Nine Breaker
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You're finishing up a brilliant date with a knockout babe tonight. You, being the gentleman that you are, are giving her a lift to her home in your car (or walking her home etc..). You finally get to her place, and you realise that you could be in line for a first kiss with this babe...
WHAT DO YOU DO?
Everyone has their own style of kissing - there isn't a "right way" about doing it, although there are things that can make you a BETTER kisser than the rest. Here is a sizable outline of things you can do that will aid you in becoming a tonsil-tennis champion in no time.
1 - WHEN to kiss
[1st Date]: Do not think that you are obligated to kiss a girl at the end of a date. This is never so! Generally, the better the date goes, the better your chance (and the more expectant the woman will be) of getting that first kiss in at the end. You should be able to tell if she is wanting you to kiss her, usually via strong eye contact and kino on her part - increasingly stronger towards the end of the date. Do not be surprised if SHE initiates a kiss, but don't expect her to do so.
[In General]: Don't expect too much macking to happen in public places, since many out there see it as bad manners. When you notice that she will want to kiss you every time you pay her a compliment - that's one of many signs that the two of you are on the road to becoming a real couple.
2 - BEFORE a kiss
Keep your mouth clean! Would you want to kiss your girl, and find half a cow stuck in her teeth? She wouldn't want to find anything in your teeth either. It's more than common courtesy, it's common oral hygene.
Keeping a breath mint or some gum with you can be a handy tactic, but use is right after a meal - and not when you're walking a girl up to her front door. Actions speak louder than words, and that action screams you expect a kiss - and this can be a turn-off for the girl.
3 - SIGNS to make a 1st kiss
[From Her]
--> You and her enjoyed the date immensely.
--> She gives you strong eye contact at the end of the date, accompanied with friendly (yet slightly seductive) smiling.
--> She is using kino on you towards the end.
-->She feels relaxed and safe around you. ie: a strong rapport.
[By You]
--> You do all the above on her.
4 - HOW to kiss
A) Accept the kiss: When you kiss a girl for the first time, don't try any fancy moves or heavy tongue use. You want to see what SHE is going to do, and when she does - you can compliment her mouth movements. While this might not be the best kiss for you, it will certainly be good for her. And when a girl thinks you're a great kisser, you've got her wanting more from you.
B) Length of the kiss: A first kiss probably shouldn't be a long one, unless you've played all your cards right and she is VERY interested in you. Always be ready and willing for her to pull away when she has had enough - you don't want to force her any further than she is willing.
C) Breathing: For an "extended" kiss, try to remeber to breathe!!! Do this through your nose, and try to avoid snorting / wheasing / loud sniffles. And remember that if she suddenly tries to pull back, it might just be to take a breath - so let her be able to pull out. Nobody likes blacking out from a long kiss!!!
D) No slobber!: Wet kisses come from dogs, not people. Generally, if you see the girl you've just kissed wiping her mouth (and possibly even her chin) then you should cut down on the mouth movements and/or tongue.
5 - HANDS and Kissing
Something that many AFC's overlook is that, when you are kissing a woman, you still have hands which can be put into use. Whether that use is good or bad depends upon you, and can ADD to the kiss tremendously.
For a short kiss, you shouldn't have to worry about where the hands go too much. Placing them on her hips or around her back are suitable.
For longer kissing (ie: making out), your hands can make the difference between a waste of time and having your woman going even further for you. If you recall from other sexual-based posts, a woman's body is basically one big sensory centre - you can arouse her via kino relatively easily (hence the success of kino!). Feel free to do some "exploring" with your hands. Rub them up and down her arms, shoulders, her back, her abdomen, and her breasts - but don't spend too much time on the breasts. Like I said before, the whole body is your aim, not just the bouncy bits.
6 - WHERE to Kiss
Whether out in the school yard, hitting the clubs on a saturday night, or simply hanging out at your place, you will find that one simple tactic at any of these places will help you get those lip muscles some exercise - get the two of you alone together.
This isn't always possible, so don't fret at a lack of options, there is always another day (and another girl) When in a situation with people around you (a party or social group, whatever) you'll find that the best way to get the two of you alone is to say something such as "It's too loud here. Let's find somewhere quiet where we can talk" or simply "Can we speak in private?" It isn't great DJ material, but it does the job.
The idea now is to talk with the girl in a situation where it's just the two of you. Talk about whatever the heck you want to, it's your call. Just remember that 70-30 ratio (you know about it, right??) and you're right. What you're looking for is strong eye contact as the conversation flows along. Eventually, the two of you are going to pause talking, and just be staring at eachother. This is THE moment to plant that first kiss! Trust me on that. She'll probably see it coming, and if you've played your cards right, she'll WANT it coming her way.
Now, try to keep the kissing somewhere private. You don't want others (ie: friends and relatives) cutting in and killing your moment. Besides, couples that put on gratuitous "public shows" don't get good points in the reputation department, and it can offend others.
Advanced Kissing Tactics
1/ The Silent Kiss
AIM: To go from talking with your girl, to making out/love.
REQUIREMENTS: This tip assumes a strong degree of rapport between you and "her". Good with a g/f, not with a stranger.
METHOD: Imagine you and her are haing a coffee at home. Keep strong eye contact. Put down your drink, and hers too, without saying a word. Then slowly, but surely, put your arms around her and kiss her. Use your hands to caress her body throughout the kissing, and slowly progress as far as you'd like to go. Take your time.
ADVANTAGES: The strong eye contact is a great show of confidence, and the method in general shows her that you are a strong man - always attractive to women.
2 - The Non-kiss Kiss
AIM: A unique way to first-kiss a girl.
METHOD: Say this: "Hey, I bet you that I can kiss you on the lips without even touching you!"
She is obviously going to be curious as to how you could achieve this one. If she wants you to kiss her, she won't refuse. If she does, leave it at that.
If she agrees, kiss her on the lips - and make it a damned good one! When you're done, simpy say "hmmm, guess I can't".
ADVANTAGES: A way of avoiding any awkward pre-kiss moments for those of you who hate 'em.
[UPDATE]3 - The Hand Kiss
AIM: A simple method that separates you from the pack.
METHOD: Ideal for introductions. When introducing yourself, grasp the woman's hand just after you have spoken and gently kiss her hand (above the knuckles). Be sure to maintain a decent level of eye contact during this move.
ADVANTAGES: One thing that many couples notice is that there was something that made their first meeting "unique", something a little more special than saying "hello" to eachother. This method takes full advantage of this occurance, and can aid in raising interest levels within the first few minutes.
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More tips have and will still be added later on. If you have anything to add on the topic, share the wisdom here!
Take it easy.
------------------
Since the moment of your birth, you have been destined to die. Nothing you can ever do will change this from happening.
However, you CAN change what will happen from now until then, but only if you dare to try.
DO YOU DARE?
[This message has been edited by Nine Breaker (edited 07-13-2002).]
[This message has been edited by Nine Breaker (edited 10-21-2002).]
[This message has been edited by Nine Breaker (edited 10-21-2002).]
WHAT DO YOU DO?
Everyone has their own style of kissing - there isn't a "right way" about doing it, although there are things that can make you a BETTER kisser than the rest. Here is a sizable outline of things you can do that will aid you in becoming a tonsil-tennis champion in no time.
1 - WHEN to kiss
[1st Date]: Do not think that you are obligated to kiss a girl at the end of a date. This is never so! Generally, the better the date goes, the better your chance (and the more expectant the woman will be) of getting that first kiss in at the end. You should be able to tell if she is wanting you to kiss her, usually via strong eye contact and kino on her part - increasingly stronger towards the end of the date. Do not be surprised if SHE initiates a kiss, but don't expect her to do so.
[In General]: Don't expect too much macking to happen in public places, since many out there see it as bad manners. When you notice that she will want to kiss you every time you pay her a compliment - that's one of many signs that the two of you are on the road to becoming a real couple.
2 - BEFORE a kiss
Keep your mouth clean! Would you want to kiss your girl, and find half a cow stuck in her teeth? She wouldn't want to find anything in your teeth either. It's more than common courtesy, it's common oral hygene.
Keeping a breath mint or some gum with you can be a handy tactic, but use is right after a meal - and not when you're walking a girl up to her front door. Actions speak louder than words, and that action screams you expect a kiss - and this can be a turn-off for the girl.
3 - SIGNS to make a 1st kiss
[From Her]
--> You and her enjoyed the date immensely.
--> She gives you strong eye contact at the end of the date, accompanied with friendly (yet slightly seductive) smiling.
--> She is using kino on you towards the end.
-->She feels relaxed and safe around you. ie: a strong rapport.
[By You]
--> You do all the above on her.
4 - HOW to kiss
A) Accept the kiss: When you kiss a girl for the first time, don't try any fancy moves or heavy tongue use. You want to see what SHE is going to do, and when she does - you can compliment her mouth movements. While this might not be the best kiss for you, it will certainly be good for her. And when a girl thinks you're a great kisser, you've got her wanting more from you.
B) Length of the kiss: A first kiss probably shouldn't be a long one, unless you've played all your cards right and she is VERY interested in you. Always be ready and willing for her to pull away when she has had enough - you don't want to force her any further than she is willing.
C) Breathing: For an "extended" kiss, try to remeber to breathe!!! Do this through your nose, and try to avoid snorting / wheasing / loud sniffles. And remember that if she suddenly tries to pull back, it might just be to take a breath - so let her be able to pull out. Nobody likes blacking out from a long kiss!!!
D) No slobber!: Wet kisses come from dogs, not people. Generally, if you see the girl you've just kissed wiping her mouth (and possibly even her chin) then you should cut down on the mouth movements and/or tongue.
5 - HANDS and Kissing
Something that many AFC's overlook is that, when you are kissing a woman, you still have hands which can be put into use. Whether that use is good or bad depends upon you, and can ADD to the kiss tremendously.
For a short kiss, you shouldn't have to worry about where the hands go too much. Placing them on her hips or around her back are suitable.
For longer kissing (ie: making out), your hands can make the difference between a waste of time and having your woman going even further for you. If you recall from other sexual-based posts, a woman's body is basically one big sensory centre - you can arouse her via kino relatively easily (hence the success of kino!). Feel free to do some "exploring" with your hands. Rub them up and down her arms, shoulders, her back, her abdomen, and her breasts - but don't spend too much time on the breasts. Like I said before, the whole body is your aim, not just the bouncy bits.
6 - WHERE to Kiss
Whether out in the school yard, hitting the clubs on a saturday night, or simply hanging out at your place, you will find that one simple tactic at any of these places will help you get those lip muscles some exercise - get the two of you alone together.
This isn't always possible, so don't fret at a lack of options, there is always another day (and another girl) When in a situation with people around you (a party or social group, whatever) you'll find that the best way to get the two of you alone is to say something such as "It's too loud here. Let's find somewhere quiet where we can talk" or simply "Can we speak in private?" It isn't great DJ material, but it does the job.
The idea now is to talk with the girl in a situation where it's just the two of you. Talk about whatever the heck you want to, it's your call. Just remember that 70-30 ratio (you know about it, right??) and you're right. What you're looking for is strong eye contact as the conversation flows along. Eventually, the two of you are going to pause talking, and just be staring at eachother. This is THE moment to plant that first kiss! Trust me on that. She'll probably see it coming, and if you've played your cards right, she'll WANT it coming her way.
Now, try to keep the kissing somewhere private. You don't want others (ie: friends and relatives) cutting in and killing your moment. Besides, couples that put on gratuitous "public shows" don't get good points in the reputation department, and it can offend others.
Advanced Kissing Tactics
1/ The Silent Kiss
AIM: To go from talking with your girl, to making out/love.
REQUIREMENTS: This tip assumes a strong degree of rapport between you and "her". Good with a g/f, not with a stranger.
METHOD: Imagine you and her are haing a coffee at home. Keep strong eye contact. Put down your drink, and hers too, without saying a word. Then slowly, but surely, put your arms around her and kiss her. Use your hands to caress her body throughout the kissing, and slowly progress as far as you'd like to go. Take your time.
ADVANTAGES: The strong eye contact is a great show of confidence, and the method in general shows her that you are a strong man - always attractive to women.
2 - The Non-kiss Kiss
AIM: A unique way to first-kiss a girl.
METHOD: Say this: "Hey, I bet you that I can kiss you on the lips without even touching you!"
She is obviously going to be curious as to how you could achieve this one. If she wants you to kiss her, she won't refuse. If she does, leave it at that.
If she agrees, kiss her on the lips - and make it a damned good one! When you're done, simpy say "hmmm, guess I can't".
ADVANTAGES: A way of avoiding any awkward pre-kiss moments for those of you who hate 'em.
[UPDATE]3 - The Hand Kiss
AIM: A simple method that separates you from the pack.
METHOD: Ideal for introductions. When introducing yourself, grasp the woman's hand just after you have spoken and gently kiss her hand (above the knuckles). Be sure to maintain a decent level of eye contact during this move.
ADVANTAGES: One thing that many couples notice is that there was something that made their first meeting "unique", something a little more special than saying "hello" to eachother. This method takes full advantage of this occurance, and can aid in raising interest levels within the first few minutes.
----------------------------
More tips have and will still be added later on. If you have anything to add on the topic, share the wisdom here!
Take it easy.
------------------
Since the moment of your birth, you have been destined to die. Nothing you can ever do will change this from happening.
However, you CAN change what will happen from now until then, but only if you dare to try.
DO YOU DARE?
[This message has been edited by Nine Breaker (edited 07-13-2002).]
[This message has been edited by Nine Breaker (edited 10-21-2002).]
[This message has been edited by Nine Breaker (edited 10-21-2002).]
