donkdidonk2
Don Juan
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There is a woman at work who I really fancy.. We started flirting a bit last December when she seemsed to get a bit jealous that I was going on a date one weekend. Since, we have been exchanging emails outlining our fantasies and dirtiest things we have done. She said that she thought I was gay when I first started (more on this later) so I usedto say things like “You call me gay, but won’t give me the opportunity to prove otherwise” and similar stuff.
I told her that I am gonna ask her out when I leave here I am going to ask you out, what would you say” Unfortunately, the answer was no. She has said that she thinks I am good looking, great taste in clothes, nice smile, intelligent but I am not her type. She also said that I am a little bit too big muscle-wise to what she prefers. But there is a bloke here she DOES like and he is even more muscular. She says he makes her knickers wet. It seems that everyone here fancies him, and my confidence is shot to pieces as he must be that great if he isn’t her type and she fancies him THAT much. I now also feel inferior to this bloke. I wish that she fancied my like she fancied him, because it would make me feel so good about myself that someone who looked like her fancied me. My problems are:
1. How do I overcome this rejection?
2. How can I get some confidence back?
3. How can I stop coming across as gay? She told me today her boyfriend asked if I was gay. When I asked her why people thought this, she said it was because I was ‘nice’. How can I be more manly? It doesn’t help that I have ‘pretty boy’, innocent looks,
Please advise me!
I told her that I am gonna ask her out when I leave here I am going to ask you out, what would you say” Unfortunately, the answer was no. She has said that she thinks I am good looking, great taste in clothes, nice smile, intelligent but I am not her type. She also said that I am a little bit too big muscle-wise to what she prefers. But there is a bloke here she DOES like and he is even more muscular. She says he makes her knickers wet. It seems that everyone here fancies him, and my confidence is shot to pieces as he must be that great if he isn’t her type and she fancies him THAT much. I now also feel inferior to this bloke. I wish that she fancied my like she fancied him, because it would make me feel so good about myself that someone who looked like her fancied me. My problems are:
1. How do I overcome this rejection?
2. How can I get some confidence back?
3. How can I stop coming across as gay? She told me today her boyfriend asked if I was gay. When I asked her why people thought this, she said it was because I was ‘nice’. How can I be more manly? It doesn’t help that I have ‘pretty boy’, innocent looks,
Please advise me!