Keeping your love life private

Porky

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By keeping your love life private, you can gauge the interest level of a girl. Let me explain.

Say you set up a casual get together with a girl. As often is the case, you aren't sure if it's a date or not, or how much she actually likes you. You go on the "date", kino her a little, have a good time, and that's it.

You really aren't sure where you stand with this girl. Now, a quick and easy enough way to find out is to not tell anybody about the "date." If this girl is a normal highschool girl with normal highschool friends, anything that she tells them will eventually get back to you. So, when you go into school the next day, the number of people who mention the date to you can be a good indicator of how excited she was to see you.

Think about it like this: would you call up your best friend to let them know you're hanging out with the fat chick from middle school? Nope.
Would you call up your best friend to let them know you got a date with the hot girl from science class? Yep. Would you then talk to some other people about it when you saw them? Yuh-huh. At least, girls will.

Yes, I have tried this. I went out with a girl this weekend, and besides the fact that she nearly raped me the weekend before, when I went into school I was harrangued by not only her best friend, but also our mutual friends who I hadn't told.
 

buckwheat18

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lol, i'm going have to try this sometime soon.. thanks for the info by the way!, this one gal i got her number she has quite a few friends...
 

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Porky,
I like the idea alot. I never discuss my datesbecause I like to keep that stuff private. Youve just found another reason not to say anything. Nice.
 

crimsonclockwork

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I have thought about this as well. It seems to work. Oh, and if the girl tells people 'it was just a free meal'... It probably means you should move on. :p

I don't discuss my dating life with anyone really. How about this situation? I ask a girl to go out. She tells her friends I asked her on a date (which means they all asked me about it). What would you call that in my situation? Or anyones for that matter.
 

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It does work...I just recently went on a date with an 8.5 and she seemed to tell the whole school. It was great because it boosted my social status due to the amount of publicity that had spread about our 'date'. Social Proof = Two Thumbs up!

Aust
 

LordBrian

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Nice observation. Im the kind of guy who cant help but brag to friends. Now I will try and keep my mouth shut.
 
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