I'm not a bad conversationalist. Most people like me and I don't find it that hard to make interesting conversations. The problem is that I think people find it really hard to start up conversations with me, they really have no idea what to ask or tell me. A girl yesterday told me straight up: "I really want to talk to you because I haven't seen you in a while, but I don't know what to say". While smiling, but still. I just smiled, ignored the comment, asked her a random question and had a normal conversation with the girl. But it did strike me that I think most people seems to struggle with just that, both guys and girls. I've tried to figure out why, but can't come up with anything. Suggestions? Solutions?