car thing DOES hurt, but my games gotten good enough that i dont need it. i've established a good rep (all the girls i meet have heard about me making out with one of their friends or getting head in an elevator or something) and a boyish charm like one chick called it so i dont need to drive them places... i usually hook up with a girl the night i meet her and want her, and then theres no driving its whoever is driving that night. i also have girls that will do anything to see me (i.e. drive to me and take me places) and girls that hang around regularly at the movies and shiit so if i have nothing else to do i get a ride from the rents down there and hookup.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

Let's officially label the lack of a car as an excuse.

Excuses are bad.

Stop using them as a crutch.

The End.

 

[AB500]

Now I am from England so I do not really understand this whole lack of car is hurting my game issue. (Side issue: gas prices are not at all expensive where you are, trying paying double what you pay due to tax. And its you thats screwing up the environment but anyway)

England is completely different then America in that regard. You have mass transportation systems, we don't. In the US your car is about your only way to get around if you don't live in a big city. Everything is very far apart and does take a long time to get to. The nearest movie theater is about 15 miles away, the girl I'm dating right now is about 7 miles away. No one uses walking as a form of transportation unless you live in a subdevision.

That being said not being able to drive is an excuse and you shouldn't be making excuses. I can't drive yet, I'm a little overweight, and I'm a freshman at my highschool. This puts me at a big disadvantage, am I going to go and cry about it? No, right now I'm dating a HB7.5 who's personality brings her up to a HB8.5 and she's a sophmore. I don't except excuses and neither should you.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

If you live in America and you're a guy you gotta have a freakin car! having a car means freedom. When you reach the age of being able to work then start working even if at mcdonalds or at a grocery store. Start saving money as soon as possible so you can put some downpayment on whatever car you want when you have enough dough.

 

[DJ_Trainee_10]

Having a car is a luxury. Having true game is essential for a DJ.

That is to say... If you don't have a car you're not on the bottom of the list. If you don't have DJ skills that's why you're on the bottom of the list... or so you feel. It's not bad to not have a car. I know guys who get chicks left and right and their cousin drives them to and from school. I know guys who get chicks top and bottom and they take the bus to and from school.

It's all about game... if having a car is part of your game then I advise you to get your game checked.

Edit: 50th post sucka.

 

[aftershock]

No, not having a car is not hurting your game. Not having GAME is hurting your game.

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

Lack of car is not a excuse so stop saying it and it doesnt matter if you have game or not game, if you and your girl don't have car u guys can't go anywhere without someone's help. Bottom line, having a car is a huge advantage if you live in the US cuz the public transportation is sh*t if you life in a small town. Sure you can get a cousin, friend or parent to drive you to the date or to the girl's house but then you gotta get a ride back so it limits your freedom and time with the girl. I used to live in the city and would use train, bus or even talk to my dates or to my gf's house. But now there's no public transport in my town and ppl life too damn far from each other so I have to get rides and it BLOWS. That's why my suggestion is GET UR LISENCE as fast as possible, get a job to pay for insurance and car so parents have no say what you do with your car and keep getting chicks so once you DO get a car you can actually start doing more stuff.

If your freshmen then try setting up double dates so your friend can drive you or go for girl's with lisence who'll drive you.