Keep playing it cool and distant?

[drf408]

Honestly at this point I just want this girl,, 1 time and I'd be happy. At first I liked her for more than that, previous post -
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=156136

So she had to cancel getting together..sent me a big txt, and ended it with "We should hang out soon".

This is a weird girl, as up until the NYE thing she was great and things were clicking without even trying, then she goes cold..I deleted her # so i couldnt contact her...cant figure her out. I doubt she is pursuing me for a friend, she can barely make time for what she has. Maybe she got scared that she was getting into something? Whatever. So I replied "I agree, let me know when you're free and we will. " Should i just leave it at that and wait for her to contact me again..or get a bit more aggressive?

 

[MisterMcGee]

Wow, a girl went cold on me near NYE too... funny eh?
You should've set a date up right then and there.

 

[WC2]

Ok or you should just forget about this chick.

What do you mean you just want her 1 time? Now you're lying to not only us but yourself.

You know if you have her once, you're just going to want her again.

Besides, what do you mean by "have her"?

Anyways, all of this is irrelevant of course and you need to step back and ask yourself why you are doing this.

Why are you on an online forum asking about a girl who has not given you the time of day. However, you've given her much time on these forums.. sad.

I tend to respect the men up here who ask for advice on women who have actually dedicated time to their men. The question is warranted because she deserves it.

Your chick does not deserve this. She's blown you off (twice now?) and you're still asking us about her. Get over it. Move on.

Your life should not be that centered around women, especially ONE woman, that it dictates what you do. You should be out meeting new, beautiful, vibrant women who are just waiting to be taken by able men.

Hit the road and get some new prospects.

 

[2Pac_Makaveli]

Move on.

You said lack of action on your part hasn't helped, if she really liked you, lack of action would make her want you more and she's blown you off more than once, plenty more fishy wishys in the sea.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

I would move on tbh..Thats just me...If a girl digs you and she really has to reschedule on you she'd txt mssg you non stop aplogizing..real talk..

Shes probably gona give you the run around,bro....

 

[MisterMcGee]

if she really liked you, lack of action would make her want you more

I'd like to hear more about that. I made a thread about purposely not pursuing a girl for the time being and if it'd hurt your chances with her.