Kissing on the first date

[obti]

I know this girl likes me and we went on a date last week however i didn't feel a moment when it felt right to kiss her. This worries me.

 

[smooth guy]

You didn't feel like kissing her or you couldn't find the right moment to kiss her?

 

[Sean Stock]

You always kiss the first date or your ****ed. You were just nervous. The moment existed there more than once.

 

[Stuntmann]

You are the momement. No such thing as perfect moment, you make them happen.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I know this girl likes me and we went on a date last week however i didn't feel a moment when it felt right to kiss her. This worries me.

You should be more concerned about whether there will be another date where you could have another chance.

 

[jamescr73]

I went on a date with a chick like 4 months ago, and everything really good. I could see that she was interested in me, we had a lot of fun, and at the end of the night i went for the kiss close. She turned her head and said that she didnt kiss on the first date. Now im 27 and she is 24 and I said to her "what, are we in the 7th grade?" so yeah, she never called me after that, and when i would see her at the gym (where i met her), and at bars, she would act like i was the biggest a$shole on the planet.

But I always try to kiss close on the first date, and succeed 95% of the time. This was a first for me where the chick told me she didnt kiss on the first date, because in the back of my mind, Ive F closed on the first date and this chick must be a prude or something.

 

[Obsidian]

you don't have to kiss on the first date. Imo, it's better not to, but it depends on what you're looking for and how horish the girl is.

If you've done things correctly, your first date should be an inexpensive 45 minutes at a coffee shop, in which case a kiss would probably be awkward anyway.

 

[Ace of Flames]

Don't look for the right moment. Create it.

 

[Monkey]

If shes all over you, DON'T kiss her - it'll drive her completely insane and set you apart from all the other guys.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Yeah I prefer coffee shops for first dates, so a kiss doesn't really fit. You could do it if you really wanted to, I guess.

It's easy when you are in one of those dark, eclectic, independent shops. I'd avoid Starbucks.

 

[Obsidian]

after 45 minutes?! talk about hormongering. Why don't you just tell her to strip down while you're at it.