Killed it tonight at the bar, need a little advice though
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Purefilth
Master Don Juan
good work 
its whenever you want to bro. - just not straight away.
if theres interest on their part, its not gonna wear off if you call in 3 instead of 5.
Make it 2 days if you have time then. just base it around YOUR life and what YOU have going on.
You have the wrong attitude there- dont want to "ruin it".
take the mindset that when you call - you are giving them a chance to prove to you that they are worth the time and effort from you, that they are more than just pretty faces.
And how about a FR?
its whenever you want to bro. - just not straight away.if theres interest on their part, its not gonna wear off if you call in 3 instead of 5.
Make it 2 days if you have time then. just base it around YOUR life and what YOU have going on.
You have the wrong attitude there- dont want to "ruin it".
take the mindset that when you call - you are giving them a chance to prove to you that they are worth the time and effort from you, that they are more than just pretty faces.
And how about a FR?
This is why I don't like the 1-10 scale. They are either a 0 (you don't want to bang them) or a 1 (you want to bang them).
Don't start feeling unworthy because they are a "9."
Contact them whenever the fvck you want! Who cares if it doesn't work out? Experiment with it!
Good luck!
Don't start feeling unworthy because they are a "9."
Contact them whenever the fvck you want! Who cares if it doesn't work out? Experiment with it!
Good luck!
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
'You don't want to ruin it with these chicks'. You are already placing high value on them. You must screen them by risking losing them.
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Depends on the kind of interaction I had with the girl and the length of it.
Usually the shorter the interaction, the more swiftly I need to move to keep the connection alive. Meaning, I'll shoot her a text the same night I met her.
With girls that I've really connected with, kiss closed at the very least, I wait a few days.
And also don't get your hopes up. With girls you meet in clubs, you never know what's going to happen once their high wears off. Gotten girls numbers at bar close after a 2 minute convo and had them wanting to meet up the next day. Meanwhile, I've spent a long time with girls, thinking I had it in the bag, only to have them never respond to texts/phone calls.
You never know.
Usually the shorter the interaction, the more swiftly I need to move to keep the connection alive. Meaning, I'll shoot her a text the same night I met her.
With girls that I've really connected with, kiss closed at the very least, I wait a few days.
And also don't get your hopes up. With girls you meet in clubs, you never know what's going to happen once their high wears off. Gotten girls numbers at bar close after a 2 minute convo and had them wanting to meet up the next day. Meanwhile, I've spent a long time with girls, thinking I had it in the bag, only to have them never respond to texts/phone calls.
You never know.