(Kinda) LR: Online Slvt

ARrocket

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Ever heard of the website Tagged? It is a social networking site (ie Facebook, Myspace), but is geared towards singles it seems, and is a GOLDMINE for women (admittedly, the only quality ones on there are under 25...as you go older, it gets scary). This is not about a quality one.

I messaged HB6.5 and after a couple messages where she seemed to have low IL, I just asked for the number. I do this when I feel like it's going nowhere online...nothing to lose, right? To my surprise she gave up the digits. Sent her a text "hey this is ARrocket from Tagged, save the number lady!" I get an "ok :)" back, and left it alone for awhile.

About a week later, "hey girlie, sup?" Short text encounter, I stop replying after one or 2 replies. Then again after a few days, I text her again. This time I push for a meet-up. I suggest meeting for coffee in her part of town (kinda regret this, it was quite a drive in rush hour). She says "I have no money" so I figure it was just a lame excuse...but then she texts back "but we can still meet up at a park!"

I get there before she does, when the following text conversation ensues:

HB: Where are you?
ARrocket: At the park...
HB: Are you sure? I don't see you...
HB: Wait you're white aren't you?
ARrocket: No...(I'm Indian)

She walks up, I'm already feeling a little awkward. Don't let it show. She's an inch taller than me...a little more awkward lol. Oh well, I drove all this way. We start to walk, and fluff talk ensues. There's some light kino, such as putting my hand on her lower back to lead her across a street, etc. We never met, so there is plenty to talk about. Turns out she is a high school senior even though she's only a couple months younger than me (funked???). She doesn't seem too bright. We head toward the swings, and while we're there, some male friends of hers come up. They all comment on how they like my shoes (DHV? haha).

They leave, and I start pushing her on the swing. I start by pushing her from her shoulders, then my hands get lower and lower on her back, until finally I am touching her ass every time (actual skin, her pants seemed to be falling down somewhat). I grab her arm, and lead her towards a little creek. We sit on a bench, I put my arm around her while we talk. I start escalating a little more, I start by putting my hand on her knee, and slowly moving it up to her thigh and rubbing a bit, all while keeping the conversation going. I find out she lives just 1 block away, so I'm scrambling to think of a reason to go back there. This is something I need to work on...whether it be going back to her place, or more likely, getting her back to mine!! Suggestions?

I finally just ask if she has any good movies at her place...she says "not really, but I've got a few..." I tell her "let's get moving then" (meaning back to her place). She flat out says "No, I'm tired, I want to sit some more." I didn't know what to do...I feel like I wasn't taking charge the way I should, but I had no idea what to say to that :confused:

FINALLY after a few more minutes of talking and me rubbing higher and higher on her thigh, I say "These mosquitoes are killing me, let's go." This time she complies. We get to her place, her 2 dogs are all over me. Ugh. She puts on some TV show, and sits next to me on the couch. I start caressing her hand, her thigh, finally I just look at her, and she lunges at me...she starts ramming her tongue down my throat. I get her shirt off (no bra), then her pants after awhile, I go down on her. She says "I want you inside of me" but all of a sudden, I couldn't get it up...wtf?? Performance anxiety I guess, I never had that problem before, it really sucked. She gave me head for awhile, I got hard, but then lost it again before I could fvck her. Finally we just gave up...she sure enjoyed herself, but I got nothing.

ANALYSIS:

Although I didn't really get laid, I had been in a dry spell, and this really has given me a confidence boost...with women it really is a snowball effect, once you get one, you feel like it's easy to get another, so you just go do it!!

What I need to work on, it seems, is LEADING THE INTERACTION. SHE was the one who suggested we meet at a park, and SHE flat out told me "no" when she wanted to sit on the bench. Maybe I'm not coming out as aggressive enough???

Oh well, I DID get her naked within 45 minutes of meeting her, so that's a plus (despite how slvtty she obviously is haha). Plus, it was my first white girl :rockon: Don't even know her name. I don't expect to see her again...this was 2 days ago, I texted her today, no response as expected.
 

Leporello

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Don't sweat it man. I find if I'm not really comfortable with the situation i can't really feel turned on...people always say that men are always ready to have sex but the truth is that we're more like women than we admit. if the conditions aren't right we can't perform.

I didn't know people in the US used Tagged...I'll have to check it out.
 

terran2k

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your nerves probably got to you, once you get comfortable in situations like that you'll be alrite. you did good though.
 

ARrocket

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Yeah you guys are right, it was pretty embarrassing at the time but I'm not too worried about it. Ah well, I'm moving into a new place and heading back to college in a couple of weeks, so there will be more opportunities soon :up:
 

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Nothing here was horrible. You did well in trusting your instincts. See where they got you?

Breakdown:
- Broke the kino barrier earlier and kept it escalating
- Didn't get phased by the male friends (or so it seems at least)
- Didn't shy away from touching ass - in my experience, that ALWAYS leads to at least a makeout
- Hand on the thigh technique +2 (I actually learned that from my dad!)
- Didn't get pissy/pushy/phased when she said "no" to her place the first time
- Kept escalating nonetheless so +3 for the plow (mouth said no, actions (or rather lack there of) on her part said yes! - remember, actions speak louder than words!)

Good sh!t, pretty textbook if you ask me. You got a great core, strengthen this first and THEN build on it. I feel its better to be great at one thing than average at many.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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