Dude listen Im in a circle that these guys are dating a couple of women in the courthouse.
To believe your point is quite naive. You live in a gynosentric social order to a very high degree.
All it takes is a female judge to have a moody morning.
There is one in this city and they tried to get her barred several times to no avail.
You believe what you want
There are laws that clearly state how much child support you can be forced to pay and laws that clearly state how much spousal support you can be forced to pay. In many states it is a calculation that is used.
Are you claiming she is overriding these things? If so she could be committing criminal acts and should be reported to the state judicial oversight board and also referred to the district attorney for prosecution.
Maybe that happens in a very few courts, most likely places out in BumFvck Egypt, but that typically doesn't happen in most places.
And no offense, but most of the time if you see that stuff happen it's because the dudes are D-Bags that think they are Gods gift to humanity.