Keeping your girlfriend is not about being a bad boy

[JohnPetrucci]

It's about being able to give her frequent vaginal orgasms with a big **** and being able to **** her for a long period of time.

Mautz, B.S., Wong, B.M., Peters, R.A., & Jennions, M.D. (2013). Penis size interacts with body shape and height to influence male attractiveness. Proceedings of The National Academy of Sciences, 20, 300-313.
-Penis size within itself is just as important in height in determining overall attractiveness. A large penis is not only sexually satisfying to a woman - it is aesthetic.

Brody, S., Klapilova, K., & Krejcová, L. (2013). More frequent vaginal orgasm is associated with experiencing greater excitement from deep vaginal stimulation. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 10, 1730-1736.

Brody, S., & Costa, R.M. (2012). Sexual satisfaction and health are positively associated with penile-vaginal intercourse but not other sexual activities. American Journal of Public Health, 102, 6-7.

Costa, R.M., Miller, G.F., & Brody, S. (2012). Women who prefer longer penises are more likely to have vaginal orgasms (but not ****oral orgasms): implications for an evolutionary theory of vaginal orgasm. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 9, 3079-3088.

Brody, S., & Weiss, P. (2010). Vaginal orgasm is associated with vaginal (not ****oral) sex education, focusing mental attention on vaginal sensations, intercourse duration, and a preference for a longer penis. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 7, 2774-2781.
-Only 21% of the 1000 women surveyed had reported not ever experiencing a vaginal orgasm

Lever J, Frederick D.A., & Peplau L.A. (2007). Does size matter? Men’s and women’s views on penis size across the lifespan. Psychol Men Masculinity, 7, 129–43.
-Sexual dissatisfaction was frequently related to dissatisfaction with partner's penis size.


Costa, R.M., Miller, G.F., & Brody, S. (2013). Penis size and vaginal orgasm. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 10, 2875-2876.


It's obviously not black and white. Some women have shorter vaginas than others do and can have a vaginal orgasm with a guy with a smaller penis. Some women even prefer ****oral orgasms, but the majority of them prefer vaginal orgasms. Other women just can't have vaginal orgasms altogether; however, according to Brody's research, which uses large nationally representative samples, these women are actually in the minority group. Even in the non-representative sample Kinsey studies, out of the group of women partnered with men that could last greater than 15 minutes in bed, 66% of these women had vaginal orgasms 90-100% times they had sex. Another more recent, more representative study found that 69.2% of women who participated had p in v orgasms at least 50% of the time they had sex with their current partner.

Somewhere around two thirds of women can have vaginal orgasms when they are partnered with the right men and these women that do have vaginal orgasms prefer somewhat larger than average penises. **** size matters tremendously.

MY ADVICE:

If your girlfriend is not ****ing you for reasons you can't figure out, it's probably because you're not making her come. Your penis size is just not big enough to fill her up and bring her to orgasm. There are even studies that indicate women become *****ier and are more likely to cheat in relationships when they are not having frequent vaginal orgasms. So, if you've dated multiple girls and can't make them have a vaginal orgasm with just your ****, you should dump your gf and date an asian girl with a shorter vagina.

 

[zekko]

Lol, I don't know if you're trolling or not, but I agree with you. This is a topic that isn't discussed much here, mainly because there isn't really much you can do about it. But I do think that penis size is a big component of sexual attraction, sexual satisfaction, number of sexual partners a man has, and the amount of confidence a man has with the opposite sex.

The only thing I would add is that I've always heard it wasn't so much about penis length that women liked, but girth. Ever see those diagrams and articles about the internal ****oris? Parts of the ****oris run along the vaginal wall internally, and when the penis expands the vagina it bends and stimulates the inner ****oris. It only stands to reason that a larger penis would cause more "disruption" of the area, and thus provide more stimulation.

 

[JohnPetrucci]

Lol, I don't know if you're trolling or not, but I agree with you. This is a topic that isn't discussed much here, mainly because there isn't really much you can do about it. But I do think that penis size is a big component of sexual attraction, sexual satisfaction, number of sexual partners a man has, and the amount of confidence a man has with the opposite sex.

The only thing I would add is that I've always heard it wasn't so much about penis length that women liked, but girth. Ever see those diagrams and articles about the internal ****oris? Parts of the ****oris run along the vaginal wall internally, and when the penis expands the vagina it bends and stimulates the inner ****oris. It only stands to reason that a larger penis would cause more "disruption" of the area, and thus provide more stimulation.

Not a troll at all, bro. It's a big component and you do need to work it into the advice given on here. It should be part of the criteria for entering a relationship with a girl. If she can't come from vaginal sex with you and says she likes it deep, hard, and fast, then you need to leave her and hope you find a girl with a shorter vagina (you can increase your odds by going after asians). Women act all crazy and cheat in relationships often because your **** just isn't big enough for their *****. This isn't always the case, but it explains a bunch of people's relationship problems. The biggest relationship problem it explains being when the woman wears the pants in the relationship.

Both length and girth matter. Length matters because the part of the vagina that is most stimulated during a vaginal orgasm is the deep spot. The deep spot constitutes the anterior fornix and cervix. Furthermore, these parts of the vagina are not connected to the spinal nerves, they're connected to the vagus nerve and represent a type of orgasm that is distinct from the ****oral orgasm. Women that have a significant spinal injury that leaves them paralyzed can have vaginal orgasms but not ****oral orgasms.

 

[thatfeel]

What do any of the scientific studies actually have to do with maintaining a relationship besides ascertaining the fact that most women have vaginal orgasms with big dongs? Sorry but I'm not going to read each one because the burden of proof is on you. My girlfriend has asked me many, many times why I bother worrying about size. In fact, she says it's just eye candy and always say "what are you going to do with a big ****? it doesn't even fit". My **** is really not that long, it's pretty girthy, and she has no problem telling me that I fill her up with my fat ****. I'm sure it is easy for studies to show in small samples that a "big" percentage of women don't have this or that or do experience this but I doubt c0ck length plays much of anything into the sustainability into the relationship unless you're micro or 2-3 inches hard. Being able to display skillful finesse is probably far more important, no matter how big you are.

If you want a less dogmatic view on the topic this might be worth a read.

http://www.uic.edu/orgs/cwluherstory/CWLUArchive/vaginalmyth.html

 

[Alvafe]

huh? so where is the link for your penis size pills?

 

[Bokanovsky]

Penis size obviously does matter. However, it usually matters less to attractive women, by virtue of the fact that they are slender and have tight/short vaginas. The ones that you need a baseball bat to satisfy properly tend to be land whales that most of us want nothing to do with anyway.

 

[dasein]

huh? so where is the link for your penis size pills?

Bingo. LOL. OP is clever (eh not so clever) "Extenz" troll.

If true, OP is just another reason to avoid relationships with sluts whose ankles are mounted to their ears, not a reason to worry about d-ck size. Have never known or known of a "size queen" who wasn't also problematic or disordered in other ways. A man who loses a woman because his d-ck wasn't big enough has dodged a bullet for sure.

For the vast majority of normal women, the only "study" I need on d-ck size is that Brad Pitt is worth hundreds of millions of dollars despite his penis never being seen in the movies, and Ron Jeremy is worth hundreds of thousands of dollars despite the fact that everyone knows he has a giant schlong. Case closed.

Remember folks, if she's been around with many partners, fine to play, just don't stay.

 

[speed dawg]

Penis size interacts with body shape and height to influence male attractiveness.

This is the most interesting part to me. Yeah, yeah....I agree about the physical part of having a big d*ck and a small p*ssy....that's common sense. But regarding the quote above, I definitely think a big schlong boosts confidence immensely, thus boosting attractiveness. Really that simple. I'm sure there are subtle cues like big hands, big feet and height being synonymous with a big d*ck....but the bottom line is the confidence. I don't think the majority of women out there are seeking out guys with big d*cks, they just want the confidence.