Kiss rejected due to BF @ club.

[cdoubled05]

So I have been talking to a 25 year old girl from work who's on house arrest. She has a BF (I know you guys already told me i'm getting myself into trouble on this one..) who she met while on house arrest so she has never even really hung out with him outside of her house. Anyways the chick likes me a lot and this was her first night going out and she wanted to go to the club with me and her two gf's, instead of her man?? So I head up there and we have a good time, she was all ****ed up. Got her on the dance floor (this is something that normally I would like to do but would be to afraid...i'm getting on the dance floor more and more everytime I go out now) her back was to my front and I was holding her right around the hips and I would just try to stay in tune with the way she was moving her hips and ass. I got a little frisky and started feeling her ass a little bit and would move my hands over her body and close to her tits...lots of touching her stomach and stuff. It was fun. I thought this chick was into me to the point I could bang her that night if I could isolate. I'm normally one of those kind of guys that waits for perfect time to kiss and all that crap...fvck that! I had wanted to spin her around multiple times during the night and stare into her eyes and then go for the kiss. At one point I finally got the balls and gazed into her eyes and went for a kiss, a kiss which she denied me of!! Wow...shocked me to be honest. She asked if I was mad and I just kinda played it off like it was nothing. Was that the right thing to do? She said she's a one guy at a time kinda girl and that since dude has been with her the whole time on house arrest she couldn't do that to him, but then she says how if she didn't like me a lot she wouldn't be going out to the club with me and talking to me all the time like she does at work. We danced a little bit more and then she eventually left giving me a kiss on the cheek before leaving.

Went to a friends after that and left my cell phone in the car...later when I get back there are a two missed txt messages from her. I dont have the cell phone to type the exact message (it's my mom and she took it at the moment) but they were along the lines of..

1. Sorry I couldnt' do it blah blah I had a really great time with you though.

2. I wanted to kiss you but blah blah blah.

I havent' responded to her since the club, mainly because i'm not sure how i should act towards her after being snubbed. So whats up gentleman? Whats the next move from here? (finding new woman should be #1 I would say) but how should I handle this particular situation??

PS. REJECTION DOES FEEL WAY BETTER THEN REGRET...I can finally say that for once.

 

[pressure0354]

sounds like a case of blue balls

just blow it off, stop giving her so much attention. let her want to kiss you or kick herself for not letting you do it.

 

[DJDamage]

So I have been talking to a 25 year old girl from work who's on house arrest. She has a BF

Great start trying to mack a girl who happens to be a convict with a boyfriend. Can't you find girls with no boyfriends and no criminal record? you might find that they won't reject you or need to be home by 9PM. By the way I am curious what crime did she commit??

 

[cdoubled05]

Great start trying to mack a girl who happens to be a convict with a boyfriend. Can't you find girls with no boyfriends and no criminal record? you might find that they won't reject you or need to be home by 9PM. By the way I am curious what crime did she commit??

Ahem...So I have been talking to a 25 year old girl from work who's on house arrest. She has a BF (I know you guys already told me i'm getting myself into trouble on this one..)

I'm working on talking to other ladies right now...still having trouble talking to chicks I dont know. This girl came on to me at work big time so it was easy for me to talk to her.

As far as the crime...distribution of pot, somewhere around five pounds I think.

But if you could try to answer the question please...do I still have a shot with this girl? I have already been showing her less and less attention at work lately and I dont talk to her on the phone hardly at all outside of work. Should I try to meet up with her after work one day or next weekend perhaps? Obviously my lack of other woman to talk to is making me focus on this one girl in particular a little too much. I know this is a problem and am working on it.

 

[Phyzzle]

First, I thought she lived with her EX-boyfriend while on house arrest. That's what you said in earlier threads.

I doubt the guy ever knew he was her ex. When she changed her story, and started to call him her bf again, that was when her interest in you dropped. Maybe you did something wrong then, I don't know

But to answer your question: Yeah, she is worth one more shot. I've been turned down for a kiss by a girl who later got aroused enough to do it. Just back off and come in again later.

Remember: her gf was at that club! She knows the bf!! That may have been it. Try again, but next time isolate.