Keeping It Hard

[Juggalo]

I lost my virginity the other night and I guess where I masturbate to porn and all I couldn't stay hard...

The morning of...I masturbated twice and I guess that plus I was a little nervous...I guess that contributed to me not being able to maintain an erection.

I just need advice on how to prevent this from happening the next time that my girlfriend and I are together....

What can I do so that I'll get and stay hard when I'm with her?

 

[familyguyfan]

Practice, practice, practice. The more you do it the better you will be.

Also, it may be that when you masturbate you use a tighter grip, so you're not used to the feel of a vagina.

Another thing it could be is that you're not used to wearing a condom.

So basically what you should do is go a little looser and easier when you masturbate, and try masturbating with a condom on.

 

[GoodToTheLastDrop]

just don't masturbate so damn much.

 

[undesputable]

Originally posted by GoodToTheLastDrop
just don't masturbate so damn much.

no thats not it....i mean i could get a hard on without even touching my ****....its all in your head, the **** is just a tool to give you and the girl an orgasm...well and reproduce....so masturbating or not wont have any effect on this case i think....you just have to relax. think about how hot she is...if shes not, that might be your problem

 

[Juggalo]

Originally posted by familyguyfan
Another thing it could be is that you're not used to wearing a condom.

Didn't wear one, bro.

 

[dannowillbookem]

Originally posted by Juggalo
Didn't wear one, bro.

holy ****.

 

[GoodToTheLastDrop]

Better be careful, your first is going to be shooting them out like pez dispenser if you're not...

 

[GoodToTheLastDrop]

Yeah, foreplay isn't just for girls, just touch her and kiss her all over, and if you don't feel it then you've got bigger problems to worry about...

 

[Juggalo]

I was only pumping her for about 5 minutes but she would grab me and she acted like she was enjoying it and that she liked it. I didn't get off...

Was she faking the **** or was she really getting pleasure out of those 5 minutes?

 

[Aznkid1030]

If it was too obvious that she was liking it then she just didnt want you think you were doing something wrong

 

[jenzos]

Originally posted by Aznkid1030
If it was too obvious that she was liking it then she just didnt want you think you were doing something wrong

word.

dont girls get redder and more quiet/moaning and shaky and stuff when they are enjoying it? If they are screaming porno style, most likely they are faking it...

i dunno for sure though :woo:

 

[Plane]

Originally posted by jenzos
word.

dont girls get redder and more quiet/moaning and shaky and stuff when they are enjoying it? If they are screaming porno style, most likely they are faking it...

i dunno for sure though :woo:

dont ruin it for me haha
ignorance is bliss

 

[jenzos]

Originally posted by Plane
dont ruin it for me haha
ignorance is bliss

sorrrrrrrrrrrry mannnn

 

[Juggalo]

Well it wasn't huge moans...but she was grabbing me hard every once in awhile...I just didn't expect that.

 

[familyguyfan]

Originally posted by jenzos
word.

dont girls get redder and more quiet/moaning and shaky and stuff when they are enjoying it? If they are screaming porno style, most likely they are faking it...

i dunno for sure though :woo:

Depends on the girl. Some are just screamers.

 

[Hostium]

the more i mess with real girls, the harder it is for me to jack off/ get hard - with porn... porn doesnt really turn me on that much ne more.