So last night I was thinking what can I add that I don't see much of here, and that I know something about that I can pass on.
And I realized what that could be, now my challenge is to describe it properly.
Kissing... it's a simple thing right? Then why are so many people bad kissers?
Maybe there's more to it than you thought. Maybe it's more than just pushing your lips into somebody else and slobbering all over them like a doberman.
First i'm going to start with those of you who haven't kissed a girl before or haven't much atleast. Initially to get a feel of it just kind of go along with her and what she is going and notice what feels good and what you don't like.
If she is all like "eeerrghgh" and slobbering all over you, that doesn't feel good... so don't do that yourself. If she is opening and closing her mouth quickly like a puckerfish then that isn't good easier. (now that's a hard one to communicate by text.)
Don't just jump in and go full on at first, start slowly. Slowly move your face towards her... stop... just a few centermetres away... and just let yourself fell the tension.
She is feeling it too, and she will love it. Pull away, smile at her.. go back in and stop a bit closer again. She will probably pretty much jump on you and start kissing you.
Don't just do the same thing all the time. Vary the speed. Kiss her slowly with little pecks on the lips, then a bit faster with some tongue, tease her tongue with yours instead of just seeing if you can shove it down her throat to her tonsils. Then stop using tongue for a while. Pull away and kiss her on the neck.
Then when you're going in to kiss her again and you are just about touching her lips.. stop and kiss her on the neck.. softy.
The next one I learnt from an older women when I was first getting into this stuff.
Gently suck on their lip. Their top or bottom lip, it feels really good to them. Ask them to do it to you. Just do it gently because her lips are sensitive.
Ask her to stick her tongue out, gently suck on the tip of her tongue.. she will love that too. Then go in and make out with her again.
By the way, i'm not suggesting this all be done in the order i'm writing it... because it is a spontaneous thing. But some of these I had no idea about until I come across women that showed me this stuff.
Here's another tip. If she is slobbering like a doberman and kissing you way too fast and it just doesn't feel good, kind of put your hand around her jaw and put a fingertip over her mouth as if to say "stop for a second" kiss her slowly and get her to do that. If she goes back into it like a doberman again put your finger back over her mouth to stop her then start doing it slowly.
Teach her how to kiss better. The first woman I was with did this to me and it really helped me become a better kisser.
Kissing is like foreplay... actually kissing is a part of foreplay. You don't always have to go straight in.
Tease her... build the tension.. give her something to think about.. keep her wondering what is next...
And I bet when you get down to her panties.. that they are pretty ****ing wet.
Let me know what you think or if you need me to expand on something. Kissing is a dynamic thing so is hard to explain with text, but i've tried my best. If I think of something else i'll add it.
And I realized what that could be, now my challenge is to describe it properly.
Kissing... it's a simple thing right? Then why are so many people bad kissers?
Maybe there's more to it than you thought. Maybe it's more than just pushing your lips into somebody else and slobbering all over them like a doberman.
First i'm going to start with those of you who haven't kissed a girl before or haven't much atleast. Initially to get a feel of it just kind of go along with her and what she is going and notice what feels good and what you don't like.
If she is all like "eeerrghgh" and slobbering all over you, that doesn't feel good... so don't do that yourself. If she is opening and closing her mouth quickly like a puckerfish then that isn't good easier. (now that's a hard one to communicate by text.)
Don't just jump in and go full on at first, start slowly. Slowly move your face towards her... stop... just a few centermetres away... and just let yourself fell the tension.
She is feeling it too, and she will love it. Pull away, smile at her.. go back in and stop a bit closer again. She will probably pretty much jump on you and start kissing you.
Don't just do the same thing all the time. Vary the speed. Kiss her slowly with little pecks on the lips, then a bit faster with some tongue, tease her tongue with yours instead of just seeing if you can shove it down her throat to her tonsils. Then stop using tongue for a while. Pull away and kiss her on the neck.
Then when you're going in to kiss her again and you are just about touching her lips.. stop and kiss her on the neck.. softy.
The next one I learnt from an older women when I was first getting into this stuff.
Gently suck on their lip. Their top or bottom lip, it feels really good to them. Ask them to do it to you. Just do it gently because her lips are sensitive.
Ask her to stick her tongue out, gently suck on the tip of her tongue.. she will love that too. Then go in and make out with her again.
By the way, i'm not suggesting this all be done in the order i'm writing it... because it is a spontaneous thing. But some of these I had no idea about until I come across women that showed me this stuff.
Here's another tip. If she is slobbering like a doberman and kissing you way too fast and it just doesn't feel good, kind of put your hand around her jaw and put a fingertip over her mouth as if to say "stop for a second" kiss her slowly and get her to do that. If she goes back into it like a doberman again put your finger back over her mouth to stop her then start doing it slowly.
Teach her how to kiss better. The first woman I was with did this to me and it really helped me become a better kisser.
Kissing is like foreplay... actually kissing is a part of foreplay. You don't always have to go straight in.
Tease her... build the tension.. give her something to think about.. keep her wondering what is next...
And I bet when you get down to her panties.. that they are pretty ****ing wet.
Let me know what you think or if you need me to expand on something. Kissing is a dynamic thing so is hard to explain with text, but i've tried my best. If I think of something else i'll add it.
